the great topic ... which is better for you .. the first time with a girl .. or the 4th ... is the first time exciting and adds a thrill and intensity .. or does it take a couple times to relax with a new lady and allow things to reach their maximum potential ... for me i am the latter .. lots of one time ladies think of me as ..cough .. well .. impotent .. whereas one lady i saw a third time looked down and gasped .. you have been holding out on me !! LOL
so .. are you best with new and the excitement ... or best when with someone known and can relax.
it takes me more than the first visit to get going really. I remember, years ago, I saw this beautiful lady ... and I didn’t get much going ... but I think on the third or fourth I was so hard ... after the first round, going into the second- she just coyly pointed out ... “you can hurt somebody with that” ...
Anyway there you go my story .... 
Did it have a skin eruption or a fungus? Lol
I don’t remember exactly the situation but she was bbbj ing me to get me ready for the second round, it kinda slipped out and I was not paying attention and it inadvertently hit her in the upper neck area partially .... she grabbed it quickly and said that before putting the cover ....
Now, that said do you want a dick slap????
(Just joking .... you guys are are having a bad day today ... so please stick around don’t leave on the account of my joke) 😂
The rush to meet someone new is an erotic rush. After that, it's hard to duplicate on perfection...lol. But , sometimes the 2nd, 3rd date are great..After that, it becomes a "It ain't you, it's me" thing
has been a good predictor for me for how future dates will go. When I think about the best providers I’ve met, I’ve been comfortable and relaxed with them from the first few minutes of our first date, and those dates were great. And so were future dates, although they might get better as we learn more about each other.
I do agree the first time is special but possibly not the best. But unless the second or third time has built to a really great level there probably won't be a fourth time. Of course, it's different with each woman, which is one reason why this game of ours is so great.
Posted By: nevertoolarge
the great topic ... which is better for you .. the first time with a girl .. or the 4th ...
The 1st time had better be a good indicator or there won't be a 2nd (or 3rd or 4th).
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But then, it varies. My #1 ATF is an AMP girl that I saw many, many times over 2-3 years. The 1st time was good but not great and then things ramped up with an occasional dip.
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My #2 ATF is a K-girl. I had been to that place before and things were always good, but this new girl was a knockout. There was a minor problem when they asked for my ID even tho' I had been there before. Normally, I'd be reluctant and walk but I couldn't get my wallet out fast enough: ID, license, birth certificate, bank account statement, ... whatever you want! (License was enough.) It was a great experience and I saw her a few more fantastic times as she moved around NYC. Then she went west to LV, etc. and retired.
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To repeat: It varies.
With some the first time is great, but then goes downhill quickly.
Others the first time is OK, but then keeps getting better and better.
Sometimes things go in phases.
One thing for sure, the gals I see for years on end, things keep getting better and better with them.
...then I must really like her. In those cases, the sessions get better from the first to around the 4th or 5th, and then stay good until she moves or retires, I get into a civvy relationship, etc.
The second is usually the best. On the second, the awkwardness that sometimes permeates the initial meeting is over, and she wants to show you that you made the right decision to return, so she gives her very best service. After that, she knows she has a lock on you, and so the effort and intensity starts to slowly wane, until I reach a point where I know I should look for somewhere who will give me 100% effort.
if i had to make a general statement i would agree with CDL .. i find third through lets say 8th or 9th time are the best and after that its very natural for someone to get lazy ... i cant fault a girl for that. ... it happens in IRL relationships as well .. which explains why a lot of happily married guys are here.
Communication and rapport during the first appointment are never perfect. Usually during the second appointment she is trying to prove herself. Peak performance occurs around the 2nd - 4th appointments and then starts to taper off. Sometimes a little earlier, sometimes later, sometimes never. Why there are so few ladies I see 5 times or more. Also, depends on gaps between appointments.
So cooped up been watching Toy Story...
I digress. When I have found a lover that I like in which my travels and time allows repeat visitation, it usually works out well.
We get to really know one another and the sex flows smoother and in sync. One provider in particular knows what I like to drink, my preference for shower sundries, and positions I like to play in. It may sound routine, but it never really is.
It just really depends on what you and the lady are looking for.
Agreed!
I've enjoyed a number of sessions with the same young lady over the last 2 1/2 years (a few threesomes that we've also shared).
She's always given a full and complete effort, including introducing new things into our playtime.
So far, neither of us have gotten bored and seem to enjoy spending time together.
Much more satisfying than many of my civvie relationships!
first time is always exciting... a new woman and new body... but for me, that comfort and relaxation of a follow up is so much better... like any nerves are gone...
