One time, I was having some 'pillow talk' with a provider. She asked me if I had seen a provider who was new but had great reviews. I said yes. She then told me one of her clients got STD after seeing her. She also told me there were rumors going on about this new provider offering BBFS to select clients. She suspected that's why her client got STD. She told me she was just trying to help me, but I knew she was probably jealous that the new provider got great reviews and were taking business away from her.

ladies being catty towards other ladies happen every day not just in this business.
I stay to myself and I find that cuts down on a lot of BS.
There are always going to be malicious people men and women stay clear of the drama and the BS.
Especially in this business be very careful who you trust be it a fellow provider or a hobbyist.
Some people first come off as being very nice helpful to a newbie provider and then their true colors come out.Been there done that!

BS. They'll start rumors with their clients or group of provider friends about you to make them not like you too (even if they never met you)-remember high school? Just like that-, send you threatening emails about physical attacking, all sorts of crazy shit just b/c they're jealous or some other silly reasons. Remember high school? Same thing, but adults are supposed to highactslike adults and just focus on the biz side of this all, not nonsense, but it doesn't always happen this way. Not all ladies are like this tho, but I still recommend never working with any.
Make sure to save all of her threatening emails showing how crazy she is or discontinue any communication with her. You can't agrue with stupid, and she's definitely stupid b/c she's attacking you instead of worrying avoid her bizMaybe and making money. Be flattered that she thinks of you so mucu.
Karma evens things out. Maybe not is this world, but maybe in their personal life.
There's some nice ladies out there, but just be aware.
Don't reply to her harassing emails!!

I'm sure there are other Providers out ther who have or had another job. She actually took printed my ad out and took it to the place where my husband and I worked. Thanks to what she did we lost our jobs. That all fine though, I am doing much better off now that doing FBSM full-time I can focuse on my techinque and make thing better for my clients
I just really think its sad that she is suspose to be a "mature classy lady", but the way she has handled things and acted as shown me that is more childish then most children.

Also I don't have time to bother with whatever they do.
It is common in the hobby.

Exactly!  High school behavior.
That happened to me too when I went off on my own.  Ignoring is a good thing!  

I had an experience with a local provider as well, but she found out quick she could not touch me because of who my dad is, and who he knows...at least where LE is concerned. Did not stop her from posting one of my FAKE IDs online and hiring a P.I. to try and find me. The girl they found was a bigger bitch than I could ever be, so that ended that. When women take this life outside into your personal life, that's where I draw the line.

I've heard that more so from a couple clients than from a provider. Not sure what the motive for it was.
Best believe I won't see that client & I'll tell the Lady he's speaking about too.

Be careful she doesn't send that same image along with your ad to the police...again, you are so very easily identified by showing your face. Guys like it but they don't lose their other jobs over it or end up in jail.

Na ah, that's going into dangerous territory. That's why I associate with NO-ONE in this business.

Take a few minutes off of this board and read a newspaper.

Guys get arrested all the time...mug shots...lose jobs...get into divorce court.

Go over to the newbie board and spew your inaccurate bullshit  

is not due to your face being all over the internet announcing you're a hooker. For us, it is usually just that easy. Imagine a mother having her hooker photos with full face shot, all over the bulletin board at her office, kids' school, or the bathroom in the damn gym. You would be surprised at what some hookers have to go through to get business, and those are the ones you should worry about. Those of us with time to post on boards all day long, are obviously not too worried about a buck.

This is the perfect response to gossip bed talk. Those are the actions of a mature man.
love it

Seems like there is no shortage of dumb fuck johnnie boys posting their pathetic pics on all kinds of sites...and even dumber using their same handles on these sites.

Sorry my dear...it does indeed cut both ways on this moronic topic.  How often have we discussed NOT using social media?

Nah...you can't compare morons to the average monger lol. My point is, you guys don't exactly do on PURPOSE to show your stuff. Sometimes, an ass hat who claims to be a "komputerpro" just forgets lol. Bottom line, is most of you married men do not sign up for that shit...we kind of do, if we don't protect our own lives.

Others....not so much...

Just those that have nothing to worry about...right?

Sorry...too many johnnie boys...heck, even those Professional Hobbyists are stupid enough to do that.

Fortunately I don't know too many hookers that are also that stupid to show their faces.  But there's enough out there that can't find their Uranussky with both hands, a flashlight and GPS device.

Sorry...when inept hookers like Uranussky can't write with an intellect, it's just more fodder.  And more BS.

When the money dries up and everyone is competing, the claws come out.  Sounds like she plays dirty.

I wouldn't even bother responding.  Sooner or later, when she burns enough bridges, people will see that she is the common denominator.

All that mean shit & provider bashing is for the birds! We have enough trouble on our own so why fight each other? A provider can never ruin another providers reputation with rumors or bad reviews. If you dont exclusively post ads on TER, most guys really dont care about reviews. They like what they like no matter what anyone will say.

I just wanted to say Thank you to every one. I see that there were a lot of thought on it, Thank you for the all the Input and thought. I am new to online discussion boards in general and It actually helped to see what everyones thoughts were on something like this.

A provider contacted me for a reference, seemed nice and as normal as one can be in this profession. So, we decided to connect and get coffee. Soon after, we developed a friendship and, she suggested that we start doing doubles together. Great, sounds fun until... One of her friends asked her if she would be ok if he met with me solo in the near future. She stated that she was totally fine with it and knew hobbyists like variety. I assured her that I didn't want anything to get in the way of our newly developing friendship and it was fine with me if she wasn't ok w/ it. No worries she said, yea right! Soon after I met w/ him, she started acting strange and I found out from 3 of my long time friends in the hobby that she'd been spreading vicious rumors about me. I confronted her nicely and tried to make things right, she denied and went wacko on me. To this day I still hear about the bullshit lies she spreads about me.
My advice, ignore it, don't retaliate. The guys will see that she's just trying to hurt you, she's crazy jealous, and has nothing better to focus on. Good luck!

Xoxo
Stacie Lynn