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on.Pins.and.Needles 1280 reads
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Something I am trying to figure out. How are agencies getting guys screening information when they have never submitted the information in the first place ?

scoed360 reads

But what I would like to know is how some independent ladies are getting my screening information. Just Friday I got an unsolicited email on my hobby email account from a lady who said I was prescreened. I think some ladies are sharing information. Onething I will say with a first name and a tractable phone number I can learn almost anything about you. I do now something about finding people who don't want to be found.

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mistressstarr28295 reads

I would say that lady was kissing and telling which is a BIG NO NO...WTF are they thinking...NOT KOOL..They should be outed out or told that you dont think its right and to stop that at once..IMHO

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But what I would like to know is how some independent ladies are getting my screening information. Just Friday I got an unsolicited email on my hobby email account from a lady who said I was prescreened. I think some ladies are sharing information. Onething I will say with a first name and a tractable phone number I can learn almost anything about you. I do now something about finding people who don't want to be found.

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sensualcleoforyou204 reads

I was more referring to pseudo names and TER handles and hobby emails. No kiss and tell as far as personal info which I don't need to know anyways. When my friends tell me a guy is cool that's all I need to know.

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Posted By: mistressstarr28
I would say that lady was kissing and telling which is a BIG NO NO...WTF are they thinking...NOT KOOL..They should be outed out or told that you dont think its right and to stop that at once..IMHO
Without knowing more details it may be no one's kissing & telling.  I've been told I was pre-screened by providers who are members of a screening service that I am a member of; they see where I am, check my profile, and drop a note sometimes.  Others have done so based upon my posts on boards like this, or after we've exchanged some PMs talking nothing about a session.

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mistressstarr28139 reads

True true but if that not this case they was talking about I think... They are getting email without asking for them which is a no no I would say...But is a hobbie good and the bad...Hobby safe...MS

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Posted By: mistressstarr28
I would say that lady was kissing and telling which is a BIG NO NO...WTF are they thinking...NOT KOOL..They should be outed out or told that you dont think its right and to stop that at once..IMHO
Without knowing more details it may be no one's kissing & telling.  I've been told I was pre-screened by providers who are members of a screening service that I am a member of; they see where I am, check my profile, and drop a note sometimes.  Others have done so based upon my posts on boards like this, or after we've exchanged some PMs talking nothing about a session.
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scoed102 reads

I don't belong to a screening service as I have always had a provider willing to vouch for me. It has to be a case of kiss and tell or a joke from one of my wifes friends. I don't know who to out and the lady who sent the email is new and I did email her it was bad form to gossip about clients and to cold email potential clients without some indication it would be OK. She has not responded back.

I am not happy as this lady had my full name, hobby email and who knows what else. I could not find this lady anywhere on the web, so I don't even know anything about her. I not 100% sure it really is a her as I couldn't even find an ad for the lady. Someone has lose lips or it is a joke on me. I really hope it is just a joke as someone sharing that information could land someone in a world of hurt.

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sensualcleoforyou82 reads

She may not be a real provider after all. Sorry you're experiencing that as it sucks to worry like that and watch over your shoulder.

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scoed81 reads

The email is not linked to my name but a fake one instead. There is only 20 people who have my hobby email and half of them don't have my full name. I am not worried about being outed but if someone is kissing and telling using names and contact information, that is a breach of trust and is not to be taken lightly.

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sensualcleoforyou209 reads

Don't sreen well but with the internet you can find a lot of info even if the gents don't submit much. Keep in mind there is also back channelling with the indys and some agencies that have good relationships.

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quadseasonal114 reads

"Something I am trying to figure out. How are agencies getting guys screening information when they have never submitted the information in the first place?"

 I am certain independents talk amongst themselves of our demeanor, behind closed doors.
 I wouldn't  think agencies would be so quick to share intel.
 If I am pre screened, that saves me time.
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