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PocoHunter 15 Reviews 1454 reads
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1 / 36

As some of you may know, I am fairly new to this hobby (couple of months only), but when I do something, I try my darnest to do it right and in the best way I can. To that end, monthly STI/STD testing is part of my going forward plan.

Now the question: Would anyone wet their panties in a wad if I were to show up at your incall doorstep, whip out my recent clean STI/STD test report and politely request to see yours

Squeezetheorem 491 reads
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2 / 36

I get my testing done at the OB-GYN (plus some at-home salivary HIV tests in between visits ) and there's no paper report given. I would have to go back in to pick one up and I'm not likely to bother for one session with one client, especially if my info will be on it. The concerns are more related to protecting my info along with the time spent off the clock getting the report than any personal offense taken at the request.
Also, I'd be concerned that the client would be setting the stage for BBFS requests in reducing STD concerns.

-- Modified on 1/5/2016 5:30:16 AM

hbyist+truth=;( 422 reads
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3 / 36

First, you can manufacture one if you know how and second, tricks don't want to share their real info, how do I now that paper is really yours and you sure as hell will not see my real info if I do not have yours.  

And why would you be showing me if your intent was safe sex? When a trick presents his "papers" it means he is after BB in most circles.

shad0wwalker 428 reads
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4 / 36

My health insurance only covers STI testing once per year with my annual physical or OB/GYN exam. I go to Planned Parenthood the other 3 times (since I get tested quarterly). They do not give any paperwork. They do Oraquick HIV testing and tell you the results before you leave the office verbally. Then they simply do not call you if all the other send off labs come back negative.  

I usually am particularly wary when a guy mentions "papers" because usually that's segway to ask for BBFS.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 385 reads
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5 / 36

I put a pic of my clean report on my phone. I've mentioned it to a few providers to ensure(?) my pleasure so they know they're sucking a DF dick.  Call me selfish for mentioning it, but the only thing I want  in the back of a woman's head while she's blowing me is my dick.

I've not noticed any substantial difference from when I didn't show ut, but I usually give them another try just to make sure.  

Ladies, does the thought of diseases ever cross your mind before you put a guys dick in your mouth? I do see your point about bbfs.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 320 reads
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6 / 36

Posted By: pocohunter
As some of you may know, I am fairly new to this hobby (couple of months only), but when I do something, I try my darnest to do it right and in the best way I can. To that end, monthly STI/STD testing is part of my going forward plan.  
   
 Now the question: Would anyone wet their panties in a wad if I were to show up at your incall doorstep, whip out my recent clean STI/STD test report and politely request to see yours?  
 

cspatz 68 Reviews 411 reads
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7 / 36

...with the  exception of one 9 your avg rating for looks is a 6. These women have plenty of photos and many of them include full face shots. What the hell is up with that....

Squeezetheorem 324 reads
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8 / 36

There are always risks, but thinking about them during acts doesn't help with jack shit. Learning and testing are more productive. Leveling up to Truvada or flavored condom ranks may suit the very concerned. My thoughts, if any, seldom venture beyond sensory input and maintaining grace and visual appeal during BBBJ. Unless a song distracts me. Lol

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 315 reads
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9 / 36

I like that kind of focus.  LOL ... PM me if you ever get hungry 😉

Oldtimemonger 359 reads
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10 / 36

Posted By: pocohunter
As some of you may know, I am fairly new to this hobby (couple of months only), but when I do something, I try my darnest to do it right and in the best way I can. To that end, monthly STI/STD testing is part of my going forward plan.  
   
 Now the question: Would anyone wet their panties in a wad if I were to show up at your incall doorstep, whip out my recent clean STI/STD test report and politely request to see yours?  
 
Most people don't get tested more than once every 3 months. Tests are not normally mentioned unless BBFS is involved. The risk of BBBJ is so low nobody worries about it. If you are using a condom for full service why do you feel the need to see a test?

Even if you are not looking for BBFS, asking to exchange tests arouses suspicion.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 312 reads
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11 / 36

Clients and hookers need to stay tested regualrly on multple sex partners .....  

Posted By: pocohunter
As some of you may know, I am fairly new to this hobby (couple of months only), but when I do something, I try my darnest to do it right and in the best way I can. To that end, monthly STI/STD testing is part of my going forward plan.  
   
 Now the question: Would anyone wet their panties in a wad if I were to show up at your incall doorstep, whip out my recent clean STI/STD test report and politely request to see yours?  
 

