I think for a lot of us hobbyists, quantity or having variety, is always tempting...It's always nice to see a new face or experience a new lady...However, sticking with a small group of ladies, for example, 2-5 ladies you like, is often the best way to go...But Everytime I'm ready to see a provider, I usually find myself trying to find someone new...Rather than repeating with someone, I had a great time with..I'm fairly new and I have only repeated with one lady...I guess you can say she is my ATF for now...I will see her again in the near future...Anyways, my question is, how do I resist the urge to see someone new? There are so many beautiful ladies to choose from, and it's hard to repeat with a lady, when you have so many cuties to choose from.

I guess if you put it that way....You're absolutely right my friend! LOL

Why do you feel you have to resist? I like to repeat if someone was really good but I am always up for something new. I say do both!

both...why can't You have Quality with Quantity...after All variety is the Spice of Life...before I started doing this...my Fantasy was to meet a stranger in a Hotel room and have mad Passionate Sex...lol...and now...I Live my Fantasy Everyday...and I'm Lovin it

if the constant stream of complaints about "my ATF" on these boards is any indication, quality of service seems to decline with frequent visits, and the drama level seems to increase.

Why resist the urge to see different ladies?Might have a taste for spanish one night,but maybe you want thai the next.There's so many ladies of all different colors & types to stay with just one unless you are comfortable with that.Explore that's what TER is all about finding the perfect lady or ladies for you and your taste.
jaydalee

I see about 4-5 gals regularly, but every now and then I sample a new gal.

As in all things in life, one must strike a balance.

As long as you do what you do safely don't limit yourself...it is your money lol.

If you have to "resist the urge to see someone new", don't resist it!  See someone new.

There's no right or wrong to repeating, it's whatever mix you find enjoyable.  You'll know if and when you find someone you want to revisit on a regular basis.  That is my personal preference but lots of guys prefer variety.  What you don't want to do is see someone as a "regular" because you feel you should.  When you find "her", if you do, you'll find you won't have to fight the urge.  At least not as much.

I only see a handful of ladies and try to make sure over half of those appointments are with one.

The secret to maintaining that is to book them in advance. Problem solved.