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TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 2814 reads
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1 / 39

Over the past several sessions, have noticed one action by a girl that bothers me. Was wondering if I was in a minority or if others feel the same way.

 
Once session ends and when I'm getting ready to leave, I'm always surprised to see the lady all dressed up without taking a shower. I just had my saliva all over her body and now it is all on the dress.  

 
Don't know how to bring this to the attention of the ladies. Seen agency girl and independents, new and experienced, mature and young - do this.

 
Any thoughts?

Drumguy25 23 Reviews 65 reads
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2 / 39

They walk me to the door, but see nothing except the sexy jiggle of her ass. In other words...nothing but heels, or a robe at most. Maybe the agency charges them for extra water usage? Joking...of course.

mrfisher 111 Reviews 61 reads
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3 / 39

Nearly all I know hop in the shower before they dress, if they dress at all.  

Saliva is one of the lesser toxic bodily secretions, but the idea of it is still a bit gross.

TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 64 reads
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4 / 39

It is not just the robe, even that is not desirable. Many times I've seen them go back to the lingerie they had on when they opened the door and that does not work for me.

 
Of course, not all girls do that. But more than a handful have and I do not know how to delicately put that across. These are not BP girls, but girls with 300+ rates.

 
Perhaps I should invite the girl to take a shower with me when I go in (even though the last thing I do before leaving for a session is take a shower and put on fresh clothes). Would girls be okay with this?

-- Modified on 3/18/2018 11:20:51 AM

luminarygoddess See my TER Reviews 72 reads
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5 / 39

I enjoy showering after with the gentleman, but not always sure of how the client might feel about showering together. I ask; if they aren’t interested, or look uncertian I’ll read the room and shower at home. I think it’s a nice thing to end with and frankly (if I did it right) my makeup and hair are trashed afterward anyway so let’s soap up! Lol

ROGM 65 reads
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6 / 39

As long as she's showered and clean when she sees me. Doesn't matter to me if she doesn't shower before seeing the next client.

TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 64 reads
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7 / 39

might have missed the point.

 
Never said that she wouldn't take a shower before a session. After taking the shower, if she puts on the same set that she put on when she ended a previous session then she ain't that clean for you.

Drumguy25 23 Reviews 58 reads
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8 / 39

The way I see it...the meter is running on your dime. You have a right to be sure you're dealing with spring fresh flesh.

TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 57 reads
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9 / 39

You're right. But I'd rather have a shower on my meter to ensure she's clean without clothes from past sessions affecting the mood...

 
But indeed, a very difficult topic to bring up..

harborview 10 Reviews 67 reads
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10 / 39

Fav HE AMP...  she only goes topless & does indeed wash at the sink in the room before re-dressing.  

NorahLucille See my TER Reviews 61 reads
posted
11 / 39

you may be overthinking this? Putting on the same clothes doesn't mean she's going to continue wearing that dress. It means she's giving you the "I'm getting ready, you should leave" signal since sometimes y'all take nakedness as an invitation to linger and fondle a little longer.

I'm not sure why you're bothered by this? What indication do you have that the dress is worn repeatedly? How can you know that?

69Camaroman 64 reads
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12 / 39
Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 74 reads
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13 / 39

I kept "girly" soaps, shower gels, and disposable shower caps in a drawer in my bathroom. My ATF had a her own toothbrush in the drawer as well AND I kept about a dozen new ones for anyone who asked for one.  
Many ladies took a quick shower, but a few just dressed and rushed out, but I'm  hinking they freshenerd up at the next client's place... at least I hope they did.

ROGM 78 reads
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14 / 39

Why is everyone so concerned about if she showers or changes her clothes for the next client?  Is this really  a valid concern for everyone?  If she showers and changes her clothes for the next client I could care less. As long as she's clean and showered for me is all I care about before we play.

Gisele23 See my TER Reviews 66 reads
posted
15 / 39

I will leave my two cents, as I am a provider and do this sometimes.

First, My time with my client is OUR time, I have no intentions of spending it in the shower, nor do I believe he would appreciate having to wait on me.

Second, I will slip on a robe while my client is in the shower. And walk him  to the door that way.  
As much as I love being naked, I found that if I do not cover up after we are finished, most clients
tend to over stay their time, So Slipping on a robe is also a gentle gesture of saying, 'See you later..'

And last, my incall is an hour drive from my actual home.
I do not see multiple clients in one day. Most of the time, if it is an afternoon date, I try to get on the road back home before traffic gets bad, so I   will clean off, get dressed and head home. There I can take my long shower, at home, and relax afterwards.

