I've been doing this for a very long time. I've had the good fortune to meet some lovely ladies and have some awesome experiences.
I'm mindful that the ladies we see don't always see eye to eye with us, for many reasons, as evidenced by a couple of recent threads about the nature of certain reviews. I have a lot more empathy for our providers when I read some shit such as the recent review of Angelina Valentine on the LA Board. The reviewer says, in so many words, that he "had a tough day and wanted to punish someone". He goes on to say that he treated--more likely mistreated--this woman in near abusive ways because she was Latina, not white. This is one of the rare moments that make me say out loud "What the Fuck man?!" All I can say is, if I was a provider, I would stay the fuck clear of that guy. Ladies, on behalf of all of us with a Y chromosome, my apologies if you have to deal with shit such as that. Stay safe and have fun everyone.why do you feel the need to apologize on behalf of the entire male race? Do you speak for the entire male race now?
Doesn't take a genius to figure out that you sound like you are in this score some brownie points.
There are some horrible men out there, and there are some horrible women.. Full stop. Period. End of the story.
This particular case highlights one thing... the reviewer is a douchebag, or as you said a "horrible man".
It is not about a horrible woman, and bringing that up is both irrelevant and an attempt to deflect. The same applies to attacking the poster by mocking his "apology" unnecessarily.
I think its enough to say what was said, and not try to dilute it by saying, in effect, "well, there are horrible women, too".
When I first wrote the note I didn't have that sentence in there. I specifically put it in in a later edit to see who would be the first to jump on it. Congrats. You win the dick of the day award.
And it's the male gender, not race.
I had had a bit too much pot last night, and was playing some Pink Floyd to notice, or quite honestly even give a damn.
I hope you get some serious discount from all the girls you plan to see.. I am sure they feel very safe w/ an asskisser like yourself.
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Guys such as you never can.
Ask yourself what made you so upset about my original post. You looked at my post about a possibly abusive person who is describing his desire to punish a woman and what did you take away from it? That this damned poster has suggested a modicum of empathy and kindness towards women and that has to be stopped. Immediately! Your entire focus was on halting any response other than ill-will, resentment and a rejection of compassion. A moment of humanity was, in your eyes, a weakness that cannot be tolerated for fear of what it might make you feel.
What inner emptiness has brought you to this place?
This place is full of snark and vitriol and wickedness. Some of my favorite things in life. But a little sunshine won't hurt you, I promise.
And for the record, I love kissing female ass. Although in point of fact I prefer licking. Yummy.
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If you were responding to some thread, I wouldn't care much. I would, in fact applaud you, but starting a thread like that lecturing us to have civility and decency when dealing with women is downright insulting. As insulting as people writing "Treat her right" in the reviews.
You are like the "Dungy" of this decade. Although you appear smarter and have better vocabulary.
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The OP was not lecturing anyone. He was responding to the review's statements and just making that known -- I think primarily to providers that might be reading TER.
One can even take his apology on behalf of men to be a statement that the vast majority are in fact not cut from the same cloth as the review.
The retreat to name calling and misrepresentation is a little sad, but quite predictable. I can't force you to do the one thing humans need to do most, which is to understand themselves; not my job.
Good luck to you.
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Latinas are very hot blooded and don't mind it rough.
From her website:
...not just Angelina.
BTW, you proved that you are a butt-hurt Republican refugee from the Politics board. On P&R we call each other names but you're such a sore loser from getting your ass kicked there that you carry your grudge over to this board by calling me "BigPapasnitch." LOL, you really are pathetic!
What happens on P&R should stay on P&R. I didn't call you "coCKSucker" or "ChicKenShit" as you are known on the Politics board, did I?
the name-calling on the P & R board. Bringing it here takes it out of context and will make no sense to anyone here who does not post there. Same with the other boards. As you know, I have already started doing the same thing on other boards.
So you’re going to parse between Angelina referring to Venezuelans and the reviewer referring to Latinas.
It’s amusing watching you claim BigPapasnitch should be relegated to the P&R board when you earned the moniker in a thread here at the General forum. But I’m cool with leaving that to the P&R board if that’s what you prefer.
It's a bit odd that you don't mention the review or link to that specific review. One might think you're trying to call attention to the provider rather than the bad actor you claim to be aiming at here.
The reviewer's handle is Jeancarlo1. His reviews appear on the LA reviews page. I'm sorry but I didn't know how to link to his review.
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If you look at the bottom of the message posting page when drafting a post you'll see three input fields. Link URL is where you would cut and paste the URL so someone can just click on the link from your post. The Link Title is any descriptive name you care to add or just leave blank. The Picture URL is for images and if you paste a link to a support image type that image will display in the message as well (that's how the Photo Only board works).
That review is really fucked up in several levels.
Sorry it's slightly offtopic, but first time I've seen it on here. How does she get one? Is it because of one review? Is there some threshold or criteria that puts her in the proverbial profile hall of sh@me?
She's had 3 ripoff reports since 2015. It appears she goes rogue for a little while every few years.
I've come across this text on a few provider profiles, including one I've actually seen in the past.
More relevant, I think, is the fact that none of that has ANYTHING to do with the OP.
I know of her and she knows a thing or two because she's seen a thing or two. The review is kinda misogynistic and if anyone's gets any crazy ideas about taking it to a different level with her, she'd probably kick their ass.
She'll be fine...
I remember I got to know well a small group of providers who shared an apartment. One of them informed me--without giving away too much detail--of some of the security measures they had in place to protect themselves in case a client got out of hand. I imagine quite a few ladies have to be ready to open up a can of whoopass on some client who goes out of bounds.