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 296 reads
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12 / 36
JackDunphy 325 reads
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13 / 36

...that your test results will be scratched off with a common, ordinary household nail.

PocoHunter 15 Reviews 303 reads
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14 / 36

Sorry, I didn't mean to ruffle any feathers, BBFS was NOT in my mind when I posted the question, but I see the spin that question can take. My point of reference was countries where P4P is legal (in Europe), and regular STD tests are mandatory, and the results should be accessible to the customers if requested. I thought it would be fair to have my own results available if I ever wanted to see a provider's. I now see how such request would be frowned upon.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 253 reads
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16 / 36

Posted By: JackDunphy
...that your test results will be scratched off with a common, ordinary household nail.
YES.LOL :) Giving out personal Information is risky or if it fall in wrong hands shit going hit the fan...

2236707 3 Reviews 273 reads
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17 / 36

you had risky sex twice with an HIV+ provider who showed you a bogus test report. How comforting that must be to a new provider you just met. Reverse the roles, same results.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 254 reads
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19 / 36

And I get tested as part of my annual physical. Are you saying you only fuck civvies  who are virgins? lol

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 250 reads
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20 / 36

my test has my real name on it...and if i am gonna reveal my personal info to put some extra nervous guy who is not knowledgeable about risks and how STDs transmit at ease, i better get paid double or triple my regular rate for my troubles....

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 278 reads
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21 / 36

You have a valid point, but I wouldn't say the results are "meaningless". They show a person's status as of the last test and also show the person is responsible by getting tested as a sexually active adult. I'd rather see someone who gets tested regularly as opposed to someone who does not.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 344 reads
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22 / 36

You'll probably get doors slammed in your face for being an arrogant douche bag.

rollaxroll 258 reads
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23 / 36

By definition, 6 is nice, 7 is attractive.  Both are not really bad.  We all know that most providers are average looking women, the real 10 looking are not common although the TER appearance score tends to be skewed high.  Like some guys rated almost every lady score 10, like every women he met is one in a life time beautiful.  We know it's not true.  Some people are just very nice to the providers and like to please them.  Some people are also nice but like to give real score.  Based on his target price range, I don't see anything wrong with all those scores.  

Posted By: cspatz
 
   
 ...with the  exception of one 9 your avg rating for looks is a 6. These women have plenty of photos and many of them include full face shots. What the hell is up with that....

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 278 reads
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24 / 36

asking a question. That's the purpose of the board.  
There'll also be some, who in an effort to bust balls,
come across a little, you could say, rough ... lol

Have fun, play safe and if a provider with any amount of experience takes it the WRONG way, eh. There's room in the hobby for people who might be considered more considerate than others.  

There's always something new to be learned. .. There'll be people who'be learned something from this post.

I learned that there are providers concerned you might be trying get BBFS by showing yours and asking to see theirs. Not judging them, but keeping my ears and zipper open. But many have seen it all ...  

These wonderful women are veterans of the wars. Soft, sweet, in control and in most cases, with your best interests at heart. And you'll find some amazingly big hearts. One told me she's fucked 1000 guys. When she gives me advice or makes a suggestion ....  

btw ... posters to this board have a higher degree of authenticity than you'll find elsewhere. Lust and learn.

RiverJReaves 316 reads
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25 / 36

The CDC disagrees that the risk of BBBJs is a low concern.  The CDC released a statement in November 2015 that  chlamydia, syphilis and gonorrhea are on the rise, the first time since 2006. All can be transmitted through BBBJ. Just sayin'

Oldtimemonger 291 reads
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26 / 36

Posted By: RiverJReaves
The CDC disagrees that the risk of BBBJs is a low concern.  The CDC released a statement in November 2015 that  chlamydia, syphilis and gonorrhea are on the rise, the first time since 2006. All can be transmitted through BBBJ. Just sayin'
Here we go again. A condom does not protect you against syphilis. The CDC includes all demographics which includes gays. STD's are not on the rise among white heterosexuals.  

There is plenty of clinical evidence that oral sex is safe sex. Nothing is 100% certain but the only completely safe sex would be no sex at all.
 
