THE MATH: Unquestionably a 10! Grading STRICTLY according to TER Guidelines, I believe I’ve just been on the receiving end of a 14 (“An escort provider may only earn up to a 7, unless she also performs the following during a session: DFK, BBBJ, Really Bi, Anal… The addition of each offering will raise her score by one point.”). At least a 14, maybe more. I’m weak in math (knees too now thanks to her...)
THE FACTS: I’ve had a limited number of provider experiences. I’ve posted only a couple reviews. However, my recent “14-plus” was COINCIDENTALLY well aquatinted with my preferences (which are: She likes conversation and a joke?, I’ll converse & be funny; If she likes to be pampered, I’ll pamper; Gifts? I’ll shop; Dominated? I’ll rule; The opposite? I’ll yield. Massaged? I’ll rub; A quickie? Call me “Flash.” Hard or rough? Can do; Soft & gentle? I'm Mr. Smooth. Want to stay far past our time? The experience is priceless BUT may I get you a tip... Get it?) Ain’t no shame in my game.
TWO QUESTIONS: (1) Do providers research a gentleman’s reviews of other providers to prepare for a date? Even when the reviews are quirky, long-winded and boring??
(2) ‘Fess Up Gals: Naturally, I learned in Newbie 101 to read the providers’ last 6 reviews (or last 6 months worth, time permitting) before trying to establish rapport and set an appointment. But, I've also learned in my post-graduate newbie work to start fresh before our date and read ALL her reviews. I suspect my “14” didn’t even stop there. It's as if she sought out more details from local ladies, both reviewed and unreviewed (or she spoke with my 3rd - 6th grade girlfriend.... or my old college flame). Out yourselves, which is it ladies? Coincidence or lots of research conducted in a professional and cooperative way?
Impressive results either way. Still hurts to walk, but I'd rather be sore than frustrated. I do remain clueless how I’m to fit a “14” experience into the miserly TER 10-scale though...
How could we read your TER reviews when we don't know your handle? A few girls has this option on their reservation forms but I don't really know if guys actually provide it. All most of us do is email the reference you gave us with a question like, "Was he a gentlemen and would you see him again". That's about it other than the normal email correspondence leading up to the date.
xoxo
Hi CG,
Thanks. So it's normal to check references with other locals ladies if you can associate a gentleman with his handle?
One local lady of top-notch reputation learned my handle when she struck up an e-mail friendship with me by PM on TER. The other lady, my recent "14", got talking to me by PM about having attended the Etta James concert (small hall, we stood very near each other, but never met). She also asked by PM who else I'd seen and I mentioned the two reviewed ladies and another.
I knew before she met that she'd asked all 3 other ladies about me. I'm fine with that. What I'm amazed at is that she actually went far beyond that research and read the reviews. Paying particular attention, it seems, to stuff that was especially fun or enjoyable. Then, I think, she MAY have discussed my likes and dislikes with the other ladies, both reviewed and unreviewed. Several have mentioned the discussions to me.
If so, this took a lot of "off-the-clock" time and went far above and beyond the call of duty to make our date a success. I mean, whatever she did, it sure worked and I’m sure grateful. But I gather she invested many hours into researching me.
As I said before, I too make the same kind of effort researching her before the date but I’m weird. Other than Sedona, I thought maybe most ladies and gentement didn't care to put that much effort into ensuring success on a date. Your message indidcates I'm wrong, at least in your case.
I am humbled by the experience.
CG, does this make any sense?
Thanks!
You make sense, but I also don’t think it is unique. Two Ladies I saw for the first time had obviously spent some time finding out about my preferences. And a couple others were clearly doing research during our meeting.
As with any profession, there are some (many) true Professionals who work hard to be the very best that they can.
I try to do a little research. The main reason I ask someone for their handle is so that I can read the reviews and hopefully anticipate their needs.