anything is possible but

It takes more than being truthful, tho that is important in any relationship.

what is more important, is to be honest with yourself and asking yourself if this relationship is possible.

if you thought it was, would you still be asking others and looking for reassurance?

I personally dont know of any relatioship between a regular guy and working girl lasting.
that doesn't mean all, but in general, I would say not.

Good Luck and I mean that.

I would say it's possible but rare.  A FAV of mine is older, mature & married.  Sometimes he brings her dinner at the hotel.  Although I marvel at the relationship, I've not pried as it would likely be my last appointment.  So, I'm unsure of the motivation...   I gather he's NOT a bum, brings dinner after his shift at work.  It may be that she's keeping their house out of foreclosure?  

Beyond this, it is a very difficult thing to deal with mentally.  
I wish you well, ANGELL
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I think if you search for ATF/LTR on this board or the erotic highway board, you hear of the occassional provider/client relationship. You might try that board.

Personally the odds of the average ordinary uncomplicated relationship lasting isn't very good.  Start throwing on "baggage", like kids, wierd potential inlaws, conflicting schedules and last, but not least, wierd jobs (like yours, or jobs that require lots of time away) and the odds continue to go down.

So if your relationship dies, it may not be just what you do for a living but a whole list of other things.

You didn't even mention what baggage your boyfriend is bringing along.

good luck

Human beings are complicated. There is no way to be 100% sure if a relationship will last. My guess is that it will last as long as you both want it too.

I have only been really jealous once in my life, so I don't consider myself a jealous person.  I have met a number of providers who I have grown to adore.  I have developed deep friendships with three professional ladies with whom I was never involved professionally (at least not theirs, two started out as my patients and I could never have been involved physically therefore.) I close my eyes and ask myself if I had become deeply and personally and monogamously involved with one of them, could I have lived with knowing the relationships they were having professionally and I don't know the answer.  I would like to think I could be happy if she were happy in her work, but could I really?  I don't know.  I would guess the odds are long.

Hard to say...you have been honest about what you do, thats more than I can say myself. I can not see that the stronger this relationship gets the harder he may find it to seperate you from what you do. It is a great deal to ask of a man.
I am not honest with my SO about what I do, its complicated and it got beyond the point I had expected so thats where I am at.
Good luck to you either way, but I do think it takes a very strong man, who has the same views as you about this business, they need to be honest with themselves first.