Guys, I love this hobby but am not enjoying it as much. My problem is premature ejaculation.....I come so fast. I normally just do quickie but believe me, I can hardly last for 5 mins!! Some of you experience guys out here need to advice a brother!! What can I do differently to last a little longer? Every advice out here will be helpful to others that are facing similar problems. Some of the providers I have been with really enjoyed it!
...discussion board and do a thread search for "premature ejaculation." It's a topic that has been well-discussed and should be helpful for you. Good luck --
Funny thing is, most of the times, I come during the BJ session and find it difficult to recoup in time before my time's up!! Very annoying and disappointing. Thanks so far fellas.
I should have been more clear. Depending on your recovery time, try masturbating a good 24-48 yours before your appointment.
If you are ready to go the next day, try doing it in the morning for an appointment later in the day or the night before for an appointment the next morning.
Another suggestion during the BJ, talk to the provider and ask her to ease up. Ask for more shaft action instead of head action.
You can also try bypassing the BJ and going straight to FS and see if that makes a difference. Come back and try the BJ after FS and see if you can go again.
I come fast in k9 and mish, but in cg I can last a pretty descent time.also I find if the girl is doing pretty deep fast strokes I can't last 2 minutes.but that is when you gotta switch it up to a nice slow grind.but if she is a girl who wants you to cum fast cause she doesn't wanna do much work chances are she won't slow but speed up to get you to nut.just what I have noticed throughout my experiences. So if you are seeing girls who say"come for me baby"within 5 minutes, you won't get over this.
Make out with her and slowly remove her clothes, and she yours, just like in the porn flicks. Do massage on each other or other neat stuff like kissing various parts of each others' bodies. Take a bath or shower together and have some soapy fun.
I find that this allows me to have at least ten minutes or more of good action.
Another thing that works is aging, but obviously who has time for that?
Here is another practice that teachs how to prolong things: Practice masturbation taking care to be very careful about how excited you are getting. As you reach the point of no return, just stop altogether and wait until your erection subsides considerably, then start over and repeat for as many cycles as you can physically stand it.
This allows you to become atuned to the signals your body sends you and gives you practice at holding off. I did this years ago and it worked wonders.
Seeing a tantrika is a good way to learn this also. They specialize at bringing someone to the point of orgasm without ejaculation, then allow you to back off and start over again.
Alcohol does have a certain desensitizing effect on many guys, myself included. Back a hundred years ago when cumming too early was sometimes an issue, I would knock back several before having sex and found I would last much longer, of course you have to be careful, some guys can't get it up at all if they have too much. I have never had that problem though, even on the ocassions when I get MP67 type drunk. lol
Another solution that I guarantee will work if the OP can pull it off is to have a lot of sex, I mean 5-6 times a day for a few days, it will take a lot of the mystery out of sex, (your brain is your biggest sex organ) and after having sex a few dozen times, you'll wish you could still cum in five minutes. lol Not to mention, it's a lot of fun.
You know EXACTLY what I'm talking about! And you're also right about the more the better. It desensitizes your brain, which is the main factor as to why a guy blows his load too soon.
Hey, sometimes it's a good thing. Like when I used to fuck this married lady at my old job in the bathroom. She had these nice, big titties, her husband was a prick, and she used to steal condoms from her sons' dresser to bring to work so we can fuck. But I digress....
Do what mrfisher and Gambler say and you'll be fine!
I really agree with your second point Gambler. A few years ago when I was in college and had less responsibilities, I had sex several times a day or week. As a result I really used to last, sometimes I hardly came. Thanks so much guys, this has been a serious really experience for me today. I am starting most of these advices now and I will post the result fro the first few encounter here!!! lol!
if you truly cared for OSP you would ignore his posts and tell him to go rest and stay away from those who wish him dead. Before you say it; no you aren't his sitter. Re-evaluate what friendship is.
