So today I was sitting at a ******* and I was reading an old issue of Money magazine.  There was a section titled "Second Acts".  This is basically a section that details a persons second career (i.e., retired from ? and became a blah blah blah).

Many have the "let me fuck you" part down part.

Posted By: Ridgetucky

So today I was sitting at a ******* and I was reading an old issue of Money magazine.  There was a section titled "Second Acts".  This is basically a section that details a persons second career (i.e., retired from ? and became a blah blah blah).  
   
 Now I will be the first to admit that I would probably go batshit crazy if I did not have a way to release my sexual desires (and yes they are sick - somewhat).  But I am baffled as to how a woman goes forward after this chosen career.  Mind you I am not judging (ya believe that right).  I have spent the last 15 years of my life moving $$$ around and added nothing substantive to the world.  But hey I will live don't worry about me.  (you are worried about me right?)  
   
 I am curious as to what a Provider does after Providing.  One Provider told me she wanted to get into Real Estate and I thought that is actually a very good idea.  Providers are sales people and they know how to ask for the sale which is the most important part of sales.  Another Provider worked at a law firm and was escorting on the side.  She posted her pics with face shot and they found out and fired her.  Bummer.  (ask yourself how they found it - hmmmmmm)  
   
 But for the others what do they do?  How do you explain the gap in employment?  While I am sure you would get bonus points for giving BJs for the last 2 years that is not really a transferable skill  I mean I would hire you on the spot but alas I am not most people.  Thankfully!!!!  
   
 Sometimes I worry too much.    
   
 But I am serious what is the 2nd act for Providers?  
   
 RT  
   
 

By sheer coincidence, I was mulling a related topic... I offer my post in a regional board:

First of all, like the vast majority of johns who write reviews, you comment on women's intelligence as somehow inferior to yours or to men's in general. The reviews that state with astonishment that the woman they visited could converse on a wide range of topics or in sone other proved to be quite bright seem endless and predictable. I don't think men comment on each other as to how smart they are. But a woman's intellect always seems to surprise them. So the general assumption must be that they think women are stupid. This is big news for you, RT, they're not.

For as long as I was "sexual" there was always some negotiation for it. Finding what "skills" I could market was a tool for me to gain advantage over other peers sexually, to always have a BF or take another girls BF or whatever. Shoes, clothes, trips, money, etc came a little later, and then finally this world. Is there ever an actual retirement from providing? Seems to me there will always be some exchange going on, website or not, as long as my pussy is functional and willing.  

The mathematical scenario you proposed and calculated is what the finance industry wants you to think.  But your math is wrong.  Not but because your calculations are wrong but because the inputs are linear and that is not the way the stock market works.

Blow chunks happily ever after... rofl

I was merely proposing a realistic question.  The validity of the scenario stands!!!!!

RT

Thinking that somehow a pussy will earn you money long term is moronic at the very minimum...utterly stupid is more likely.

telling me that she wants to be a US Senator. Nothing wrong is becoming politician. We know we all need them no matter how much we might hate them.  

I love the fact that you own what you do.  You rock.

and it was fucking horrible.  They keep the temp in the 40's and you stand in one spot wrapping the sausages around a metal stick.  All the while having a guy yell at you that you are not wrapping fast enough.

Unless someone works at the same job for his or her entire life, that person has a second act of some sort. Shifting careers mid-life is common. The question is whether the second act is as good as the first. For some of us, it's not.

People are interested in various things, and everybody's life presents them with certain opportunities. Trying to divine either what a person wants or what they'll have an opportunity to get is a foolish pastime.

who needs a 2nd Act with Shark Week, Holy SHIT who just saw Submarine hit the damn cage OMFG!!!! AWESOME!!! I hope you people are watching. Ok, so that's my 2nd act. I am now sold after seeing that. Marine Biologist it is so I can swim with sharks, simply fascinating. Studying now. Sexy huh?

I never mirrored what the OP said in my post, perhaps you are mistaken. You and he are under the assumption that these are the ONLY goals or means I have/ had. Never said I was a full time provider, never came into this a full time provider. I have/ had jobs/ careers and a "real" life, but my pussy and putting a value on my pussy is a constant. Which is what I said...  

