7/8 is not a bad score at all according to the TER definitions. What amazes me more is the number of "once in a lifetime" providers that are out there.
One other thought... Unless you are a cat with nine lives, how do you have more than one "once in a lifetime".
Been reading reviews lately on some ladies that interest me, and noticed a pattern lately. I can't figure out how a gent would score a lady low, like for example, give her an 8-6, but the review reads like a 9-10. Anyone else notice this? Makes no sense to me
At least with the frequently reviewed providers, it all seems to average out, though.
I rarely give 9,10s compared to some people and I saw some hot ones too some of my other reviews got tossed because my score were wAy off compared to others maybe they learn the hard way
Just about any service that you try to apply a number to is going to be subjective. Read the reviews, look for consistency and decide from there. A series of performance/appearance numbers don't really mean all that much by themselves unless you start to see things dipping below 6 or into the "rip-off" zone. Some guys grade hard, some grade easy, some don't even understand the system.
Grading is not a perfect science. At some point you just have to pony-up the cash and see what happens...
7/8 is not a bad score at all according to the TER definitions. What amazes me more is the number of "once in a lifetime" providers that are out there.
One other thought... Unless you are a cat with nine lives, how do you have more than one "once in a lifetime".
The #s can sometimes drive you crazy. Especially when you get an outlier.
I got an 8 and 9 on the numbers-which is great-but his last sentence of the review said, "This lady is definitely a 10"! I wondered, but didn't ask, why I couldn't have gotten 10s for my numbers!
and should be averaged. I read lows more carefully to see if there was a problem. What I look for is consistancy... everybody has a good time. I expect to see some variance in these subjective ratings. The descriptions are more useful. WIDE swings make me thing the lady may be moody or have to have a certain connection... face it, I'm long past stud status! I'm not a gambler...
That said, I can overlook one somewhat low (but not ROB) review per page or 2 of good reviews. I honestly think 7/7 is a decent review... and I mean no disrespect here.
#7 appearance is "attractive"... if you've just had good sex with her, she sure ought to look attractive to you! If she does not, then there is a problem.
#7 performance is "it was really hot" There is nothing wrong with this! If you had a god time with her, it should be easy to reach this level.
ANYTHING above this is gravy. Anything below this makes me look hard. Perhaps that is the real vaue of a low number... to serve as a RED FLAG so one can quickly move to read the actual review.
I have to say that not everyone has the same desires. The ads are vague of course... it's the reviews that tell what services are really available & the skills with which delievered, so that YOU can match YOUR desires with a provider who happily offers them.
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Reviews are subjective to the personality and personal likes of the reviewer. Some ladies cannot score over an 8, because although they may offer DFK, they don't offer BBBJ, are "really bi", or do greek.. and maybe the reviewer was never looking for these extra services.. so to him, it was a GREAT time, but he CAN'T score her over a 7 or 8, because it's not allowed.. just my .02.
And the really sad part as when I am in one on one setting I could care less if she is bi, I don't DFK or do Greek and while I do love a BBBJ it is not that big a deal to me as long as she gives me a BJ of some kind cover or no. TER numbers are meaningless.
While I agree with you that the numbers are meaningless, I don't believe it's fair to the lady to withhold a review. A review as long as its not bad will help her business, especially if in the details you let them know why you liked her and why the score. I think guys who do use TER worry more about no reviews or long gaps in reviews, then any given score number. Yes there may be guys who only look for 9's and 10's but if you could not give her the score she deserved then she would miss out on those guys anyway. There was one lady you reviewed that I had seen her ads and was worried about something in them. After seeing your review and checking your other reviews I at least knew she was legit and safe to see, you even helped explain the cause of my worry about her ads with your details. So to the smart users among us a review can be a big help regardless of the numbers.
There have been a few times when I gave a provider a 10, or a 9. TER sent an e-mail which stated "the juicy details you described for this provider did not meet the standards for such a high ratting" those were not the exact words, but something to that nature.
I had to drop this one provider I really enjoy seeing from a 10 all the way down to a 7 just so it would be accetped.
Its been times where I would also give a 9 then when my review was accepted, it would 8 instead.
Just make sure you give well detailed reviews, and everyone will get the picture.
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news to hear.
It means that TER is making an effort to apply standards to reviews and ratings.
This only bodes well for all those who use reviews, as this standardization increases the level of consistency among any particular rating and its applicability towards reviews.
I had to drop this one provider I really enjoy seeing for a 10 all the way down to a 7 just so it would be accetped.
Its been times where I would also give a 9 then when my review was accepted, it would 8 instead.
Just make sure you give well detailed reviews, and everyone will get the picture.
If the highest score he has ever given is a 7, then a 6 is fairly high praise; while from a reviewer who gives all 9s and 10s, an 8 would be rather damning.
Just a few months ago I received a 6/6. The guy had a good time, 2 pops, everything he wanted but 6/6. Unfortunately TER downgrades reviews quite readily but does not work the other way as far as I know.
How can anybody agree on a number system? Good numbers attract me to begin with and the ladies I've been with are hot.
It was not their numbers that sealed the deal... (even thought that may have attracted me to begin with)... it was their reviews and follow up to my inquiries. Something caught my attention in an actual review that I liked and I went for it. They sealed the deal with their super nice response... Sounds like the same thing for you. You see a 8 to 6 number but you are reading a 9 for what you like... that's what's important in my book.
My biggest suggestion is to read the actual reviews and forget about the numbers of somebody who might peak your fancy. When you inquire.. you should catch a vibe that it's going to be all good or move on. Works for me...
Just my thoughts...
I recently saw a true 10/10, the most gorgeous and satisfying girl I've ever seen, and I've seen lots. was in TER has a list of services that must be ticked off to earn more than an 8. That's a good idea that helps uniformity of scores, but the list is short. It omits DATY and CIM and includes "really bi" and "more than one guy." The first two are of interest to me, the second two are not. So I could give this gem only a 9 for performance even though DFK, BBBJ, DATY, and CIM are all available. I hope TER will eventually expand its list.