"But why would a provider who I've seen a bunch of times, I've helped out on several occasions, just want to up sell a good paying regular."

 Once she knows you are an easy mark she will always treat you like one.
 
 Remember,  You are the customer, she is the clerk.  

       She isn't really your GF.

There are plenty of other stores who won't change the price when you are ready to purchase.

If she gave me the incall location and then changed  the price,

 I would definitely dump her.
 

Please use:
-a dictionary because you do not understand the meaning of the word upsell
-spellchecker because you have a dozen typos in one post
-a mirror to make sure you are not totally delusional. Your comment that she should charge you less is hilarious! You started to see her for a "great 30 min donation" as you said. In other words, you are too cheap to pay for an hour session. She is trying to convert you to her normal price instead of the new client special and you call that upselling? Guys like you are the reason why so many providers don't do half hour sessions.
She was very nice about it in her text message. Most women would have just bluntly told you to please bring X amount because that's the price, period. She doesn't have to justify her prices to you. If she wants to raise it, she can. If you don't like it, don't see her. No need to tire us with your whining.

You let them get away with it once and they'll continue the practice. Bail on the witch. I have in the past, boy was she ticked. Pretentious little trollop.

Was on my way out the door to see a provider I've been seeing a lot for a great 30min donation.  We set the time, and she even gave me her in call location before hand.  As I'm pulling out of the drive way, she sends me a text stating

"Please don't get mad, but that min special I've given you was for only when we first met. I just didn't know how to tell you that my rates for that services I give you was for only one time."

Grant I've seen providers who have given me nice discounts, and tell me before hand this is a one time deal, so don't ask for it again. But why would a provider who I've seen a bunch of times, I've helped out on several occassions, just want to up sell a good paying regular.

We've never had any drama, and we both get a long well. I wouldn't mind paying the upsell, it's just her sessions a very basic. I personally don't why I should pay more. If anything I should actually being less.

Dont be anyone's reg -- if you're seeing her too frequently she might think you have more change to spare and can afford more and she's repricing you.

ho's do this all the time, its called price discrimination (the same way airlines & universities do it) and it applies to anything that isnt subject to arbitrage (you cant resell her session)

Who the fuck books for 30 minutes? Really? What's the fucking point?

I'm sure you're making her day, 30 minutes for WTF ever she charges you. Not me. The front of my pelvice still hurts from the night before last and it sure as shit wasn't a 30 minute deal!

I don't know. Must be ignorant I guess. Lady went over the clock, three pops from me, you do the math.

Just illustrates that while a business transaction, not the same as buying widgets and feelings on both sides.

Very odd if the events played out as you have reported here. I suspect many details have been left out.


No need for either to complain though. If you want her, do it. If not, don't! Many fresh fish in the sea.

I used to have several clients who took specials on half hours, hours etc. very early on from me and even as I continued to grow and raise rates just "kept their own rate' or in some instances made up their own rate.

I'm not what you would call shy, but I am sensitive about money and discussing money, especially with regulars.

So you know what suffered? My attention to them and willingness to provide to them exactly how I provided to everyone else...which made me feel horrible.

Something had to give and I had to tell each of them individually "look, this is not my rate.  You've always taken this rate...and I've never said this rate is unacceptable because it made me uncomfortable and you do visit all the time".

Most of them got with it, a couple of them moved on.

Oh and this is not uncommon - I was just talking with a girlfriend @ $500 an hour about grandfathering?  She said would prefer not to grandfather but just takes whatever her regulars give her.

Its pretty obvious to me as a provider that this girl isn't trying to get over to you.  The amount you give her just isn't acceptable to her but she's stayed mum because you are a regular.

And the OP must be stupid.  Providers are in this to make money, not to please his ignorant clueless ass. lol

I usually tip my regular favorite ladies for treating me well.

I didn't read any of your reviews, just scanned the rates and websites.  Seems like you working mostly at the lower end of the spectrum, and will readily engage in short duration appointments.  Not my style, but...

Be that as it may, I would suggest that if you wish to continue seeing this lady, that you make up the shortfall, and tip her at least $50 next time you see her.  If you feel she is trying to take advantage of you or treating you unfairly,  then it is to walk, and take your business elsewhere.

I've been in your same situation. I've changed now if it does occur again.

Here's only 1 of my similar scenario. Just like you, I've seen a provider for about 6x's, then I called her for my 7 or so appointment. She said there will be an up charge. Didn't make any sense to me. So, I went a long with it. Same service, same women, this time, I am paying more, then, I will be paying more in the future.

Here is my conclusion, and you probably would agree base on your statements. We as clients wouldn't understand why she would up-charge regulars like us. In our opinion, that would only discourage future appointments. We have already invested multiple past appointments, so, shouldn't we be entitled to the same rate, and possible even a discounted rate? It make sense to us as hobbyist.

