My experience with them has been very positive..... but then that might have something to do with who is using them with me.
OK, I have a question for the guys. I often use female condoms (bring them with me almost always) and I have been told they feel like nothing at all (like bare back). Now, I get a request from a potential client that wants to go get tested with me (on our 1st meeting) and go bare back. I explained, I don't play unsafe, but I do have female condoms. He has never experienced a FC, but insist that BB is the only way to go.
So, to the men that have experienced a female condom, is it really like nothing at all or is it just better than the male version? And if it feels like nothing, is there any reason to want bb? Is it more about getting your way and nothing to do with how it feels?
Heck, I could just tell him I'm not using one and as long as he doesn't look he might think he's getting what he wants...
The thing looks like a damn flower shaped garbage bag, and it hangs out. I have heard it is the CLOSEST thing to going bareback, but of course...not exactly. I refuse to use them, just because they look retarded lol, but many providers and clients swear by them.
...I was giving the man a bbbj and I reached down between my legs and put in the FC. Then I climbed up his body and started to dfk him. I reached down and grabbed his cock and slipped it in. He stopped kissing me, his eyes got wide, and he said, "aren't you going to use something?" But, I think he would have figured it out a few seconds later.
But, I do agree with you, they are not that attractive. That is why I wait till after DATY and basically the last minute before I put one in.
London I am appalled. After all I thought you were on the coochie consultation committee for female prophylactic development.Lol
My dates are not "put condom on and have sex" so there is a lot of switch up from a guy going down on me, bbbj, sex, daty, bbbj again. With a FC, once you put the thing in, you're stuck having only sex with no more oral. Most guys, insist going down on me many times throughout a date, so would never work for me. I don't want to have to program my dates to bbbj, daty, and then sex til the time is up, and I am sure as hell not going to mess around with that thing in front of another person. Rather awkward and embarrassing to me. The one time I even attempted to insert a FC, was horrible. I am not sticking more than one finger in there, and I also hate lube, so no go.
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I would tell him to go then. Away. Sounds like a self entitled prick.
And there's no test for men for HPV, many strains of which can lead to cancer.
to go. It covers more area of the male genitalia preventing diseases male condoms can't. Some of them are herpes and venereal warts. They are less likely to break, less likely for somebody to mistakenly think that skin condoms are just as safe as synthetic. The fact they feel better is an added plus.
.... if he's so insistent on BBFS (come on now) I wouldn't trust him while using an FC2 either. Appt denied.
Have him put plastic wrap on from head to toes, but make sure to cut out the mouth hole bwahahaha. Reminds me of Booty Call..."was you gonna wait for me to turn into a Butterfly?"
hey you two your intelligence is showing or lack of it.
Ding Ding Ding!!!! We have a winner! Why is a client asking for bareback even being responded to?!!!!! If he insists bareback is the only way to go, hang up on him and delete his emails, etc. Whatever. I am stunned that his appointment is being accepted! WTF!!!
FCs are great. It's the closest thing to bareback, with protection. Who could ask for more!!!
I wouldn't even have replied to that email.
It was during a phone call AFTER I had booked the appointment and booked my airfare.
Not that I believe you are considering going bb with a first time client. Getting tested is a great idea, and he (of course) will remain monogamous with you... and pay you enough to remain monogamous for him.
He's right, though, nothing feels as good as bareback sex. And nothing itches like herpes...
I hope you aren't actually considering this.
A client asking for and insisting bbfs should be a huge red flag.
I wouldn't see him if I were you.
He might take the condom off while you're doing it and slip it in bb..
Some providers even blacklist bbseekers.
I'm a firm believer in it never hurts to ask. That said, once I answered the question, "I don't do that" it should be enough. If he keeps trying to 'change my mind' then you are right, I have to turn it down. My health and my life are too important to risk on a $2000./overnight date. Plus, I need to stay safe to protect all my future clients and their families.
I was never considering agreeing to bbfs! i get tested all the time and if he wants to get tested too, that's great; but I'm still using a CONDOM (female or male)!
necessarily mean something is not brewing in either of your bodies then would appear in a test next week.
If you get the rep as a BB provider, then lots of guys will cross you off their list, period. And, yes I know it exists, but I for one am not willing to roll those dice.
I know of at least one TER provider here that has excellent and who offers BB after the first date. She seems to be fairly popular and doesn't seem to have suffered in business. In her reviews, one may note that the reviewers forget to mention donning the raincoat/party hat/cover. Could this be an oversight? I doubt it.... And only her other clients knew just how high volume she is, doing anyone and everyone with a dick and dollars in hand!...
If BB is the "only way to go" for this dude, my guess is that he's got more funk in his junk than anyone would want to touch with a 10 foot pole let alone a female condom.
Do us all a favor and post his handle so the ladies can avoid him and the dudes can see who's he's seen and avoid them.
that they felt kind of cool when I entered her.
Maybe there I should have waited a minute or two to let her body warm it up, or perhaps the FC could be placed in a glass of warm water before use to let it warm up.
Otherwise, it felt very nice, but like LR says, the looks aren't all that hot, but who looks there during the act anyways?
One question I have for the gals: Does the FC reduce the sensation for you to the point where intercourse is less enjoyable?
I use them all the time. Always offer them and pretty much all of my partners welcome to try them. Their feed back on them has been highly positive. For me, It really feels as it nothing is there..... I even do a "double check" to be sure it is!!!
You just have to use additional lube prior to insertion in the vj and then additional lube prior to intercourse. As far as the coolness goes: I don't think that putting the FC in a glass of luke warm water would be recommended. HOWEVER, I imagine if one had the lubed warmed up..... wow, what GREAT idea....!!!
I"M GOING TO DO THAT. Pre-warm the LUBE. Brilliant! Absolutely Brilliant.
