Let’s say you have a regular client you trust, and he has a friend he wants you to see but, he doesn’t want him to know you are a provider. You sort of  bump into him at a bar etc, spend a couple of hours “having fun” together, you leave, he doesn’t have to know his buddy paid for it. Would you be willing to do something like this? Obviously assuming all arrangements are to your liking, only thing is you have to keep it a “secret”.
Thanks.

I spent about 25K to hire 6 hot providers from an ex-agency in NYC for my best friend's Bachelor party, and they were told to act like they are my friends and not providers... they loved the idea, and were very good actors,....well there were many hot guys there (besides me) and they all ended up in bedrooms at the end of party anyway..

lol.

As long as I trusted my client, I would love to be his little "secret". I'm having visions....so HOTT!

That is exactly how I got into this Hobby.

For my best friend's milestone birthday, we were going to spend the weekend in Vegas.  He hadn't had any action in quite a while (kind of his choice), but he was feeling like he was going to burst.

I had the idea of hiring him a massage with a happy ending.  Thought maybe I could hire someone to visit him in his hotel room.  After much research, I realized the only way to do this was to hire an escort.  After lots of selfless research on my part, I stumbled across TER.  I immediately bought the VIP and was astonished (and a little titillated) when I realized the extent of the information available and the beauty of many of the providers.

I eventually picked a highly reviewed provider from Vegas and sent an exploratory email explaining what I was looking for.  She responded positively and I eventually (nervously) called her.  Remember, I was a complete newbie to the whole scene.  After a fun phone conversation, we had worked out an entire scenario.

I could barely wait for the day to arrive.  I had a separate room reserved for him, champagne on ice, card with gift already included in a previously arranged spot.  I was torn by both excitement and slight jealously as we waited at the hotel bar for her to arrive.  He was looking forward to a decent massage.  I had told him that I had asked specifically for a woman (no guarantees on her appearance), but they could possibly send a man.  Based on her photos and reviews, I knew that she was going to be stunning!

In the end, it all fell apart due to a complete newbie error on my part.  Doh!!

But, after I returned to the real world, I realized that I still had 15 days of VIP left and thought, "What could it hurt to check out what's available in my area?"  Well, here I am posting on this board and have multiple encounters under my belt (so to speak).

To answer your question, if you pick the right provider and are very clear and straight forward in your communications with her, it could turn out great.  Just don't make any stupid newbie mistakes like I did.

Good luck.  Let us know how it turned out.

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The only problem is that it was for a whole weekend, and we ended up liking each other too much, and he wanted to continue with a relationship. That would have been difficult to keep a secret, but fortunately he lived in another country so the communication just fizzled out before I had to contemplate what to do. I know it made his friend very nervous, too.

I think if you do something like this, you should let the guy know afterward that you were very attracted to him, but you just wanted to see what it was like to fuck someone and leave. Would I do it again without complications? Yes! But remember: If the guy ever found out it could hurt his feelings.

Hugs,
Ciara

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and will probably tell their pals about the setup.

I'm trying to think how I would react to that.

I think I'd be a little bit crestfallen.

I think it's cool that a guy wants to do this for a friend, but I cannot imagine how I'd feel if my girlfriends set me up with a male escort, only to find out his feelings for me were fake and paid for by my friends. In some way, I'd feel it was a nice gesture on their part, but I'd be very hurt to think I couldn't get a nice-looking man on my own and they wanted me to believe this guy was really into me.

Believe me, it's getting harder and harder for good-looking men to approach me in a bar. The majority of nice-looking guys hit more on the younger ladies (at least in Snottsdale - I mean "Scottsdale"). If I'm ever going to be with a male escort, then I'd like to know where I stand ahead of time.

Hugs,
Ciara

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yes, as long as the gentleman who sets it up is someone I have seen and know I can trust.   I think it would be rather fun!

absolutely, i have to say i agree as well. It would be a fun role to play.

It would be soooo much fun!  I've had a husband arrange something like that for his wife actually not so long ago.  Lady loved other ladies and he wanted us to spend an evening without her knowing that my time was compensated for.

Lina

ive been in that situation one hell of a great night and the birthday boy had an ego boost that he deserved. the coordinator is a dear man . the birthday boy shear xtc