This was just way too hot!!!!!  Was with this amazingly Greek god-like, very bright, accomplished, incredibly sexy, family guy twice before for an utterly amazing few hours each time -- to-die-for hot times, and with our various schedules, couldn't meet up again until four mos later, the other night for an overnight.  Was UNBELIEVABLE and that's such an understatement....

15 hours together non-stop, slept maybe an hour here or there, always intertwined, embracing, kissing as we slept, sweet scent of each other's sex the entire night, waking every hour or two for more....  Would love to see him again, but need to draw a line -- though he's literally perfect -- slim, fit, brilliant, athletic, sensitive, interesting (we share so many similar interests!!!), passionate, loves to please, and performs like he's from another planet for 15 hours!!!

I really think I shouldn't see him again.  We kiss like there's no tomorrow, yet he's married with family.  I can do fine keeping my distance and maintaining a professional relationship (have had several other relationships like this, believe it or not, that were mutually deeply satisfying and rather long-term, and I can draw the line w/o getting too terribly attached), but don't want him to mess up his personal life and work life (he's been taking a lot of time off a crazily busy schedule emailing, calling, and now visiting cross-country!!!)

Told him my thoughts -- that it's got to remain professional due to his status (I've been firm on maintaining the monetary guidelines, as I always am), yet I still wonder if we're getting too deep.  He could easily travel to meet me one day next week, but this is really too insane, so I told him I was tied up and that we needed a break.

Again, have directly told him it's strictly professtional (though obviously he senses my uncontrollable mutual attraction!), and that I do not wish to mess with his family/ work obligations, so told him we'd have to retain professional limitations or else end.  Though being with him is absolutely UNBELIEVABLE!!!!!!!!!  Still shaking my head about it... -- like so many men have wondered, 'is it real/not real' -- yes, it's sometimes very real (rarely, but sometimes), though with considerable boundaries of which both parties have to be aware!!!

I'm feeling the same way about my new ATF I've been seeing for a couple months now (about 6-7 times).  We've really connected, but haven't had a heart to heart talk yet, which I think is over due.

Although with less than 24 hours together "under your belts"...
it's probably LUST!

Cheers!...and Good luck on how you proceed.

For me, the rose-colored glasses fall off about the 3rd or 4th date. Then you realize that Mr. Perfect has a few blemishes.

But that's OK...those early dates can be hot.

he's also gorgeous and has a great body. Honestly, would you still be attracted to him if he were not so hot?  It's easy to feel like he's your knight in shing armor when he semms to have everything you desire. The true test of love comes when his physique starts to fall apart or you find an annoying habit he has that drives you insane, but you still want to be with him.  I think what you're feeling may be lust, but have fun. This may only come along a few times in your life (or many). One never knows. Set your limit then go for it. Remember the old saying, "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have been loved."

Hugs,
Ciara

I'll be wearing my Maui Jim's and no blemishes...

Cheers!