Providers will make choices on who to see based on a number of variables. If you (generally speaking) are refused service, how does it make you feel?

just like you guys dont want to see some providers for what ever reasons... providers are also humans and people... they also can have reasons or a vibe that says, we should not meet..

I would rather, she not see me than have no choice but to see anyone and everyone who walks in through that door...

Either you talked like an uneducated person or were disrespectful, came across as a game player, or I do not feel we would have a good time together. A few times I said no to guys who I feel give many horrid (unfair) reviews for stupid reasons (and yes I told them the such). Now why in the world would I want to see guys with 15 plus reviews giving girls less than a 4 when she gave you everything that tends to be expected? Makes me consider that you are not a nice guy to be with.

I had a reply last month that I was not up to her "standards"???? WTF. I'm whitelisted etc..  I think she is at war with one of thee ladies I've seen.

Like when you were in school an asked for a date an she said your not my type.

We probably weren't going to be compatible anyways, so it's no big deal.
No harm, no foul.

You don't put too much effort into it...

From what WOTW was saying about response times, seems as if you tell a guy flat out you don't want to see him, you get a shit load of hate mail. I love the ones where they point out how I am a "stupid whore" bwahhaha. Whore maybe, but stupid? Well, I guess not, because I was smart enough to not see your dumb ass. Yes, they get annoyed when you actually try to save them money! WTF! If I know I am not going to please you, why not go with a girl that will? I am always happy to refer one to you.  

Speaking about the guys who seem to think it is normal to text in the very first text something lewd or talks like a pimp. Even worse when they send dick pictures. "Hey sexy, when can I cum over?" is not a gentleman text.

That too is very possible. There is a local provider who I refuse to go behind if you will. It seems every client of hers I see, all of a sudden gives me shit after, and I don't need it. Why this dumb hooker thinks someone more than twice her rate, half her age, and a 10th of her volume is a threat, is beyond me, but it is evident the bitch is crazy.

The rest of the excuses that are listed here are total and complete bullshit.

I have been rejected appointments, by hookers because they were too afraid that I will give them bad review or a review too honest - too honest to their taste...

Yep, damn skippy. You can always tell which ones do NOT need money every week or even every month from clients. I would not say that is always a bad thing, though. Many women cherry pick clients who only give 9s and 10s, so they are assured the same scores. Many don't see certain races, work certain hours, no outcalls, no weekends, etc. Even if I were totally broke, there are still things I would never do for that rate. Now, offer me a million, and watch lol. I will do most anything besides incest, children, and animals!

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there was a crazy provider here, who refused to see guys i had seen and refused to provide me references!  

No, I will give the bitch a reference, but that's it. I won't ask her for one, though. She will fk anything with a pulse and 200 bucks, though she claims her rate is 3 lol.

reference, and my experience with a few guys, I would call her, then a few hrs later they cancelled. Turned out she was calling them, and offering them lower to see her instead of me, she told lies about me to them, about me writing her bad reviews (lie) and many other things.  

The hookers will see johns when they need money.  It's not rocket science.  And most only see enough to cover their monthly nut (pun intended).  So for some john to get bent out of shape that a hooker isn't available is stupid.  She's made her monthly nut...no need to suck a dick.

There are plenty of others to choose from. It is best to see someone who is interested in seeing you where the chemistry is right. Hobbyists gets to pick and choose, providers should be able to do the same. There are some providers I know who will not see a guy unless he sends a picture.  Others might decline after seeing references about what the guy is like or reading his reviews.

But I sure do a lot of crossing nutty hookers off my to do list and when I tell them so, they go berserk. You know what I am saying

No, you fool! A million is not a lot if you plan to retire on the shit, but for ONE act, damn right. Most everyone I know does this only part time...as in knowing them personally. I am sure there are many who do have to suck 10-20 d*cks a week, but it is what it is lol. I will concede that many providers have very little business sense as far as retention of clients, reaching equilibrium with rates, and investing, which is sad.

"Does it sting"? A little bit, but not much.  

but I can read the way they write, and some guys DO come off like asses even thru the written word! lol  

Here is what I think...

There's an obvious difference between email and the telephone, with more of a probablity of "tone" with the telephone, but even then, it's tricky.  

She didn't spend any money, it was an outcall.  

A true whore!
But then again, everyone has their price!

I would have just told you flat out, I was not seeing you without a deposit because you canceled before costing me time and money. Yes, shit happens, but when it happens on my end I make it up to the guy even though he actually SAVED money by NOT seeing me that day.

had it happen once. It stung.

Well, she didn't offer any valid explanations.  

That if she can't give what the guy what he wants she passes on the almighty dollar? And that she would see anything that waves a few greenbacks in her general directions if her mortgage was due?

Sometimes it is just that simple.

Same way they make a conscious choice not to see a lady who's "tone" on a fk board does not resonate with with them. Both are the typed word.