How did you do that?

It is all about ME yanno, and if I didn't enjoy doing this, I wouldn't do it! If it didn't turn me on and thrill me, I'd get an office job! I am not here for lack of skills, I'm here because it is FUN, and I am making money doing something I truly ENJOY.  HOW do I do it? Would you like the illustrated step by step guide, or the cliff's notes version???  hehe!

Hugs*
Nicole

Reoes any provider really ever come?

Take a look at my latest review on Camille. There's a hint on how to make it happen. It's only possible if the lady enjoys her work. Some do and others are just in it for the money and resist their own enjoyement. Why, I've no idea.

*queef!
*coo
morgan ashley

What she said - totally ditto for me.

-Anya

get a clue, take a human sexuality class.

How do you do that?
if you can last "inside" for more than a few strokes, you have a chance for her to enjoy some pleasure and maybe you can give her an orgasm.

either you are an idiot or a troll

Peace.

Well, aside from echoing Jonathan's "Chill" request, I think rockhard may be so a little too much of the time. I think it's fairly rare that a woman has an orgasm from simple intercourse, no matter how long the guy lasts. Some special attention to the clitoris is usually required. Though it’s possible to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse with some advanced pelvic motion it’s not easy to get it just right. Rubbing her with your fingers or thumb during intercourse can be effective with the proper lubrication, but few providers allow this trick since so many guys do it wrong. It’s too easy to rub her sore. If the woman rides cowgirl it’s easier for her to create the right friction to achieve her own orgasm during intercourse.

Contrary to rockhard, I think this is a great question if you’re interested in giving a woman pleasure, whomever she might be. It took me a few dates to start to figure it out. It’s a common notion joked about by women, that men don’t know where the clitoris is.

Ladies, please help me out here. I’ve got a feeling that german_dalmation would rather hear from you.

What brings you to orgasm? Do you fake orgasms for clients? Do you try to have orgasms or Do you avoid orgasms for some reason?

rik

Please!

I do demo's in person, but not online... hehe!

Hugs*
Nicole

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*queef is when a girl puffs air out of her cookie and *coo is a sexual loving sound.  Hehehe, kinda easier to explain in person!!!

pt

sorry, forgot the (eom)

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that you should verbally indicate when you are about to come.  Some women can sync their orgasms based on this cue.  I have never asked a woman about this, so I can't say if it is really true or just a tale.

ok NOSC, I am close enough. I am here. P-mail me for directions. The challenge is on. I will bet you double or nothing on a two hour gift I can make you cummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. But you are correct, I can alwayys use a road map and more practice too. LMFAOROTF! XXX Hey I'll keep trying! Woof.

--too bad he has no clue

Really? What kind? Are we talking verbal...or "oral"....Hmmmm?

I ask because while "oral" is usually (though not always) part of the hobbyist experience for me (I love to go down on a woman, assuming she is a woman I would go down on...I admit there have been rare occasions where I thought better of it...), my ultimate escort fantasy the one where I get to relive all of the highly freaky, somewhat rough and thoroughly enjoyable sex I used to enjoy with an EX GF. It involves some judicious name calling (boundaries to be pre set and respected) to go along with lots of hair pulling and ass spanking. I know, I know...call me weird, tell me I need therapy (I know and I know in both cases...you are singing to the choir) but my sex life just hasn't been the same (satisfying in other ways, but not the same) since the days of my very few limits EX GF twice removed. I still daydream of those hot, sweaty hair pulling, ass spanking, name calling sessions...and have simply assumed that no ASP would go THAT far....


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Are you saying you've never had simultaneous orgasms with a woman?

Different people seem to have different levels of control over their own orgasms. I suppose that if a woman is close she could release on a verbal, or at least audible, cue. However, I think it's more kinetic than that.

It excites me to hear and feel a woman reach orgasm, and if I'm anywhere in the nieghborhood of release, I would be hard* to hold my own.

rik

*"pressed" has been deleated for the sake of sublte humor.

