I have a question for the providers that presented a lively debate at work. I figured I'd consult my secret source [TER] for an answer: Is there a such thing as an "average" penis size among men, and can you tell before the client shows himself? My theory is that averaging penises is as hard as averaging breast sizes on women. I've seen ALOT of breasts and can no way determine an average, per se. Based on your experiences, what do you consider too small, small, average, large, or too large? And what percentage of your clients fall into each category?

By the way, I work in an office full of women, so any of your expertise will help me hold my own during the next office debate on this topic.

Has been discussed so many times, but the last time, I was glad someone showed a website with a grid that showed what women prefer versus the percentages, etc.

If anyone can recall that thread, or website, I think the answers are there.

we can't tell just by looking at you all in clothes the way you can pretty much tell all that a woman does/doesn't have. We won't know about the 'jewels' until you're naked!

I had a few seconds so I found the posting with the link.  Enjoy

http://theeroticreview.com/msgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=12&Messageid=83713

I think that really is about it.
The next question is how important is it?

AWESOME!!! I'm going to print the chart out and take it to work. Thanks.

not sure of the spelling there but:
Sedona - just because we might discern your loveliness in shape and/or form, does not mean that we have any idea of the reaction to a cuddle, a kiss, a lick here and there, a little breath of air over a particular spot, a little rub the "right" way, a certain word or phrase or any number of personal things!!!. So you see, that while WE may see, we are truly blind until you reveal yourselves!!! (or until you permit us to discover you)!!!

male participants' insecurities, and the depth of the individual female participants' hostilities toward men (as shown by the level of gratification, if any, that they get by playing on those insecurities).

Having to hold your own in an office full of females must really be frustrating! lol

I don't know if this is covered by the site, but it has been on my mind for some time:

Are women of two minds about penis size, perhaps?  Could it be that a large erect penis is visually (and tactilly?) very exciting for most women, in the way larger breasts are for most men?  Furthermore, could it be that this pleasure is cruelly offset by the pain of being penetrated by it, or even the stress of thinking of penetration?  

If this is true, is there any way this situation can be made less stressful and more pleasurable for providers, and women in general?

/Zin

is by and large about client's desires. The ladies who choose to share intimacies with us do so knowing they're going to encounter different body types, ages, men of different races, and different "sizes". I'm not saying the ladies don't have their preferences in "partners", I'm saying they provide a service to all types of clients.

Sure the lady's pleasure is a large component of the time you spend together, but so is the attitude, and behavior of the client. Clients who are respectful, clean and considerate, and who "donate", are the clients that "measure up". MfSD>>>>

Well all I can say is that NetM was very nice and did not laugh and point.  Well at least until I left....

Sully

Booooiiiiinnnnnnggggggg!



Cheers!

If a guy takes his time to get me "ready" for him (i.e. foreplay, daty, etc.), then bring it on! If the guy is there like 2 minutes and he attempts penetration, I know that a) it hurts, because it usually takes me a little longer than that to be "ready" and b)I will naturally tense up because of the pain, which will delay my natural lubriacation process.

Basically, to make it more comfortable, allow some foreplay before you go at it, and make sure that your partner is just as aroused as you are. You'll then be more likely to have a mutually enjoyable experience. Just my .02.

...is that it's often about more than just size.  What pleases people is extremely subjective, and the chart seems to be taking an objective view.  

Certainly, a survey of women might reveal their size preferences which can supply the data needed to construct such a chart, but size is not the only factor that leads to sexual pleasure.

For that matter, sexual pleasure is not the only factor in an enjoyable evening for many of our favorite ladies...there is a mental and emotional connection that happens under the best of circumstances that has nothing to do with the size of a man's genitalia, and everything to do with the way both partners respond to conversation and touch.

Yoda

YA got what ya got. Learn how to use it the best you can and remember:   "What you dont use you loose"   scary thought.

Reepends...

Thank you, Amber.  But even with lubrication, wouldn't a well-hung guy hurt more than the middling?  Or does it all have to do with lubrication?  Women don't all have equal pliability in their vaginas.  Though it's true they are made to stretch around a baby's head, but the stretching of the tissue alone has to be painful.  I would think?  

/Zin