I Think most prefer GFE From my own experience,  but ..When a man chooses Porn Star experience.. Is it because you want to take A Walk On The Wilder Side once or more in your lifetime?

Don't know bout anyone else, but I am not here for love or the illusion of love or a girlfriend experience.
I'm not looking to enter the dim or flat out dark candle lit hotel room with soft music and have a romantic time with a provider. I save that for my real life.

When I am seeing a provider It's because I love to fuck, suck and lick pussy, plain and simple. When I see a provider I am not looking for a gentle romantic hour together in the dark. I'm looking to fuck and suck, with the lights on, on top of the covers, or on the floor, or on the arm of the couch, or bathroom vanity or coffee table or wherever the fuck else I can think of to fuck at the time. Looking at a checklist of the standard GFE terms I tick more of those boxes than PSE boxes like Anal or COF etc.  I just want to fuck like I am fucking a steady girlfriend on a Saturday afternoon romp, not like after a nice meal and bottle of wine on a Friday night.  

TP

Both have an allure for me, but PSE is harder to pull off, plus you have to offer Greek, COF, etc. which many gals balk at, so GFE has become the default. Gals who offer both almost always charge a premium for PSE, further enforcing GFE as the norm.  

I do recall the old days however of "do-me-baby"🤗

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Certain PSE activities, such as COF, seem exciting in porn and I occasionally think I would like to partake.  Yet while I'm actually enjoying time with a lady, my interest in such things usually disappears.  Once, while a bit tipsy and visiting an extremely accommodating provider, I requested COF and she said yes.  It was interesting, but the thrill I had been anticipating just wasn't there.  Everybody's different, but for me, the porn star experience works more in fantasy than reality.  

Just another title to put on the menu of options to charge more.

I like both. A beautiful woman with a healthly sexual appetite who will fuck your brains out then lay in your arms while you both bask in the afterglow.  Is that too much to ask?

My understanding is the difference between the two is a few things Trips to Greece  Cof ... seem to be it... if that's all their is then I pass on PSE.. neither are important to me. Also I have had very PSE like experiences that were pretty cold.. so unless I am missing something GFE all the way... Note all my girlfriends have been open minded

Ohh LA LA

The activities that are in my filters when I'm doing a search are kissing, BBBJ and DATY. So, i guess that fits in the GFE description.  
I do enjoy Greek but it's not a must do for me and I couldn't give a shit about COF .

But, I also go another way with some ladies. I enjoy being tied up, flogged and spanked or  tease and denial sessions.  Then end in a GFE mode.

Well, that's got me all horny!!!!!

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expect to fuck her ass. Reflecting on a prior post ....  
WITH LUBE

Your A bad boy, and Should Be Spanked over my Lap Xoxo

I like GFE.  As long as I get passionate DFK I'm good with whatever happens next but I'm generally fairly conservative sexually.

I'm in the hobby to live out my wilder fantasies. So GFE is cool, but I'd prefer a PSE experience or a combination of both.
PSE to me means GREEK, COF, CIM and BBBJ, Kissing with tongue, etc. GFE doesn't feel like a fantasy to me if you have a mate already. But that's just my two cents.

...first of all...i think its hard to find a real GFE anyway...when it comes to real "tongue in mouth" kissing/touching-holding etc...its hard with someone i haven't been with..but when it works-most of my GFE's have turned into PSE's anyway....we become regular hangs!!!....

I'm a lover so I like GFE

And all the opening night jitters are over and we're all comfy, then it's balls out. But I don't start my date with the intention of it being a PSE.

Suspense... I like it

I'd tap that! Wow ... Oooops. I did already ...lol

GFE (60 min):
20 min foreplay, 20 min sex, 20 min cuddling, unless multiple pops are allowed, in which case I would like to alternate between the 3 at 10 min intervals.

 
PSE (60 min):
20 min strip tease and lapdance combination to the sound of, "Birthday Sex" by Jeremih, or R. Kelly's 2003 Ignition remix, and other sultry R&B tunes of the like, all while I'm laid back in a big comfy couch sipping on a glass of my favorite champagne. 20 min sex, which would most likely start out with her being in my lap, and end up on the bed finishing in doggystyle. The last 20 mins would be spent kissing and cuddling.

 
Who is in agreement with my prescribed method?

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