Please clean out your hobby email boxes. Delete your voice mails, delete your call lists, delete all your text messages...

Clean your hobby laptop, delete all your cookies, all your history, everything that has any links or ties to your hobby life. Do not collect photos of escorts, not on your phone, not on your laptop.

Do not use anything that is identifiable as your handle on TER. Do not take your hobby phone in your house. Do not bring anything hobby related around your wife. Women are very nosey.

I found it was much easier to just get rid of the wife.lol

Seriously, I don't know how married hobbyists do it. The attention to detail required is way too much for my little ADD brain!

Muy mas trabahar!! F-- that. Just marry the damn provider.

... if you think for one minute you are fooling any woman with an IQ above room temperature ... you are deceiving yourself.

All that stuff is just evidence to confirm what she already suspects from a million and one observations you aren't even aware she is making.

But the ones that find out can make a guy's life a living hell AND the lady they think he's been stepping out (or in) with.

xoxo,

Steph

Simple.

1.) Use Chrome incognito mode for everything on the web
2.) cell phone with 6 lock out code and 15 second timeout

=  nothing for the wife to see or find out.

Have to:

Do Something about it.   Difficult to think about.  Just pretend that all is well, and things are fine.  

That's just some women...

I've been asked to do some things I am SURE the wife is very happy NOT to be doing ...

Some ladies are happy to be un or less burdened by having to f*ck their husbands. .......
While continuing to enjoy his bank account and possessions.  

While I'm pretty sexually vanilla; without regard to sexual content -- I can absolutely see that as long as a guy keeps it discreet so his wife is not embarassed; some wives are more than happy to have the job of sex outsourced to a specialist.

In fact, in some cases, the relationship at home is improved when the guy doesn't bother his wife for sex anymore.

If most are simply unaware.

I DO wonder, though, how much of that lack of awareness is a result of selective blindness.