Can you grow bored of having timed sex with an endless succession of beautiful, young women, each of whom only require that you discreetly place on the counter an envelope containing the agreed upon amount of cash before engaging in DFK, BBBJ, CIM, FIV, DATY, RCG and MSOG, etc., etc.? Does the fact that there is not the slightest possibility that you will strike out with or be rejected by the object du jour of your desire necessarily diminish the intensity of desire or satisfaction over the course of time? Will the inevitability of each successive partner's orgasmic delight – real or feigned? does it matter? – ultimately turn you into a complaisant and selfish lover? Can the rote descriptions of sexual liaisons in the thousands of provider reviews that you have pored over in the quest for the perfect GFE provide any insight?  

So far, the answers are no, no, no, no and sometimes.

But I'll keep working on it.

I've been doing this for over forty years, and I have yet to get tired of the sex, I can't imagine "poring over thousands of reviews looking for the perfect GFE" Reviews are NOT where you are going to find the perfect anything, just the experiences of other guys, which quite frankly doesn't mean jack to me.

Don't get me wrong, reviews are very important for not getting ripped off, but most reviewers are so easily pleased that their idea of a "perfect GFE" are a far cry from my own.

So yeah, I agree with Fridays, go get fucking laid already, and If you want the challenge of the chase, go to a bar, chase some civvies and if you strike out, TER is always here with thousands of  women to bail out your night.

but in a lot better way than sitting on the couch picking your nose!

While the Jesters have their fun, this is actually pretty insightful.  The part I found very interesting was:
Does the fact that there is not the slightest possibility that you will strike out with or be rejected by the object du jour of your desire necessarily diminish the intensity of desire or satisfaction over the course of time?

While I've had some by-the-book engagements, every woman is different and I can appreciate them as such. I haven't fucked so many that they've started to blur together, but even in that case we need to experience the lows to fully appreciate the highs. So far, participation in P4P has made me a better lover - practice makes perfect!

There are a few alternatives, I've discovered, but eventually engaging in the same pleasures over and over and finding ways to heighten the pleasure more and more gets old. That's when I feel like, oh, shit, think I'll do something else for awhile-- which is how I got into P4P in the first place. So, I take a couple of weeks off and either try to complete some artistic project or go on a spiritual journey. But everything gets boring. And eventually when I'm bored with, say, transcending my ego or whatever, I think, maybe It'd be a nice change just to get laid tonight. Sort of enlarge the vicious circle so that life's amusements can have a little more depth.

I can understand why the questions run. They don't want to get bogged down in your pregnant verbosity.

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Get laid? If that's meant as shorthand for "become a moron," I'm not interested. If it's intended as practical advice, it's easier done than said.  

anecdotal. However, it matches mine, so I concur!  

but if they could see their way towards shooting a few hundred thou..er make that million in funds my way, I'm sure I could whip up a scientifically valid matrix to follow and publish the findings for them.

You do get what you pay for.