Good luck with that plan.

Whatever my plan is would make no difference to you or anyone else here on this fuck board. So be it. Your assumption is made, and you aren't going to change it. Doesn't really matter to me nor do your incorrect judgments influence my life. I will take that 20 something "entitlement generation" remark as a complement; because everyone knows you have to add at least 5 to 10 yrs to what a hooker says her age is. And as for my brain cells, well I spend all my time getting my brains fucked out, just to pay my bills, so according to all the flawed business models floating around out there and being low vloume, only seeing 6-8 customers day, well, there isn't much left is there? LMAO all the way to bank baby!!!

There is a market for older hookers.  In fact, it goes beyond that.  Lots of guys like older women and will pay big bucks to simply take them to dinner and pay to watch them eat it. No sex at all. Go figya.  My most recent ex SO is in her mid 50s and still looks good.  She's not interested in young young guys and on her dating profile tells guys under 50 to not even bother.  But she gets lots of young dudes begging her to see them.  Or so she says. If true, there's a world out there you just don't know about. Consider it

And unless she is willing to work at this she'll be a fatty in short order.

No shock...your immaturity shows through along with your entitlement.

There are thousands who couldn't hack it in P4P for many reasons.

It's not unusual at all for women to have gaps in employment.   It's the same as asking, "Can a housewife have a second act?"  "What could that be?"  Ummmm...anything?

Dude is a 16-year-old burger flipper at BK.

Why do you assume we all have "gaps" in our employment history? Many ladies have a "real" job, either full-time or part-time, others are in school full-time (so there's no gap..she's been in school), and some are self-employed and run their own business already, so no need to ever apply at anyone else's business.  

Posted By: Ridgetucky

So today I was sitting at a ******* and I was reading an old issue of Money magazine.  There was a section titled "Second Acts".  This is basically a section that details a persons second career (i.e., retired from ? and became a blah blah blah).  
   
 Now I will be the first to admit that I would probably go batshit crazy if I did not have a way to release my sexual desires (and yes they are sick - somewhat).  But I am baffled as to how a woman goes forward after this chosen career.  Mind you I am not judging (ya believe that right).  I have spent the last 15 years of my life moving $$$ around and added nothing substantive to the world.  But hey I will live don't worry about me.  (you are worried about me right?)  
   
 I am curious as to what a Provider does after Providing.  One Provider told me she wanted to get into Real Estate and I thought that is actually a very good idea.  Providers are sales people and they know how to ask for the sale which is the most important part of sales.  Another Provider worked at a law firm and was escorting on the side.  She posted her pics with face shot and they found out and fired her.  Bummer.  (ask yourself how they found it - hmmmmmm)  
   
 But for the others what do they do?  How do you explain the gap in employment?  While I am sure you would get bonus points for giving BJs for the last 2 years that is not really a transferable skill  I mean I would hire you on the spot but alas I am not most people.  Thankfully!!!!  
   
 Sometimes I worry too much.    
   
 But I am serious what is the 2nd act for Providers?  
   
 RT  
   
 

What I'm wondering, though is how is the second act different than for anyone else?

would you stop with the 'you know what' talk already. That's not nice so stop. Thin women aren't always the most beautiful creatures if they look frail and unhealthy. And women with curves are just as beautiful. So cut it. No one is a perfect size or body here. Geezk you. You're grumpy. I think you need to get laid this week...I recommend contacting your ATF stat and get on it already. Then come back and post nice. And don't chince while you're at it. Pay her for her time at lunch for a change.  

Even flipping burgers takes some level of skill.

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which I'm sure she is, then yes, it's most certainly true. I wouldn't question her one bit about it. While I'm not 50 yet myself, there's a ton you older boys don't know about when it comes to this phenomena. I think you're all in complete denial of it in all honesty. The ratio for younger guys into older women is CRAZY in civvie land you have absolutely no idea. And I also bet (and would bank on it) exactly why your ex won't date them either  

I got here a tad later than some of the young blood for reasons that are my own.