I do hope this response gives you a different perspective as to why some of us do this.
Anyway, I would think you find it hot that I am not rushing to get your sloppy kisses off my body ;-)

BentleyBarbie See my TER Reviews 63 reads
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16 / 39

never do i put my clothes back on ,,, you will see nakedness as you walk out . 🌹

zorrf 81 reads
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17 / 39

You're making a lot of assumptions based on a very limited observation.  You don't know what the fuck is going on after you leave, and you're kind of an asshole for assuming the worst.  

Edited for grammar

-- Modified on 3/19/2018 4:04:17 AM

ToniLove See my TER Reviews 73 reads
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18 / 39

How do you know you're not "the next client"?  
I shower before and after seeing anyone.  I may wait til they leave but I have to wash my ass! Lol
What if a guy came in her tits and you were just sucking them?  
XOXO  
TL

ROGM 70 reads
posted
19 / 39

Posted By: terrilynn
Re: Am I Missing The Point Of All This?
How do you know you're not "the next client"?  
 I shower before and after seeing anyone.  I may wait til they leave but I have to wash my ass! Lol  
 What if a guy came in her tits and you were just sucking them?  
 XOXO  
 TL
The girls I see have very clean hygiene. I never worry about the girls not showering before they see me. Sometimes I shower with her before we play.  

OliviaLux See my TER Reviews 71 reads
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20 / 39

This is a great question!

As someone posted previously, if I just hang around naked my clients will take that as an invitation that I don't have anywhere to be for the next couple of minutes and they will linger. I will usually throw on a robe and then shower after they leave. I don't like showering when the client is still in the room because I don't like wasting their time, and my stuff is in that room and when I started out a client took my panties while I was in the shower.  

I want to be able to clean myself thoroughly between each client and that takes time. I never schedule my clients close together because I need at least an hour to clean, get moisturized, change etc. And that includes having multiple sets of lingerie/outfits with me because if one gets messy, you need a new set.  

I think you're making a big assumption that just because she's not showering in your presence/putting on her original outfit, that's the thing she's wearing for the rest of the day. Professional girls definitely do not do that. If you think it's gross for her to have your saliva all over her body all day, she probably thinks the same. It takes a lot of time to look pretty and professional for you, and it ruins the illusion when you step into the shower as the client watches and you come out with your hair in a gross bun and your makeup all messed up from the steam. If it really bothers you though, I'm sure you can ask your provider to shower either before you meet up, or if you want to really be nice/careful, bring her a new set of lingerie to slip on :)

Arden_James 58 reads
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21 / 39

I echo what my fair lady friends say. Do not assume we remain in whatever we put on after! More times than not, I shower with my friends and then slip into a robe. But that is just a cursory shower, and part of the fun.  

In instances where I do slip back into my clothing, I can guarantee you that I’m NOT going to wear that for my next friend. Like someone else said, I maintain a relatively light schedule to offer the highest caliber, customized experience for each friend. As such, I will shower MUCH more thoroughly (hitting all of my 2000 body parts) and select a brand-new beautiful outfit for my next friend.

I myself am a curious person and invite curiosity in others, so I am happy you posed the question in this safe space. However, I think we’ve exhausted the topic, allowing you to hopefully rest assured that your limited observation is only a figment of the full reality.

And if this continues to bother you, I gently invite you to discuss this directly with your lady friends, and/or re-evaluate the caliber of women you’re seeing (said in love). :-)

Keep having fun out there!
AJ (Arden James)

TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 67 reads
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22 / 39

Yes, I think you're missing the point.

 
The point is not whether they take a shower before your visit. The question is - Is the lingerie clean or was it put on after a prior session but before a shower.

 
Agree completely with terrilynn's question - How do you know you're not "the next client"?  

 
A shower before a session does make the issue go away.

TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 67 reads
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23 / 39

Wow! Such a nice contribution to the thread.

 
Perhaps you'd now provide your input to some other posts and not waste your precious time on this topic.

TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 79 reads
posted
24 / 39

that the girl is NOT taking a shower prior to her next session.

 
My question was about putting on the same lingerie (after the session) that needs to be thrown in the laundry and not be used again even after she takes a shower.

TheNativesMan 41 Reviews 56 reads
posted
25 / 39

not surprised to see such diverse opinions.

 
What I was trying to gather
- How okay is it to ask girl to take shower with me before session?
- How to request that a fresh pair of lingerie be worn before a session?
This is just a sensitive topic as can be seen by the responses so far.

Also, like I mentioned, NOT ALL providers have done this. Many have given me 'naked farewells'. Many have taken a 'goodbye shower' with me.  

 
Except for one girl who got ready while I was taking a shower, put on the same lingerie and was getting ready for the next appointment. Now cannot get myself to visit her though I visited her multiple times in the past.

HappyChanges 80 reads
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26 / 39

super cute. I don't think the OP is talking about ladies like you. He's talking about providers that operate sweat shops similar to the provider below.