Clinical practice -not speculation
From Med-Help
 
Nothing is perfectly safe but based on  doctors involved in clinical practice your chances in getting a serious disease from oral sex are remote. There is NO evidence that you can get HIV.
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/oral-sex-question/show/2159728
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Ejaculted-in-the-mouth---Different-circumstances---Please-help/show/1757568
 
 
"Oral sex can usually be considered safe sex. There is a low risk for all STDs and virtually zero risk for some of them.  This has been discussed previously; please read the questions and replies in the threads linked below."  
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Oral-sex-risk---unprotected/show/1700243
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Still-scared-of-a-possible-HIV-transmission/show/141587

BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 234 reads
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27 / 36

unfortunately for the ladies in this endeavor, i'm in show business, where everybody is gorgeous by  decree of state law.  even the catering girls are knock outs.

if i were to rate the hobby girls comparing them to the women i work with on a regular basis, most would come out 6 or 7 at best.  some of the ones at the meet n greets are 4 and 5, honestly.

but i rate the ladies i see in comparison to each other, that is, within the parameters of the women who provide.  so a lady who is just a 7 in the real world is probably a 9 or 10 compared to all the other 7's in the hobby.

i am lucky, i have seen hannah covington and victoria baker and ms. lucky seven, and the cute amber bowen from sf, and lisa lang from san diego. these women are quite pretty and i don't feel bad giving them 10's, especially compared to the other women available.

but with a few exceptions. all the ladies i've met are very nice people just trying to make some bucks, so i figure it doesn't' hurt to add to their reputations, maybe it will help them get new clients.  as always, ymmv, so what i consider a 10 you might consider a 7 and visa versa.  i could name a top 10 rated lady that i thought was down right ugly, but she gets sky high marks for appearance.  go figure.  stuff happens.  to each their own.

many have accused me of over inflated reviews, and what can i say, they are right.  in my mind, though, there are only 3 ratings available to a woman:  thumbs up, thumbs down, or ymmv.  thumbs up are ladies i will see again; thumbs down are women i feel are way over priced and bad experiences, and ymmv are ladies that are competent in their skills, but i didn't connect with, however that doesn't' mean they couldn't be great for someone else.

anybody wants to know my real ratings about a lady is encouraged to pm me

Squeezetheorem 294 reads
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28 / 36

It does seem like knowing would facilitate a more relaxed session.  However, logistics and implications dampen the reality. Besides, it's not really 'knowing'; it can take months after exposure for antibodies to proliferate and affect tests. These are matters you'd have to worry about in or out of the hobby, so you may as well use common sense safety and enjoy yourself.

Larissa_Sweets See my TER Reviews 297 reads
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29 / 36

offer BBFS why would it matter. Usually men that inquire about BBFS (Not saying you are) are the ones that offer to show their STD test or bring it up. Hey you might be an exception in which case i have no problem. I would have to blur out my real name and such but I would show you for your peace of mind. Safety is key and that I'm all for.

gaylemeyers See my TER Reviews 262 reads
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30 / 36

Exactly - and to "show up" with "paperwork" that could be easily forged would do nothing but anger me. Discuss your expectations when setting the appointment: don't throw in a desperate monkey wrench upon arrival and think it will go over well.

kerri.bound See my TER Reviews 245 reads
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31 / 36

Some of the BBFS guys seem to think a test "proves" they are clean, and while they can have that opinion, I clearly don't share it.  

Those who test regularly at least nip transmission in the bud, and I consider that to be the responsible thing for us all to do (and I really hope the people I see are responsible!), but the best thing is not to acquire anything unwanted in the first place.  Of course, that is why most are proponents of CFS since that offers good protection with the riskiest activity (and I'll put in a plug for the female condom since it reduces the amount of skin-to-skin contact as well). As for OPs BBBJ, it is considered more risky for the woman than the man, but if a lady offers that service, she's likely made peace with that risk.

RiverJReaves 236 reads
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32 / 36

According to the CDC, whose research and data findings I'll take a little more seriously than MedHelps, STDs continue to affect young people—particularly women--most severely, but increasing rates among men contributed to the overall increases in 2014 across all three diseases. That is straight from they're November 2015 data findings report.

While condoms are not a guarantee of safety, nor is knowledge for that matter, misinformation is a guarantee of the continued spread and rise of STDs. You can swallow that however you like.  
Posted By: Oldtimemonger
 
   
Posted By: RiverJReaves
The CDC disagrees that the risk of BBBJs is a low concern.  The CDC released a statement in November 2015 that  chlamydia, syphilis and gonorrhea are on the rise, the first time since 2006. All can be transmitted through BBBJ. Just sayin'
   
 Here we go again. A condom does not protect you against syphilis. The CDC includes all demographics which includes gays. STD's are not on the rise among white heterosexuals.  
   
