I had been thinking about seeing a well reviewed traveling provider and exchanged a couple of emails with "her". At times I will flirt and get into some nice hot email conversations with providers. I do like to talk a little about fantasies, lingerie to wear, etc.

Although the provider has reviews, I decided to make in inquire with one of the hobbyists who had reviewed her. He gave me a good recommendation but told me that her boyfriend does all of her screening, ads and posts on the boards. The email exchanges are never with the provider but with the boyfriend. WTF! Needless to say I lost all interest in said provider.
I hope he doesn't get his rocks off playing provider.

Cause when my ol' lady was a provider I... plead the fifth.

Sorry to disappoint you, "sweetie". Muahahahaaaaaa!

If only hobbyists took the advice from your last line: "Get in, get fucked, and then get out.  End of discussion."

I believe an ATF...  husband does her ads & answers e-mail...   although we've met a number of times, I might message a request but she does not get the message unless I phone during working hours or discuss in person.  
Those who have SOs, this may be more common.   I had not really thought about it but had adjusted my communication.
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Why were you trying to flirt via e-mail with a provider you've never met?   You sound like a time-waster, Rebel-John.   My ATF has a client like you, a guy who frequently sends her explicit text msgs, and she rolls her eyes whenever she mentions his name.  Try this: book a provider, pay for her time, and have fun during your alloted time.  If you act like a gentleman, she may spend some off-the-clock time with you, like lunch or dinner.  Stop being a pest.  --z

Well spoken.

someone else doing the e-mails is way more common than you think.  I see a lady and it is real obvious when it's her and when it's not.  it's a business, dont discuss the deal with the receptionists.

So what if someone else does her screening for her?!  I have a screener.  That does not mean I do not answer all of my own emails.  Your hobbyist friend does not know everything about our side of this biz.  You refuse to see this lady because she has a screener boyfriend who helps her out and you don't even know how accurate this information is.  Good reviews = good service.  Get in, get fucked, and then get out.  End of discussion.

That he is going to deep throat you the next day. I do mind and I didn't appreciate it.

The email exchanges were started by him, and it was my time that was wasted.

I can just imagine the look on your face when you found out that you were essentially "sexting" a dude. lmfao

I doubt you could ever get wood for her again. oh the evils of the modern world of communication.

I do feel for you, but I just can't stop laughing

Not surprised. I know a few of the screners who are married to the providers that they screen. The provider allows her spouse to see other providers.

The other reviewer also thought it was weird because he had also exchanged emails with the boyfriend. She was the one who told him that it was not her doing the emails.

I am glad that you got a laugh out of it. At the time it was not funny, looking back it is.

I know that many providers have screeners. I don't have any objection to that.
What I objected to was that he told me he was going to suck my dick raw while playing provider.

Of course I am not dating a provider. I am not that stupid.

The "boyfriend" sounded like more that -- I know some agency girl's e-mails are actually handled by the agencies to avoid "cheating" -- just another reason I try to avoid agencies.

BTW it appears that you have attracted a troll.

I'm glad there are some good people on this board, it makes it slightly easier to deal with these loathesome,poor excuses for human beings that coexist with us.

Why are you defending this screener so vehemently?
I can assure you that she does not travel in your little merry band of hookers, so if you think you are defending a "sista" it is not her.

Now I am homophobic? Why, because I don't want another guy talking about sucking my dick?

Bother her anymore? He is the one who started the emailing or are you too stupid to retain that part of my comments?

Yes, I do hope she is making money. You on the other hand spend an awful lot of time on the boards. Don't you have clients of your own to service, or is the street corner occupied?

I don't mind her trolling, but as she gets progressively annoyed I have to laugh at her.

I would laugh at her stupidity, but I find her so loathesome as a human being, I can't seem to find her amusing.

oh nevermind. That one's too easy for me.

...And therein lies your real problem.

You don't actually know what she copped to with the client, what he's fabricated or embellished to discourage other potential clients because he's in love with her or angry with her, what he himself has assumed because of inconsistencies in her correspondence and acknowledgments of this man in her life.

This is a review site and private exchanges are valuable for filling in the blanks- but why some here accept comments from virtual strangers as the living word and testament is beyond me.

I've seen screeners who post advertisements and respond to email inquiries entirely, some who do it periodically to pick up the slack when a provider is touring and those who never touch a provider's ads or email at all.