I've changed how I market myself out of necessity and I'm not able to rock and roll like I used to. There doesn't seem to be a shortage of gentlemen out there who want to spend time with me for some strange reason, lol. I do clean up nicely!

I won't use that term that brings out the worst in some of you so I'll just say by necessity I have limited availability so I don't have a one hr. rate anymore. I must be doing something right because 80% of my dates are for two hours or more.

Right now I'm trying to rebuild what I lost financially in 2012. We'll see what 2015 brings but I kinda like it here, so I hope you don't mind if I stick around for a while...

Steph xoxo


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that's bullshit on a stick and you know it.

Every profession, every way of moving through life, voluntarily taken on or forced upon one, has its limitations, especially in terms of what happens to their lives at the end of the run.

I luv how you are word ramming me... I find true assholes so extremely HOT!!!

And turning the OP over to my world and helping me get to the bank. You are truly my savior. OTC time for you boo. Gosh, you should be my pimp! LOL!

He really didn't provide anything of substance to the OP and just wanted to bash a bitch. Not a problem. I appreciate him having a temper tantrum on me. Hope he feels better. Kisses babe!

They could try this.

I've been to a rather large number of social gatherings -- M&Gs but also various parties, and even a wedding -- that included lots of older hookers.  Of course, there's no way of knowing how good their business was but they seemed to be doing just fine.  And I'm sure you do know that many of the older ones say they are younger, which sometimes can be a problem, I know.
Frankly, I prefer women between 20 and 40 but lots of guys like them older.  Enough, I believe, for a good looking older woman with smarts to get along just fine

Please stop. LOL!
That said, I know this phenomenon exists, and not just because of my ex-SO or having seen it myself. A friend was involved with an older (and still active) hooker who's pushing 60.  From what he could tell, she had plenty of dates, often not involving sex.  I've no idea how prevalent it is, but it's definitely a significant sub-set of this world.
It is what it is.  I don't give a damn what anybody else wants as long as it's of age and consensual.

you got to "pay her for her time at lunch." That's just silly.  Don't do it.  Don't need to do it. Never will do it. Happy to spring for her tab but not to watch her eat it. What you do is fine for you.  That doesn't make it gospel for everybody else.  There's a world of women out there who disagree with you.  It's all good.

What does that have to do with anything, Doc?  We were talking about age I thought.  There is a connection though.  Just as some guys like older women, some like 'em curvy.  Even BBW.  Not me, but so what?  She's also African American.  So what to that, too, and I'm sure you'd agree.  You'll find several stellar AA ladies on my review list.  And on and on.
Bottom line, there's a world of flavors in HookerLand.  Young, old, black, Asian, skinny, athletic, curvy and fat. With tats and without.  With implants and natural.  Everyone has preferences.  It's all good.

I like the gals that are tiny and petite...you are not remotely close to that.

While I've only been providing for a very short while as an escort. I have been enticed and working in the adult entertainment field since I was 17 (I know shame on me, blah blah blah). Mostly because I enjoy older men and I enjoyed paying for school out of pocket and not having a care in the world[Art School is ridiculously expensive]. Also I get to really focus on my career as a fashion designer. I design lingerie and honestly I see this as research as well as a short term stint that will fund my empire. *impish grin*

I don't lie...you know this.

But I'd still listen to your drivel for a while and see if there is any hope for an exit strategy here.

I would imagine it is difficult for a career 'provider' to turn off the desire or 'need' for the validation got from multiple daily calls requesting their company and concupiscent charm.

so much why do you keep going? And I may be headed to Chi-town sooner than you think! Watch out! Oh and it's cool if you don't want to pay me, I do fuck freebies from time to time, but only on my terms, but I don't think you sound like my type either... I don't go for guys with sticks up their asses. LOL!

I've been in school for the last 7, and hobbying the last 4. Taking this "career" originally was a time/$ choice, but I've come to really love it.

But, I do wonder about the full-time providers that aren't in school.  

as for RTucky, even some "dumb hooker" proved that she knew more about his business than he did. lol

but he can be amusing at times, although he is NEVER to be taken seriously. I know making declarative statements using "all" or "never" usually get a person into trouble, but I think I am on pretty safe ground where it comes to taking RTucky seriously.