GraceEvangeline See my TER Reviews 59 reads
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27 / 39

I do put clothes on at the end of a date, but I assure you if I’m seeing anyone else, I’m showering and wearing fresh clothing. I’m just not walking you to the door naked nor am I walking out the door naked.

Drumguy25 23 Reviews 60 reads
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28 / 39

That's perfectly logical reasoning I can get behind.

ROGM 72 reads
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29 / 39

Really? So now the question is if she wears the same clothes seeing a previous client or wear a new set of clothes before seeing the next client. Who freaking cares? Is this an issue for some of you? If it is then you got some serious psychological problems.

silkynsweet See my TER Reviews 62 reads
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30 / 39

1. It's perfectly okay to ask a provider to shower beforehand so you will be more comfortable. I doubt that she hasn't already showered, but it's definitely a fair question. If she declines, remember that she has that right.
2. It is even more okay to ask for a fresh set of lingerie to be worn. Communication is everything and if you want her to bring a clean set to put on in front of you after her shower, asking before the meeting is the best way to achieve that.

cks175 44 Reviews 69 reads
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31 / 39

If she was fresh when she met you, safe to assume she’ll be fresh when she meets you next time.

Sidney Starr See my TER Reviews 77 reads
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32 / 39

Maybe the girl is cold , maybe she wants to run out to her car , maybe she wants to run to CVS, or to the soda machine. Maybe she just wants to be clothed. Did you lick her head to toe? Not many actually do that. Did you spray all over her? I mean most reputable ladies are freshly cleaned before a client walks into their room.  You are overthinking it for sure. And her jeans for example who knows when they were last washed. What's the difference between her putting on her clothes after you , or her wearing one pair of underwear all day.

impposter 49 Reviews 78 reads
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33 / 39

Most of us have a "kit" that we keep in the car or briefcase so we are prepared for play on short notice (mouthwash, condoms, compass, blue pill, ...). My kit includes some items that I like to work into the foreplay aspect of my meetings -- just to put myself at ease.
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I bring Semen Detection Test Strips and Bacteria Test Strips.  
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http://www.amazon.com/Semen-Detection-Test-Strips-Infidelity/dp/B00152LYDY
"Do you have a clothing item or stain you need to test for the presence of semen? The Semen Detection Test Strip gives instant results. A positive result turns the test strip bright purple."  
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http://www.amazon.com/Quick-15-Minute-Bacteria-Test-Strips/dp/B007VCL44G#feature-bullets-btf
"Easy-to-use, dip-and-read Quick™ Bacteria Test Strips detect E. coli, species of Salmonella, Shigella, Enterobacter, Klebsiella, and many other coliform and noncoliform bacteria. Get reliable on-site results in only 15 minutes—other bacteria tests may take up to 48 hours to produce results."
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It's a real conversation starter as I swab her boobs and pussy and we wait for colors to develop ... or not!  If she wants, I let her swab the twig and berries and when the test comes back negative for anything toxic, I get a worry-free, enthusiastic sucking and licking!  
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I don't see why any hostess would object to such a simple thing as test swabbing. On the plus side for her, we have to wait 15 minutes for the bacteria strips to develop and that comes out of my clock time (and cock time!).
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I mean, what's the problem?

Posted By: TheNativesMan
Once session ends and when I'm getting ready to leave, I'm always surprised to see the lady all dressed up without taking a shower. I just had my saliva all over her body and now it is all on the dress.

Arden_James 67 reads
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34 / 39

......and I love you for it, impposter! You just keep doing you! You helped me with some newbie questions a while back re:my website and images; hope we can meet one day so I can test those strips with you!

Xoxo,  
Arden

impposter 49 Reviews 76 reads
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35 / 39

Cake and sploshing is more up mrfisher's alley. But for those concerned about maintaining a low-calorie sugar relationship, there are test strips for that, too!  Moisten the strip and swipe the frosting or filling.  
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If the cake is too sugary for you, focus on eating something else.  
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http://www.amazon.com/Keto-Diastix-Reagent-Strips-Ketone-Glucose/dp/B074NC8KR6/ref=sr_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1521656857&sr=8-2&keywords=keto-diastix
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EDIT: removed pic; too big

-- Modified on 3/21/2018 7:17:19 PM

Arden_James 70 reads
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36 / 39

....BETTER, impposter!  

Well, I AM on a sugar-free diet, but I'm still pretty sweet to feast on. (Can you tell the spring equinox has me feeling certain ways?)

It's all about options, really....

Mommascomin 56 reads
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37 / 39

putting on clothes is a way to get guys out the door rather than saying "times up"

Bluecourtney See my TER Reviews 61 reads
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38 / 39

And then immediately shower as soon as we say goodbye. I don’t continue to wear the clothes or lingerie. Usually I switch into casual clothes or lately full winter gear. It’s not like as soon as one is over the next one begins.  

Eden

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