"A man doesnt pay an escort for sex, he pays her to go away afterwards." I'm sure a few of you have heard that phrase before. But on the other side of the coin, I've created a phrase, "A provider doesn't take a man's money in exchange for sex, she takes his money so he'll go away afterwards."
See, any women who respects herself, will need a man to give her respect before she will be intimate with him. There are various forms of respect. Some women require marriage as the form of respect. Some need diamonds and a car, some ask for committment, and there is also the almighty dollar that is requested. You will need to give some form of respect if you want to be with a women who respects herself.  When a women asks for a $ donation, she has decided the form of respect she desires, and therefore, will give to you what you ask for in return. In my opinion, the day a man needs to start worrying that a provider is getting emotional over him, is the day when she decides to change the $ form of requested respect. If she one day says to you, "I dont want you to pay" then you should know that it's most likely another form of respect she seeks... possibly the commitment kind! As long as she accepts your $, you should feel no fear of her emotional attachment. If she ever says, "I like to too much to take $" well, you know she's moved to a different emotional level and this is the time you need to either back off or discuss if the feelings are mutual.
Hope this makes sense. I spend most of my waking hours analyzing things, and this is the conclusion Ive come up with on this particular subject.


-- Modified on 9/15/2007 7:19:40 PM