Never said it was the 'gospel' of anything when 'I' say it. Not sure why you do lol....still lol. When I speak it's solely my opinion, my take on things here, noone else's. Never has been, never will be. I am entitled to my own opinions just as you or anyone else here is....you don't have to like them, but it's nice to at least acknowledge them. Sheesh...

I don't know if you lie or speak the truth, you know this as well. But I like to think the better of the two for anyone. But in the same breath, people (in general) here say things to you, and then something else behind your back. As the infamous 'hooker' once stated and so true 20 years ago...."most people shock the hell outta me" couldn't be more spot on than any other movie line I've ever heard after being here now. Anyhow, it doesn't matter whether you do or don't, you are correct and incorrect about your statement IMO.  

Nowhere in it did I say anything about you thinking or saying your wanting to be paid while eating was "gospel."  All I said was I disagreed and never have, nor will, do it.  And where did I say you weren't entitled to your own opinion or business model?  Go back and read.  I did no such thing.  All I said was I disagreed and wouldn't operate that way.
My goodness, my little veal chop, you are awfully sensitive.  
And, while we're at it, where did I say other men who disagree with me on this and are willing to pay you (or anyone) to watch you eat are wrong?  Never said that either.  Again, all I said is I won't do it.  Not to mention that I don't have to.  Believe it or not, my little zucchini, the women I see actually like me.  Because I treat them well and am never cheap.  So, if they have the time and inclination, they are generally pleased to have me buy them dinner.
So please feel free to do it your way.  I wasn't trying to convince you to do anything else.
As for adoration......Bwaaaaaaaahahahahaha!

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AGAIN. Would you stop. God I get picked on all the time here for the littlest things and while apparently I have notta one friend here LOL doesn't mean I'm going to let that happen to someone else here. Just cause she's not your type you shouldn't pick on her, it's just not right, I'm sorry, not even here. I am tired of this happening on this board. It's just wrong. So stop. I told you, go get laid by your tiny and petite ATF and come back happy. GEEZK!!!!! You're upsetting me now.  

Please don't be upset.  Anger is very self-destructive and bad for your health.
PS: Also, try to nip that Moses Complex in the bud.

She certainly has one friend here.  But at the moment, I can't think of a second one.  All you other FOT (Friends of Taylor) feel free to weigh in at any time.  
PS: Not being an EOT (Enemy of Taylor) doesn't count.  I'm not her enemy either, though perhaps she doesn't know it.  Actually, she's her own worst enemy.

I have plenty of friends 'here', I just don't have friends 'here'. Get it?

So said L. Ron Hubbard, the founder of Scientology. Lol.

To retire! And be a housewife. I also will have my degree by that time, but I'm really only getting that for my own benefit, not for a career choice.

Posted By: Ridgetucky

So today I was sitting at a ******* and I was reading an old issue of Money magazine.  There was a section titled "Second Acts".  This is basically a section that details a persons second career (i.e., retired from ? and became a blah blah blah).  
   
 Now I will be the first to admit that I would probably go batshit crazy if I did not have a way to release my sexual desires (and yes they are sick - somewhat).  But I am baffled as to how a woman goes forward after this chosen career.  Mind you I am not judging (ya believe that right).  I have spent the last 15 years of my life moving $$$ around and added nothing substantive to the world.  But hey I will live don't worry about me.  (you are worried about me right?)  
   
 I am curious as to what a Provider does after Providing.  One Provider told me she wanted to get into Real Estate and I thought that is actually a very good idea.  Providers are sales people and they know how to ask for the sale which is the most important part of sales.  Another Provider worked at a law firm and was escorting on the side.  She posted her pics with face shot and they found out and fired her.  Bummer.  (ask yourself how they found it - hmmmmmm)  
   
 But for the others what do they do?  How do you explain the gap in employment?  While I am sure you would get bonus points for giving BJs for the last 2 years that is not really a transferable skill  I mean I would hire you on the spot but alas I am not most people.  Thankfully!!!!  
   
 Sometimes I worry too much.    
   
 But I am serious what is the 2nd act for Providers?  
   
 RT