All you have to do is one Problem Report a day. At the end of one year, you'll have had a free year of VIP and still have another year of VIP in your account. Rinse and repeat. You've been a member for 11 years - you could have 4,000 days in your account now if you had only done one Problem Report per day.
I find Problem Reports without even trying when I'm looking through the profiles.
How many do you have? 😏
BIG flex. lol I have a couple years. Over a thousand. I am sure some triple OG’s here on TER have a healthy amount.
IOWs, a shit-ton.
Might have to start reviewing again next year. 🤣
With only 26 reviews? Do you pay?
I just checked and I have 92 left.
and haven't done a review in a few years. My VIP days are numbered.
I could use a day or two if so, got several messages that should be answered and no idea who from.
Yes they are with some resteactions.
Why not write a review as you have seen enough ladies?
The gals that I've seen lately are on a non-pro site and can't be seen crossing over into sex work. Cuddlers and alternative lifestyle for the most part but the main gal is a cuddler and she's more than I can handle and able to take care of anything I want (or can think of, lol). Actually, I'm assuming that most of my messages are related to some of the local guys wanting intel from the cuddle sector.
There are many that I could but they wouldn't be within the timeline required.
Is this you? Or your alter ego?
Look at it this way, for $100-$150 you can spend an hour with a hottie and no distractions. Pretty easy way to take one for the team if that's all that's going to happen. Personally, I'm batting about 70% and that average is rising with a few more guys coming on board lately. We've got an email thread we keep each other updated on who will/won't so to speak. Pretty certain most of my unread messages are from other dudes looking for intel.
Regardless of you mostly being a dick, I'd be happy to share what I know if you're interested in what our market has for potential, after all, we are all here in pursuit of a common goal. I just cannot expose any personal details publicly as it's pretty easy for the cuddlers to get booted from their platform. Only veteran mongers get info from me and hopefully the others will keep it too themselves as well.
I attempted to be a cuddler on all of those sites & I never saw anyone it was a total waste of time. All I got was car date requests and $500 was the highest tribute offer, which I assume was FS not cuddling. To much soliciting and negotiating. No thanks.
I love cuddling with my friends!🥰
Given your experience, those who continue to cuddle may be more desperate for business, which may lead into a high number of them being willing to do more, especially if up-charges come into play. And, at $100-$150, even with extra charges they are probably still on the cheap side. I can see someone breaking into the business who isn’t comfortable out the gates advertising that she’s a full service provider taking this route. That said, I would think turnover would be high. Cuddlers doing more eventually figure out they can do better. Whatever list is floating arouwould need constant updating.
There’s a message board out there where guys discuss the “Cuddler” scene. And most post have this certain tell, guys cuddle,roaming begins, then there’s alittle bump and grind going on and next thing you know.,,it’s on to FS for 200.
Cuddling is now replacing this whole Sugar Baby thing
I can't be mad at someone for wanting to save money. Not everyone has the funds to throw around. If I had millions, I would probably not bat an eye at a 1K+ lady I wanted to see. And, some may call me cheap for trying to find ladies at the $500-$700 range that are as good as the 1k ladies. But it's what my budget allows. And if someone sent me a PM and said, hey this hottie in your neck of the woods who cuddles actually delivers FS for even less than most providers, I'm listening.
For some, saving money is a real important thing. It may mean we can see escorts more often. Some months when money is a little tighter but I still want to get laid, I will see a k-girl. They are not my favorite because language can be an issue, they are high volume, pictures are rarely them and it takes a lot more homework to find a good one. But I can still have a good time with them when I do my homework and it costs a lot less.
There's nuance to it from the client side. Let's compare to the sugar scene. Regardless of platform, there is a longer registration process, CC's required to verify and CC needed for credits/points to even begin with communication with the ladies on the other side. I don't know if gift cards are allowed anymore but there is the paper trail issue for married dudes. Likely a lot of crossover between the hobby and the sugar bowl. The registration and purchase of points/credits prior to any contact keeps a lot of guys out of the scene. Beyond that, I don't have anything to offer beyond what others have said.
With cuddlers, you register by verifying your email and you're in and ready to communicate with the ladies. Many are platonic and many are not and some clients may see that as part of the hunt, so to speak. As previously stated, taking one for the team is pretty easy at $100-$150. Incall is much more common with cuddlers as well. With the gals I've seen so far, there has been zero talk from any one of them for minimum donation. I match the tip with the fee and this seems to be working just find. From MY experience, the deposits are much less frequent and very low. The number of cuddlers requiring PII is also very low. There is a rating system of sorts where clients can begin to establish some credibility and it appears the cuddlers will use this. I won't say that there are substantial savings vs pros but across the board, it does appear that to be lower price points involved. Yes, there are some cuddlers aware of the back channel talk between clients and they seem to be OK with it.
I think big part of this whole scene is that the cuddlers are able to tell others that they do this as a side gig and may face less judgement as a result. It also allows them to earn what would be closer to pro money in the process. One of the last cuddlers I saw took off her clothes as soon as I started to get comfortable with my own clothing. I was shocked actually and she just looked at me and said "I know why you're here" with a huge grin. Yes, they look up our Karma and talk with others...Almost like the "old days" from TER!
I found someone doing that. Incredibly cool married woman whose husband likes it. But truthfully I ran into a lot of flakes and time wasters but the hunt was fun. She’s become a regular and see her often. A lot less cheddar involved that’s for sure.
Thanks, but I'll pass.
Try and stay dry.
You’ve watched this too 😆
Have you seen the days sent ??
How do people have years or even decades remaining with less reviews than me? I’ve only ever received 15 a review, 2 a problem report and paid a couple of times when I had gift cards that I had no other use for. I’ve never had a balance of more than 120 days. If someone wants to pm me the hack to get more days, and to answer the OP’s question, I’ve got 11 days.
It's pretty easy to churn out problem reports quickly. If you invest the time, they add up quickly. I can create a good 50 in about an hour. I typically sit at 200-300 days of VIP. If I ever go below 100, I get to work.
I pay for my VIP and have only done a few Problem Reports on my profile to correct/update info. I've submitted a few PR for ladies who have dead links for email/website while I was doing reference checks, but have never been awarded VIP days for such.
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And let's be real... anyone subject to a feline entity knows that THEY own us. (My fat, furry fucker is sitting on my throat as I attempt to inform/call for help...)
I pay for VIP as well and never even considered trying to earn days by submitting problem reports. I never look at the days, just renew when I expire.
I didn't know until recently that it was even an option and I've been here as long as anyone I've seen yet. Foolish on my part as I've gone days without VIP simply because I'm 30 miles away from a store that sells gift cards. I hope all is well with you!
All you have to do is one Problem Report a day. At the end of one year, you'll have had a free year of VIP and still have another year of VIP in your account. Rinse and repeat. You've been a member for 11 years - you could have 4,000 days in your account now if you had only done one Problem Report per day.
I find Problem Reports without even trying when I'm looking through the profiles.
I have no interest writing reviews just for VIP access. Thankfully TER has a simple way to avoid that with easy payment options. I will do reviews for special ladies who give great service and " Ask Me To Do a Review for them ". I think the write a review for access is bad for this forum and leads to mass produced fake reviews . On the other hand I see TERs side also. They survive on new reviews as it makes guys like me pay for them. A solution and a additional source of revenue might be a select group for those who have paid for service over the last year or so. It should be a tight select group of those who have the ability to pay for a year upfront. I think it would be a cash cow for TER, they should also include a format for these members to compare notes without non payers to pollute the conversation. I get this might be a very disliked post, but it might be worth doing.