Y'know, I am not sure if I have ever had simultaneous orgasms with a gal.  I am not the most verbal, call me shy, but it is something I will be exploring.

Ohhhhh now you made me grumpy! It always makes me grumpy when I see someone with a high libido who is open minded sexually talking about needing therapy and WHY, because our STUPID idiotic society says so??????? AGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH!

Please keep in mind that OUR society is not the ONLY one in the world... nor does it mean just because we have laws that regulate sex, that those laws are *morally* right. Only YOU can decide what is morally right for you, and in my opinion, you can do whatever you choose with another consenting adult as long as it does not involve harming or interfering in the life of anyone who is NOT consenting.

I hear this kind of crap all the damn time and it is my PERSONAL pet PEEVE, OMG!!!!!! This Christmas the radio abounded with commercials with the following dialog... (Very sexy female voice...) "Hey guys? I'm going to tell you a little secret that could get me in a lot of trouble.  Do you want to know how to get the booty?????"  Pause, and then... "Well, if you want to get the booty, you've got to come up with the booty... meaning great gifts of course!"  It was a frickin' JEWELRY STORE COMMERCIAL and if you want to talk about media-sanctioned prostitution, well THERE IT IS!  

Meanwhile, any young woman who claims to love sex, and masturbates every day, feels like there is something WRONG with her and she should get therapy, and she must have been raped or molested or abused as a child, because no one normal feels that way. No, the normal women lose all interest in sex and their husbands come TO US.  Normal women won't have sex with the lights on, or try anything new, so their husbands look ELSEWHERE.  THAT is normal?????

Oooooooooooh it makes me so DARNED MAD!
I could... SPIT or something!
GRRRRRRRRRRR.

Whewwwwwwww, ok I think I'm done venting for the moment. But you, Mr. Hair pulling hot sweaty sex spanking loving guy... DO not feel like there is something wrong with you. ANYthing in this world can be a negative or unhealthy thing... as soon as it becomes self-destructive (ie: never using condoms... etc!), or HARMS you in any way and you continue the behavior regardless.  That includes healthy things like working out, etc. People get soooooo defensive of how "sex is not the most important thing" to them... well I'm here to tell you, this world would be a better place if more people nurtured their sexuality and cared for it rather than assuming it is "bad" or "dirty." UGH.

OK I'm really done, honest! For now
Hugsssssss*
Nicole

Oooh, now I know what button to push when I want to get a good rant out of you!: )

I have LOTS of buttons... hehe

Have you ever listened to Dr. Drew and Adam on Loveline???? OOOOOOH GOOODDDDDDDDDDDD THEY piss me OFF! Especially Dr. Drew who wouldn't know a sexually healthy being even if she gave him the best blowjob of his life. He'd be busy going "but you MUST have been molested as a little girl to actually ENJOY this, you poor thing! Tell me, was your father present when you were a child?" AGGGGGHHHHH!  Corrupting the youth of America, one poor girl at a time!

See??? buttons, everywhere! Dr. Drew is my serious pet peeve though and I cannot even listen to them anymore I get so darned angry... it's the same thing night after night... they beat up every person who calls in for advice... it's like a "damage the self esteem of teens everywhere" version of Jerry Springer.

Hugs*
Nicole

If you can, if there's any way at all, to masturbate when no one's home or whatever... just open your mouth, breathe, don't hold yourself back!  We learn as children to be QUIET when we're masturbating, not wanting parents, siblings, etc, to hear... but as adults, it is sooooooooooo nice to be able to let go of that! I can be quiet if I absolutely MUST, but it's a struggle, and I'd rather not And I also only really discovered after getting in the 'biz how hot it is when GUYS make noise too... what a turn on!!!!!

Hugs*
Nicole

Ok, Ok...I hear ya....I FEEL YA  (I WISH)...but....does this mean you are down for a hair pulling, ass spanking name calling session or not?  

Awaiting reply with baited breath, American Express at the ready to purchase ticket to DC....

Duuuuuh........oooookkaaaayyy  (as he sheepishly dials telephone for air fare purchase)