The last few local providers I have seen have showed up in jeans or very, very casual clothes.  I am not looking for a gown or anything but their hair wasn't washed and while DATY hygiene was passable, it wasn't what I would expect for a $400-600 appointment.

Am I expecting too much that they should put a little effort into appearance and cleanliness?

I would be interested in hearing other opinions on this.

Too bad I can't use the same process on my dirty mind!

Looks like you have discovered that this hobby is not what it use to be. I have noticed the same thing. Plus they demand work numbers which is a no no.

I suggest that you find a new hobby and go back to school for a PHD. This hobby is a major time waster. If enough clients and potential clients stop the quality will get better.

There are way to many fools who will spend money to get a quick piece. Learn how to get real women for free. There are lots of them out there. You just have to do a little bit of work.

Why are you posting on this board if you're looking to bash providers?  Just curious.

Quality is what you seek out.  By and large you get what you look for.  I happen to prefer hobbying over finding a "real" woman, whatever that means.  The variety with hobbying is much better.  Believe me, I can have several "real" women if I wanted them.

SO...Is it now permanently hung out to dry?

Cheers CiCi!

It seems to me it is the women you do actually get for free who are not the "real" ones, lacking so much in self-esteem that it almost doesn't qualify as a relationship.  As for the other "free" arrangements, they have hidden costs, and either you do pay directly or indirectly, to very high costs, or you pass the bill on to somebody else.  (You might say, somebody still gets 'stiffed,' and more than likely, your partner.)  Far better to pay outfront and be able to count your gains immediately and cut your loses when you choose to.

If enough clients stop the quality will get better?  Are you talking about stopping yourself, or are you persuading others to drop out so you could collect on the improved quality?  I assume it's the latter.  Very devious.        

/Zin

I PRESUME business attire unless otherwise noted. It also depends on where I'm meeting him, too, of course, in which case jeans would be less conspicuous. However, I ask first.

If reviews state enough times that you were disappointed in her grooming or attire, then it would hopefully bring about change.

Dirty hair and not clean?? Can't imagine..

In fact, I will do a thread about it..

However, in regards to this thread's topic, the consumer is at least a minimum of 50% of the 'demand setting' regarding the hobby experience!

Your comment: This hobby is a major time waster. If enough clients and potential clients stop the quality will get better.

You know the ol' saying, "If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem". State these things in your reviews, communication with the ladies on the phone and in emails and HAVE the quality you desire, and SHOULD have! To 'stop', as you say, and do nothing is just as weak and poor as their bad service or quality.

Most providers I know wear something very nice. I've seen them in jeans, at times, because of the requests from their clients. A lot of younger college students wear jeans because it's fashionable to do so. You're the client -- just ask them to wear a particular outfit and if she has it in her closet, then I'm sure she wouldn't mind wearing it. However, discretion is a must in certain places. I, for one, wouldn't want to walk into a hotel lobby in daisy dukes and a halter top with six-inch heels. I prefer a pretty sundress, a form-fitting business suit or anything that looks classy but sexy.

Hugs,
Ciara

I will let the gentleman know up front, that I will NOT dress up, going into a hotel. Nor, do I look like I just came in from some back alley way, either lol . There are ways to still be presentable, while dressing down. I could never imagine not taking a shower, before I ever leave my household!!!! As one of my reviews stated about me (which is so true! lol), I am very clean person, and I expect my company to be of the same nature

I feel more comfortable doing incalls, for it is what I had started out doing, and still do mostly, to this very day. I am in my own environment, and if I want to wear the red polka dotted nighty, with the open-croteched thong, then damn skippy, I am going to wear it, in the privacy of my hotel room! If an outcall client is requesting me to wear it to him, then I will be wearing it underneath my dress-down clothes to him, where I can change into it, within the privacy of his hotel room. The hotel does not need to know my business, who I am, where I am from. Just that I am a visitor to the hotel, where I am minding my own business like every one, who visits there

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WELCOME BACK, MISS SEDONA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!