I assume that at least some guys have encountered this before. Your provider is sore, maybe from a guy earlier in the day, maybe from a guy the night before or her BF the night before.  There's some things you'd like to do but can't. She doesn't tell you she's sore, but you can tell.

In me would say: is there something wrong? Do we need to reschedule? The asshole in me might wait for her to bring it up. But overall it isn't fun unless everyone is having fun so the gentleman would probaly win.

... then why didn't she go ahead and reschedule you for a different day and time?

I think everyone might handle that situation a bit differently.....there's no one 'size' fits all.

I have never encountered that issue.  Why would a provider book if her pussy hurts?  Painful to say the least.  Sometimes the vagina deserves a brake ladies, so let it rest.

On the one hand, I'm not into inflicting pain so I'd want to stop.  But now I've paid for something I'm not getting and that sucks, too.  On balance I think the classy move is for the provider to cancel ahead of time, but if she maybe thought she'd be ok but halfway through realized she couldn't do it then cutting the session short and refunding a portion of the donation or offering and honoring a discount on a future session would be appropriate (and definitely the refund if a repeat isn't feasible).  I'm in this a couple years now and nothing of the sort has happened...though one of my now favorite providers did threaten to mace me if I didn't go easy on her the first time I met her; she didn't do it so she's a BFF now LOL...so I have to believe this is pretty rare.

Well played sir!

I saw an ATF who was having her period.. I was ok with it.. but I was being careful not to hurt her.. Her breasts were very tender... she kept saying it was no big deal.. things were a little messy but with the condom.. no big deal... but I was so concerned with being gentle and  "is this OK?" and "oh.. sorry..".. I had trouble getting off.. so I decided that while I don't have an issue with the "blood".. my concerns got in the way of a decent session.. big head took over.. so now I avoid seeing a provider.. well.. really her, since she's the only one I would see anyway as we enjoy seeing each other.. and she was honest with me and another time told me that she had just started.. and I cancelled.. and that hurt her feelings.. so now I know what times of the month to avoid so no one gets upset. ..

Some women "go on vacation" for a few days every month. Your approach is probably best. Commendable.  

You have three choices.

Don't go to fast. Some of my regulars I see tell me that before I put my dick in them. They tell me to take my time and not go fast.

When you can't give 100% stay home, I'll find someone to cover her shift.

This wasn't about my dick. It never got that far. I wanted to finger her after DATY. I've seen this lady twice, and the first time there was no problem with me inserting finger. It's on her menu in her reviews. At my age, and with my fingering experience, that's the most likely way for me to get her off. And the first time I saw her I definitely got her off by fingering. (For the record, I get my nails manicured the day before, and I bring hand sanitizer and use it, and make a point of the provider seeing me use it).

89.. Iknow of two very popular providers who have told me that they hate hate hate.. having FIV.. I was kind of surprised and both told me that after I got to know them pretty well.. I have wondered if it is fairly common. It never occured to me that a woman would have a problem with it.. One told me that it was like hundreds of little knives being shoved inside of her.. OK I get it.. and I also am careful about my fingernails.. but I suspect there had been some pretty bad experiences not to be repeated..

I've run into the same thing. As I said, though, FIV is on the menu. The first time out with her, I made a point of just rubbing on the outside (and, of course, called attention to the manicure and the sanitizer). Then I inserted my finger a little bit and asked if that was okay. She said yes. After a minute or so I asked if I could go further, to which she said  yes. Finally she said all the way in, and I then did everything as I've always done. She definitely came each time I did this, as I felt the cervix move down.  That's one thing a woman can't fake.  

LOL

No. I was trying to find a quick way to convey the idea of the provider you're with at the time, which I suppose I could have said.

I have visited hundreds of agency girls who are doing 5 to 10 clients a day and not one has told me they were "sore".....   and I am not on the small side either....

Excuse for what exactly? What she's done previously with me and other guys?

It was booked a week in advance, and I was driving from a couple hours away. Maybe she saw a guy while I was on the drive up.

I cannot. Not to repeat myself yet again, but if I am getting sore during a session I ask to do something else. There is no issue of me showing up already sore. For that to happen I would have to go beyond my comfort zone the day before and that will never happen. I am not being paid enough for that, so sorry but that is where I draw the line.

On one occasion, one provider I see regularly was sore on her... bum.  She had noticeable bruises on it.  I was actually concerned, because at the time there was talk around my town about a hobbyist taking S&M too far, to the point of abuse, and I was fairly sure he was or had been one of her clients.  So I inquired as delicately as I could about the bruises.  Fortunately, they were not from an abuser.  And they didn't interfere with our fun that day, except I couldn't give her a deep bum-rub, which she loves.

I met a provider who was VERY small and tight. While I knew this and made her take control in the beginning, she soon was demanding it hard and fast. I think we both enjoyed it... but after we had caught our breath she said "something really hurts now; it stings". Sure enough, a little blood and a small episiotomy.  

If later for her, that still doesn't address the problem for the guy.

Well then we have lots in common huh

That is another option that you did not cover, so if she has given her all, and cannot take anymore because of pain, then don't be a douche bag and keep going. Surely there is something else you can do get that nut than split her pussy. And ladies, speak up, if the guy has no idea then he is not to blame

Agency/high volume indy girls always book morning or early afternoon to minimize your odds that she will be sore. If you met a girl with that problem do other activities

We were just starting. Hadn't had intercourse, DATY, FIV or anything. She was sore long before I got to her incall.

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Like someone else earlier said, there are two other holes available, and tons of other toys to play with.

So you would be okay with having a provider be too sore for you to have intercourse or other vaginal play because of her session with a previous guy?

It's never happened to me. But if it did I'd probably just reschedule. If it happened during a Session I would opt for a Massage with a BJ ending.

What I will never get is allowing herself to get that sore that it affects the next day and her performance , Or should I say lack of.  

I find myself attracted to most of the providers I see for reasons other than the various physical pleasures that they might offer.  It is their charm and personality that keeps me coming back.

So, if they are able to provide me with some kind of interesting and exciting sexual interaction, I'm not that fussy about what it has to be, as long as they can participate with some gusto.

In fact, I'd rather they be physically sore than emotionally sore.  The latter would be a buzz kill for sure for any kind of interesting interaction.

I also realize that my view on this might be very different from the typical hobbyist's view.

That's what I don't get. She knew she had a four-hour session with me the next day or in a couple of hours (whenever it was that she got sore).  Everything else being equal, wouldn't some guy who's booking four hours be a concern when some one or two-hour guy is banging her hard?  

NFL, NHL etc. If you accept compensation for an activity that others do for free, a higher level of performance is expected.  If your not up to it, take yourself out of the game. Her issue not yours.

if a woman sustains an injury during the game (sore pussy from repeated pounding), it seems fair to say that she can be "taken off" so to speak  and a substitute activity used instead.  

Since this is a business and most providers try to keep the customer happy the chances of them telling a client they are sore are pretty slim- they want you to be completely satisfied with your experience- that being said there are products available to them to numb the sore area - that way they can still perform with the client without being in too much pain, and then see multiples in one day. Granted once the numbing agent wears off the pain will return ten-fold unfortunately. Also some providers don't have the luxury of taking a day off and must grin and bear it and work thru the pain.