I'm so glad I looked at this thread! :p
I ALWAYS look there during the act. Nothing hotter than watching you slide in and out IMO. Doesn't mean you don't pay attention to many other things, but a glance now and again? Yum.
They're clumsy to insert and in appearance- it does break up the session a bit to put them in sometimes...but sometimes not if I'm otherwise "distracting" him.
With clients I've known for a while I'll often walk in with them on under my skirt; bending over and "pulling him in" is as close a sensation of "natural" sex as you'll get.
Personally my pleasure doesn't generally come from texture sensation which is the only difference to me when using condoms. The best way to explain it is pleasure comes from the sensation of being opened up and penetrated. So more the shape, size and hardness of a cock than the heat and slickness that comes from unprotected sex.
Pulling someone in "bare" with an FC that is lubed up feels better to me professionally and its less likely to shift making it feel safer to me. I don't worry about an FC breaking or moving like I do with male condoms leaving me freer in the moment.
So downsides - unattractive, takes a second to get in and adjusted....but absolute feels better to me and is more natural to me.
I prefer them and use them in most sessions in alternation with male condoms to see which sensation the client likes better.
Ally, great idea. One thing I have enjoyed in real life that you can't do with a condom is for the lady to climb aboard clothed (skirt) and slide me in without foreplay or even my plan. This would be a great first pop start to a date.
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With clients I've known for a while I'll often walk in with them on under my skirt; bending over and "pulling him in" is as close a sensation of "natural" sex as you'll get.
Personally my pleasure doesn't generally come from texture sensation which is the only difference to me when using condoms. The best way to explain it is pleasure comes from the sensation of being opened up and penetrated. So more the shape, size and hardness of a cock than the heat and slickness that comes from unprotected sex.
Pulling someone in "bare" with an FC that is lubed up feels better to me professionally and its less likely to shift making it feel safer to me. I don't worry about an FC breaking or moving like I do with male condoms leaving me freer in the moment.
So downsides - unattractive, takes a second to get in and adjusted....but absolute feels better to me and is more natural to me.
I prefer them and use them in most sessions in alternation with male condoms to see which sensation the client likes better.
I will admit I have not used one. I would be open to seeing how it feels but I like to switch positions and I'm just a little concerned about the time and awkward feelings she might have putting a new one in.
I have only used the FC on a few occasions, and only with a couple of ladies that particularly likes them. They are great. If inserted properly, and you can get it pushed in deep, it is not all that unattractive. You can just see the rolled edge outside of her. The key is to stay well lubed. They are especially fun when you are with a lady that really loves oral. When you pull out for her to suck there is no Crown for you to discard and have to reapply another when going back in. I now bring them with me, just in case.
I don't have personal experience, but several websites say the fc can be used for vaginal as well as anal sex.
Here is just one of many:
http://www.acponline.org/acp_press/fenway/how-to-put-on-a-female-condom-for-anal-sex.pdf
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My post was intended to be a little funny and to add my 2 cents about new clients begging for bb -
People will always jump up and down on any thread talking about BB, often without really stopping to try to understand your OP. I wish you luck with this guy, maybe you could start the date by showing him some of those old high school STD sex ed films 
That's understood but why even continue contact with this guy? If he is gung ho about bb then how do you know how he will respond when you two are alone? If you go and get tested, you are leading him on so that he thinks he will do you raw. So you two are alone, he is excited and naked thinking he is going to hit it bare. You are naked too and whip out a condom. What do you think he will do then? It might not end well. He could walk out taking his $2000 and you are out money. That could be the least of your worries. I just do not understand why you are carrying on with this?!! $2000 is a lot of money but what would it really cost you if you see this guy?
Omg how many other girls in this industry is he doing this with? We all get asked for bb. NO WAY! Adults who are meeting on occassion should know better.
The advantage of a female condom is that the guy doesn't have to stop and put a condom on (or have one put on him), and then deal with "ring around the cock". He can mentally pretend it's BBFS. But if we are talking actual physical sensations, it's nothing like condomless sex.
While a traditional condom desensitizes everything, it feels much better, TO ME, than using a female condom which really feels like I am fucking a piece of latex.
My experience with them has been very positive..... but then that might have something to do with who is using them with me.
I've Used them a number of times. A beautiful lady introduced them to me. The feeling is more natural, I guess it's because of the material they are made of. Of course the lady matters too ! Lol
I have a few medical doctor friends in the hobby that go to Mexico, Central America and Asia for the hobby since the sex is less vanilla. If a health hobbyist has bbfs vaginal intercourse with an HIV + women, the risk of transmission to him is only about 1/400 - 1/500. I can comfortably live with these odds.
The risk is mch higher for the provider who is the receptive partner of the sexual fluids namely semen. I do understand whay they are afraid of raw dogging any monger.
Maybe the providers can use the instant "Mouth Swab Test" to immdeiately determine a hobbyists HIV status. It's not perfect but its safer for her than raw dogging every man. Remember, many providers will offer bbfs for a bigger tip.
There is no reason to deny a healthy hobbyist bbfs if that is what he wants.
I am not a fan of vanilla sex if I can prove that I am healthy!
that is the dumbest fucking thing i have ever heard. they teach you in 5th fucking grade that shit doesnt show up in tests the minute you get it. so you may have contracted something a week before, do this test that says you are clean, and give this girl AIDS for $400. but hey, when she dies from your diseased ass busting a nut in her, at least you got your way. all that matters, right?
I am not a fan of vanilla sex if I can prove that I am healthy! -- REALLY?? thats a clown comment, bro
And they feel even better! You can make sure it goes in as far as it's supposed to, and the gentleman has the added enjoyment of watching me play with a toy for a little while. Win Win!!!