IMO why providers up-charge regulars. Money is #1. Personality, character, if we thought we got along, if we thought we connected. None of those thing matters, but money. Sorry to be so blatant--its just IMO. Another reason, she may think that we r her regulars, but we have the decision on who we chose as regulars.

So, every time when that same situation happens again, I simply cancel the appointment and never see the same provider again. She may think I need her, or see her regularly, but what she fails to understand is, there is a competitive market of other providers.

After I stop seeing providers that up-charge me, here are their responses: "R u being mean? Its been a while, why haven't you seen me yet? Its just $50, don't let that stop you from seeing me. I've miss you", and a bunch of other BS I just ain't got the time for anymore. Actually found out that after I did this, most of my regular providers give me discounted rates, but I pass. You should try my advice.

This is the general board for general questions. He is entitled to ask any question he chose. If you ain't got nothing nice to say, don't say it and move on. The OP needs constructive advice, not ego criticism. You need some humility in your life.

He pose a question b/c he needs advice. He didn't pose that question for nothing. Help him next time, instead of bashing him under an alias.

I've seen plenty of providers, hour sessions, two hour sessions. Sometimes I just ain't got the time for no hour sessions. Other clients need providers that can accommodate to their needs. Sometimes, I just don't want to be fucking for an hour, sometimes I just need that quick bust. Sometimes, things don't go well, so I reconsider my hour session and book the half. Ain't nothing wrong with that. Honesty, sometimes 1 hour appointments r too long with some providers, while with others, 1 hour is not enough time. What I am trying to say is, there is nothing wrong with half hour sessions. I had plenty of them, and am satisfied.

Right, you check his reviews and concluded that he sees low end providers. You think because you see high end providers that it makes your services better? I've seen plenty of "regular providers" that have more character, appreciation, delivered equal service, and showed me an equivalent time than being with high end providers. Don't discriminate providers base on their rates brother, your missing out.

on this board is not going to change his lady's business practices....

While another poster correctly pointed out what she did is technically not an upsell (which, to me,  involves trying to sell you other services during a session) what she did do sucks.  If she's going to change a rate the time to do it is when the session is booked, not when you're pulling out of the driveway.  I would have cancelled then and there on principle.

While I totally get your frustration, you need to determine if her services and how you get along is worth it. I'm in a similar boat as you and due to my schedule generally book half hour to hour stays. As one poster stated it is all about the money, think of it like fishing, she dangled that rate to you till she had you hooked or so she thinks. Then figured she could raise the rate at anytime. If it's totally unrushed and she will go overtime then it may be worth it.

Someone mentioned that they never book less than an hour, I actually never book an hour on the first time because you have no idea what you paying for. I have gotten burned a few times by going the hour right out the gate. I prefer to test the waters then comeback for a longer stay if I'm happy with what I see. It's your money and your decision, is she worth it?

2 hours minimum. That's my gig. Don't wanna hang, get your ass off the porch.

Mikey works hard and plays harder. It's all heart, baby, and you better bring a lunch...

What she did isn't that big a deal. I agree with others it's not an up sell. The way she did it sucks. Why did she do it? Let's see ...how many providers are there in your area?...that's how many reasons you will get as to the why. If it really matters to you, ask her. You can always move on if the answer doesn't make sense to you. All of the reasons stated here are plausible. It ticks you off I know but there are plenty other ladies to see.

Maybe her timing could've been better, bottom line, she's raising her rates, you can either pay the new rate or move on. Why is she raising her rate on you? Only she can answer.

It goes down the the market.

For a prostitute they would rather see regulars for obvious reasons.  There is no need to screen, you know what you are getting, greatly reduced chance of a monger ripping you off.  Its easier to keep a current customer happy than get a new one.

However for a monger,  there is always the pursuit of new partners,  you see someone new and want to know what she is like.  Variety is the spice of life.   Its especially true in carnal relations.

That means that usually a woman has to do something to keep a regular happy.  It could be rate based by being grandfathered in,  maybe its by having a more no rush session that can run a few minutes longer.  it can be a between session email inquiring how you are doing etc and not just trolling for another appointment.

Bottom line she can charge what she wants but it should be communicated when the session is booked.  If a monger tries to book an appointment and you raised your rates he should be told before he gets there.

His seeing lower end providers means higher likelihood of not being grandfathered towards previous rates?  Not surprising, but then as you stated I only see higher end ladies that don't pull that shit.  At least not to date...

doesn't match what she's now charging him, he can say no thanks. Personally, I don't see the attraction or repeating if her sessions are so ordinary, whatever the price.

And her timing could have been worse, too. He should be glad she caught him in the driveway.

all they can see is a providers rates and her websites. Until the OP smartens up, he'll run into the same kind of surprises no matter how much he spends.