 There is plenty of clinical evidence that oral sex is safe sex. Nothing is 100% certain but the only completely safe sex would be no sex at all.  
   
 Clinical practice -not speculation  
 From Med-Help  
   
 Nothing is perfectly safe but based on  doctors involved in clinical practice your chances in getting a serious disease from oral sex are remote. There is NO evidence that you can get HIV.  
   
 http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/oral-sex-question/show/2159728  
   
 http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Ejaculted-in-the-mouth---Different-circumstances---Please-help/show/1757568  
   
   
 "Oral sex can usually be considered safe sex. There is a low risk for all STDs and virtually zero risk for some of them.  This has been discussed previously; please read the questions and replies in the threads linked below."    
   
 http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Oral-sex-risk---unprotected/show/1700243  
   
 http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Still-scared-of-a-possible-HIV-transmission/show/1415872  
 

Oldtimemonger 277 reads
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33 / 36

The Med Help doctors have 30 years of clinical experience in studies of oral sex. If you click through med-help you will find tons of peer reviewed studies.  

The CDC could not even put odds on the risk of HIV for oral sex. I have read the latest CDC reports. I have also looked at the demographics. Furthermore the CDC reports do not say the diseases you mention are up from oral sex.
Posted By: RiverJReaves
According to the CDC, whose research and data findings I'll take a little more seriously than MedHelps, STDs continue to affect young people—particularly women--most severely, but increasing rates among men contributed to the overall increases in 2014 across all three diseases. That is straight from they're November 2015 data findings report.  
   
 While condoms are not a guarantee of safety, nor is knowledge for that matter, misinformation is a guarantee of the continued spread and rise of STDs. You can swallow that however you like.  
   
Posted By: Oldtimemonger
 
     
Posted By: RiverJReaves
The CDC disagrees that the risk of BBBJs is a low concern.  The CDC released a statement in November 2015 that  chlamydia, syphilis and gonorrhea are on the rise, the first time since 2006. All can be transmitted through BBBJ. Just sayin'
 
     
  Here we go again. A condom does not protect you against syphilis. The CDC includes all demographics which includes gays. STD's are not on the rise among white heterosexuals.    
     
  There is plenty of clinical evidence that oral sex is safe sex. Nothing is 100% certain but the only completely safe sex would be no sex at all.  
     
  Clinical practice -not speculation  
  From Med-Help  
     
  Nothing is perfectly safe but based on  doctors involved in clinical practice your chances in getting a serious disease from oral sex are remote. There is NO evidence that you can get HIV.  
     
  http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/oral-sex-question/show/2159728  
     
  http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Ejaculted-in-the-mouth---Different-circumstances---Please-help/show/1757568  
     
     
  "Oral sex can usually be considered safe sex. There is a low risk for all STDs and virtually zero risk for some of them.  This has been discussed previously; please read the questions and replies in the threads linked below."    
     
  http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Oral-sex-risk---unprotected/show/1700243  
     
  http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Still-scared-of-a-possible-HIV-transmission/show/1415872  
 

JoeAFriday 6 Reviews 297 reads
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34 / 36

Different STD's have different incubation periods when NO TESTS can detect them.  AIDS virus can hide UP TO 6 months from time of transmission until it manifests itself.  

Play safe and be sane.

nothrofboston 24 Reviews 311 reads
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35 / 36

I'll defer to your experience in this regard. No one has asked me or offered to show me test resulrs.  

The only time I HAD to get checked was the Samurai Sword babe in CT who went from sitting on my lap, to sliding down on my uncovered cock in the blink of an eye. Her in, me out, a quick withdrawal, on with the cover, wham bam and off to the clinic the next day. Clean AND 8 years ago.

hotplants 250 reads
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36 / 36

You, or I, have a panel run today and it's clean. Tomorrow, you or I have unsafe sex. That STI panel, from yesterday, is now meaningless.  

Not saying getting tested is meaningless. It's a good thing. But, unless you're doing this with an SO, where both of you agree to be celibate for...what...six months or so, and then get tested?.....the "show me yours and I'll show you mine", in P4P (or even non p4p hookups), is no guarantee of anything.  

All you can do, with any certainty, is assess your own risk tolerance

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