But there are those here who wish him well just like anywhere else. In fact I am sure OSP has more friends here then those who wish him here. I doubt posting on this board is hurting his health unless he is doing it drunk or 24 hours a day or some other dumb way.
Honestly speaking I wish I could do the whisky thing, but I don't drink anything acholic brother. Thanks though, for the advice. I am really learning from this forum on this subject.
PE is very common while most men won't admit it but there is some new treatments that are very effective in most cases. Go see a Urologist and explain the issue and he will most likely prescribe 20MG's of Paroxetine once a day. The prescription is cheap - $4 for a monthly supply from Walmart.
After about 4-5 days on the medication you will start to see improvements in your lasting abilities and by 14 days you should be as good as it gets....
" Go see a Urologist and explain the issue and he will most likely prescribe 20MG's of Paroxetine once a day. The prescription is cheap - $4 for a monthly supply from Walmart."
Paroxetine is Paxil. There are better ways to prevent PE, the easiest being more sex.
Guys, I love this hobby but am not enjoying it as much. My problem is premature ejaculation.....I come so fast. I normally just do quickie but believe me, I can hardly last for 5 mins!! Some of you experience guys out here need to advice a brother!! What can I do differently to last a little longer? Every advice out here will be helpful to others that are facing similar problems. Some of the providers I have been with really enjoyed it!
I used to have the same problem. I was tempted to try medications but decided to try and work through the problem without meds.
If you do some google searches there is plenty of information out there about different practices and techniques that might help you.
One thing that helped me was practicing the "start and stop" technique when masturbating. Basic idea is that you masturbate to just about the point of ejaculation, then stop, let your body calm down a bit and start again, repeat and repeat until you finally let go. While doing it, don't concentrate on the amount of time but do keep rough track of how long you are masturbating before stopping and try to extend that time a bit each time you practice. The technique helps you learn to recognize when you are about to ejaculate, there is just that "point of no return" and if you can recognize you're about there then you can stop the activity and let your body calm down a bit. It takes a bit of work, dedication, and practice to make the technique work but it does work for a lot of guys.
You can try the start and stop technique with providers but a lot are not going to care for it. They're not your girlfriend or wife so a lot aren't going feel like really helping you practice, they are wanting you popped and gone, not starting and stopping, starting and stopping especially if its a "quickie" session.
Some providers are really skilled at picking up the signs and signals of a guy's approaching ejaculation, the ones who give teasing absolutely dreadfully glorious bbbj that tease on and on until they finally get you over the tipping point, they are picking up on the guy's signals and varying their activity and technique to keep teasing and pleasing the guy. But you're most likely not going find those providers giving "quickie" sessions.
Another thing that helped me was booking longer sessions, BUT I carefully screened the providers to make sure they are GFE and offer MSOG. With the longer amount of time (90 minutes or 2 hours) and a GFE MSOG provider, I didn't have the same mental pressure. The GFE aspect helped me to relax better and feel more comfortable with the provider, and nervousness can play a role in PE. The extended time and MSOG relieved the pressure and worry about only getting one shot and having to "make it count". If the first shot happens a little quicker than I want, I know I still have more opportunities in the session.
The third thing that helped was communication. It was embarrassing and kind of humiliating to tell the providers about the issue at first but all the GFE MSOG providers that I choose to see were very understanding. Some were more helpful in prolonging things than others but they all were understanding and tried make sure I enjoyed the sessions.
I have had the same problem and i used to get around it via MSOG. One quick one... usally BBBJ. some talking. then a nice long fuck in multiple positions. Then one day with a great provider i told her i dont want MSOG but that i would pay her extra if we could start in right away and she could keep me from cuming until the end of the hour. She started. she stopped. we kiseed. she started again. she stopped. 8 maybe 9 times she brought me to the brink and then we DFK's or i sucked her nipples or something. Then finally when she brought me all the way it was unreal. It just takes cooperation (and some extra money).
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