Ya see GaG's brother you at least get some enjoyment out of it...I just get sore and fucking irritated. Now if a back massage was a way I could orgasm, then for sure I would prolong to the very last minute. Sometimes that is waaay more enjoyable than someone trying to get me to come by squishing my lady parts.

And hey, I am certainly no clock watcher but I can't handle a dude who marathon screws. I will stop him...no ifs, ands or buts. I'm not 3g either but I know when it's too much for my body to comfortably handle. And no I don't ever say "come for me baby"...sounds freaking stupid coming out of my mouth. I just request a break and let him know I'm sore. We can work around that one nicely by changing things up.

I couldn't help but LMAO, that man is a comedic genius.  Chemistry is key.... and I agree that Did you come????.... on either side of the plate is a turn off.  Relax and go with the flow.  Thanks for the Saturday Afternoon Special Laugh.  I liked the dumbstick quote too!  Enjoy the beautiful weather.  Kathi

The worst way for a woman to get me to come is to start that insipid "come for me baby" lol

I am the same way, if a woman starts pressuring me to come, I can go for hours without cumming. It's almost like "grudge fucking" at that point. I don't normally like fucking a woman until she is bowlegged, but those clock watching, one step up from an ROB who want to fuck for three minutes and then get the fuck out of there, type women give me a certain sense of satisfaction when I finally let them "make me cum". It's one of the times that I truly enjoy having "staying power". lmao

I never rebook with any woman with that type of attitude anyhow, it's my way of giving them a taste of their own medicine.

Complete with dumbstick.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=dumbstick

I agree, if I'm pressured to come quickly so that the provider can quickly move on to the next client, my cock goes into "grudge fuck mode" and I can go on for a very long time.

but when a provider starts that shit two minutes into the session, I go into that "grudge fuck mode" you mention and probably ruin it for the next guy. Of course the "next guy" wasn't going to have any better time with a chick like that anyhow IMO.

Thank you for answering. Expectations to cum turn me off as well.



HalfHour

Love, absolutely love DATY. it's the only way I can orgasm. If I feel pressured to come in a session, then chances are...no, I can say that definitely it won't happen. If it's a "go with the flow" scenario and the gentleman knows what he is doing for me, then there is a likelihood it will happen.

The only time I prefer not, is if I know he wants me to come...it's a turn off to have that expectation when there maybe no  chemistry or his style does not jibe with mine. Then what do I do? I fake it. It's his experience and if his experience includes that I "come", then I will "come".

If I come across guys that really want/need me to come, I don't see them again.

any woman that starts asking me to cum two minutes into the session doesn't have to worry about ever seeing me again.

and believe me, we ALL have a lon list (sic) of providers we will never see again as well.

BTW I hope you realize I can see who you really are behind that alias.  Taking cheap shots at a moderator from behind an alias is not going to get you into Mensa. roflmfao

Your brother lets you use his account?  Oh fuck, we're all in trouble now.  

Maybe she just doesn't like you, maybe you have no game and she just wants you to finish so she can be done with you. Maybe something about you creeps her out and she is doingg her best NOT to look sickened by you.  
Listen, we are not going to click with everyone and some appts are "just a job" finish and please leave so it will only be a distant bad memory. One we will never repeat.

Not everyone we see is good in bed fun to be with and a pleasure. She may just want YOU out of her space no other reason than that. Then you are DNS listed in her phone and she just never picks up again.
and believe me, we ALL have a lon list of DNS ppl we will never see again.

LMAO! Love the cheesy smile.