Nope. Sounds boring.

I'm not knocking it! If it's appealing to you, then go for it.

Also, it is far from the realm of being "fucked up."

Now on the other hand, if your girlfriend had passed away, and you wanted to wear the dress and have a TS provider bang you in the rear while shouting out wedding vows as "Dueling Banjos" played in the background, I'd say your fantasy might be a little fucked up, sure.

But as it is, it's just vanilla. Made with artificial vanilla flavoring.

So knock yourself out!!


HH

and while you're at it, take my ex's wedding dress and have a ball with that too.

I get buzzkill every time I run across it in the closet.

I think we have no way of knowing where our own fantasies fit on the "fucked up continuum". I mean, I don't have a good gauge to tell me if my sexual desires are vanilla or if they're off the charts. If I had to sum it up I'd say anything goes as long as it's consensual and no children or farm animals are involved. I think everything else is fine.

So here goes: I recently became intrigued with the idea of asking a provider to wear my girlfriend's wedding dress. I know... this fantasy is one Freudian cliche piled on top of another. My GF had an arranged marriage that didn't last long and is now divorced. Someting about the innocence of the white wedding dress, the religious wedding, and knowing that she was promiscuous (a good thing in my book) before her marriage, is a huge turn on. Also, her ex-husband was a crazy jealous dick and it bothered him a lot that she wasn't a virgin when they married. So is it just me or does it just make perfect sense that all these things combined would make me want to screw her and cum all over her wedding dress? My GF doesn't want anything to do with the dress, let alone my fantasy of fucking her in it. She told me to take it to Goodwill but on the way to drop it off I got this idea.... I would like to lend the dress to a provider and I want other hobbyists to make it messy.

Does this resonate with anyone else? Do other hobbyists or providers think this is hot?

wow, and i thought i was all messed up.  that's pretty interesting.  it makes me want to take my S.O.'s wedding dress out of storage now

what the point is... aside from the fact that it's a huge turn on for you.

One confusing part was, do you want other hobbyists to make it messy or do you want to be the one making it messy?

Either way go for it.  You're not hurting anybody... so why not?
A bit futile but I can see why it would get you off, since I'm not religious either.

and fulfill your fantasy, please have it dry cleaned!  

That's my 2 pennies,
Laina

P.s.  I think your fantasy is cool!  If I were her, I would be all over it!

U have material possessions that reminds u of your ex: the emotions, dramas, and memories of both good and bad, and u want to relive and tarnish it. That's what a fantasy is all about. I don't consider it fucked up, and ur fantasy is more on the milder side. I am sure most providers will accommodate to ur needs.

Its a classic case. I have also thrown away and burned many things that reminded me of my past relationships with SO's. Good luck.

dress for some other guy!

It took me four weekends to get rid of most of it.

I figured I leave the wedding dress as a not too suble reminder to me:  Never again!

Im sure you won't have a problem finding someone willing to act out your fantasy.

On a fucked up scale that ranks pretty low compared to some of the ones we hear.

Go for it, have fun and leave a review

IMHO your fantasy of fucking a provider while she wears the wedding dress sounds perfectly reasonable to me.  However, I feel that the whole messy part is a little weird. That part just sounds nasty. I have zero interest in having sex with a provider wearing a "soiled", cum-stained wedding dress.

Wedding dress is what I wanna know, lol!

But yeah, sounds fun. I'd most certainly fuck whomever's wearing the OP's ex's wedding dress and splash allover it.

While I'm at it, can I use it to wipe my ass after I had Mexican the night before? Won't be pretty, I'll tell you that.

I am sure you will have volunteers then. Hell if I was having a session with you and you asked I would do it just because.

Even APPROACHING the redline for a lot of women, you're idling at the red light, IMO.

But your fantasy brings up questions about how you really feel about your girlfriend's history of promiscuity.  You have said that you are OK with it, but if you are not, it will continue to be an issue in the relationship until the two of you can work through it together.

based on the scale of things that I've heard. If it is a turn on for you, just do it - don't spend time analyzing the reasons WHY you want to do it....


have fun and play safe!

Summer