I posted months ago about "provider day at the mall" where I ran into 3 providers walking thru the mall. The post below about the gentleman in NY who was sure two ladies were providers at his hotel prompted me to post this observation earlier in the week.

I was in line for the drive up ATM Monday. In front of me was a very attractive young lady with out of state plates on her car making a very large deposit into the ATM. At first I thought she had a stack of singles that she was trying to deposit into the ATM, perhaps she was a waitress depositing her tips. This ATM takes deposits without envelopes, you just feed in the bills.

She was having a hard time since the stack of bills was so thick that a few bills went flying thru the air. I got out of the car and picked one up that went towards me to help her out and noticed all the bills were 20's. Judging by the stack, there was at least 2 grand in her hand.

She smiled at me and said, "thanks, I had a very busy weekend." I smiled back and told her to have a good day as she stuffed the rest of the money in the ATM.

Providers eat, sleep, shit, go to movies, shop, work out, get their nails done, go out to bars and do all other things non providers do.

Not like we are all locked up in a cage and to see one on street is rare occasion.

So u saw a working girl outside of her incall.

What's the big deal?

I met a provider as I was walking in a hotel corridor. She smiled and I smiled back.  I then walked up to her and said "hey, you look familiar, I saw your ad on BP".  I asked if she was available since the girl I was to meet was a no show, and she asked if I was LE. I said no. She said she had a room at that hotel. In 10 minutes, I was inside her wet pussy. It was pretty exciting to meet that way.

In that particular case, there was no harm done but what if she was there with someone who didn't know what she did?

In general, when we recognize gals we know out in the civie world, it's best to say nothing and do no more than a quick wink, if that.

Maybe because I had a good vibe when we smiled at each other. If she was snobbish, I wouldn't have. But she was friendly.

you're lucky she wasn't LE

than to end up in jail for hitting on a female cop, especially one alone in a hotel hallway.

I sometimes think that no one on this site has ever had to go earn their pussy the hard way, by actually talking to a woman. lol

I mean honestly, what's the big fucking deal about asking a woman to fuck? The worst thing that can happen is you get your face slapped.

I swear to God, I am surrounded by guys with absoulutely "no game" whatsoever. I can't count the times I have picked up "semi pros" in my life. I actually remember picking up a civvie chick that I mistook for a part time provider, but she was so turned on by the prospect she fucked me anyhow. We both had a great time, and I had to remind her that I had promised her money. She accepted my money, but promised to spend it only on something foolish. lol

I recently ran into a friend who had been a real player. We caught up on things and he told me he "has no game" Hasn't been laid in 3 years. Fairly young guy (late 30 early 40). I was shocked. I have no trouble talking to ladies. Usually not expecting a home run but sometimes finding it. 3 Years; just shoot me!!!

I don't really know what the big deal about approaching women is? To listen to many of the "guys" here, you would think that you need a written invitation along with a dozen reviews to even consider talking to a woman.

I mean honestly, men have been getting laid for millenia before TER, and there are over three Billion men getting laid without it today. Don't get me wrong, I believe TER offers huge resources to help guys in choosing women to hobby with that won't end them up in jail, robbed, or otherwise be taken advantage of, but there are a zillion other ways to get laid besides calling a TER reviewed provider.

Of course for those with absolutely "no game" TER is a lifesaver, but to suggest that you don't approach a woman alone in a hotel hallway because you are scared of the consequences is downright pathetic.

and I can think of a few other businesses where $2000 cash is no big deal. Doesn't sound like she made out particularly well either - that's going to change her life substantially???

Snore...

Tamara G x

I've had worst from women I know. It's all about "how" you talk to a woman. If you come off as a sleazy scuds ball you will be treated as such. Charm.....it is a wonderful thing.

But as I get older a week or 2 doesn't hurt but when you start talking years, you have to wonder why bother waking up.

I secured dates with hundreds of women in civie life just by ASKING. That's all. Asking.

What? Is a provider of some mysterious third gender and not a woman? Don't some of them civie date?

If you see a hot chick, don't worry if she's a provider or not. Hit on her. Worst case scenario is you are no worse off than you were before.

Unless my wife finds out.  Then I'm probably fucked.

But how did you know it was a provider and nothing else?

And that's why you pay providers for discretion.

the guy didn't say he just "approached a woman alone in a hotel hallway"

he stated that he recognized a woman from her BP ad and paid her to have sex with him

are you honestly holding him up as an example of "having game"???

seriously???  give me a fucking break

btw, I concede your point on my LE comment, it was really just an offhand comment, and your point is right, the LE risk was comparable to lightning strike here

but I stand by my assertion that many if not most hobbyists here have no game whatsoever, and if it weren't for TER that many of these guys would be forced to remain celibate.

I don't see a thing wrong with asking a woman that you know to be a provider for a session, assuming of course that no one else is in earshot. I have asked women that I didn't even know were providers if they were "working" with favorable, though mixed results. lol

The trick to being a pig, is to not come across as one. lol

If she was provider, the bills would've been 100's and 50's.