If she is well-reviewed it sounds to me like the only person who is missing out is you - you disrupted your own fantasy by digging deeper and relying on information accepted at face value from a stranger.

Pimps are generally low-life scum, and I will avoid ladies that use male screeners if I know that she has one, as there is a fair possibility that he is her pimp.   I was going to post several examples that explain my position on this, but have to withhold this as most of the folks involved are former, now delisted/banned TER members.  Suffice to say I avoid any situation where I suspect pimps or other third parties are involved.  I have no problem if a lady's assistant is female, as all of those I have dealt with are former providers who work for the lady, not vice versa.

AND if you are going to dismiss every lady who has a screener, you will be a very lonely guy.  Like I said, get in, get fucked, and get out!  It's pretty simple really.  You are NOT dating the provider!  You are PAYING her to FUCK her.  That's it!!  

Please let me know exactly how you know he was writing the emails.  You can't.  Because you are clueless.

They can be as brutal as any male pimp. I can think of one special lady that I know stole $10,000 from her employee this Christmas. I also know she also blackmails the ladies that work for her and has been known to inform LE on the ladies who branch out on their own. Pimps are pimps regardless of sex. I also know of one guy who seems to really care for his girls that work for him. He isn't a pimp but he handles all there screening and booking. You can't tell based on gender.

That's MY point moron.   You are making ASSumptions just because of what some hobbyist told you!!  Duh!!!  HE doesn't know how she runs her business and neither do you!  Fuirthermore if you are that homophobic maybe there is more of a problem here than what we are addressing.  IMHO you do sound like a needy PITA client who would most likely email the shit out of her and drive her fucking crazy.  She's one of the lucky ones.  At least you won't be bothering her anymore.  LOL  Ha ha ha ha!!  BUT!  she is still out there making good money off of better clients.  Bwa ha ha ha!

Your words: "Of course I am not dating a provider. I am not that stupid."  Riiiighhht, but you are STUPID enough to want to flirt and talk about explicit shit via email.  So you really are STUPID.  'nuff said.  

Let's try this ONE MORE TIME!!!  Get in!  Get fucked!  Get out!  Done!  Didja get it THIS TIME or do I need to repeat it for you again?!?  You're too stupid for me to even bother trying again if you can't understand the game by now.... duh!  You don't get it and you never will.


PEACE!

My ATF has a male screener, and that's all he does for her, screen.  She says he's a former client who lost his job and, because he's a veteran monger, knows how to screen.  Also, she taught him all she knows, which is a lot.  Now, of course, he may be the exception who proves the rule, but he's certainly no pimp.  Actually, she's so popular she doesn't need one; she's totally UTR and does a booming business on word of mouth alone.

Some providers flirt w me via email and only then do I flirt back. Even so, it does not mean we push thru, especially when she says she does not kiss

And honest agencies and parlor owners that look after there girls and treat them well. These people are not pimps as you point out. I don't mind screeners at all and I see a place for agencies even though I don't like the local ones as they don't even do basic screening. I don't think the guy working for your ATF is an exception. I know of at least one male screener that takes good care of his ladies that he screens for.

I also now a lady that even if she denies it is very much a pimp who belittles her girls, uses threats of blackmail to control them, has informed LE of the girls that strike out on there own, takes the majority of the money earned from her girls work, and has stolen form her girls. No, she does not work out of my home town, but I know her all to well and she scares me.

WOW! Your responses keep getting more and more hilarious. We start with the admission that you are a time waster - and clueless to boot. It offended you to discover that you *might* have been swapping emails with a dude, yet it NEVER crossed your mind that you might be swapping emails with a closet donut addict. DUH! The first thing that should have crossed your mind was that no provider with a head on her shoulders would write something that explicit.

Your next response provided us all with the comedic relief of your admission that some dude out there, somewhere promised to shine your knob with his tonsils. That was good for a laugh.

And now here, you let the ladies know what you *really* think of us. A hat trick all in one thread!

Stop! You have found yourself in a hole, now stop digging. Step away from the computer, and call your Doctor to schedule a cranialrectotomy.

Not true

While I won't say he is..... 99% of those who are chatty kathy's and spend too much time emailing being flirty before meeting anyways are usually time wasters.