I'm past the newbie stage, I guess, being into the hobby now for four months and having seen seven providers so far, some of them multiple times.  I had great times with all, and there's only one I won't see again, for reasons I put in my review of her.

But, I'm having a hard time getting whitelisted.  I travel a lot, and would like to have several whitelists, to make it easier to be verified, but I only have two whitelistings out of the six I've asked.  One said she's not a member of TER, one said yes but never followed through, and two have simply ignored my request.

So, I'm wondering what's up with that?  Did I just manage to "luck into" four ladies who don't do that at all?  Do some have a philosophical problem with whitelisting?  I just don't get it, especially since I've taken the time to write good reviews of these ladies.  It seems like it's the least they could do is honor a request for whitelisting, especially if they've said yes, they'd do it.

Am I missing something here?  (BTW, I'm using an alias b/c I don't want these ladies to feel like I'm maligning them; I just want to know what might be the reason(s) for this.)

og

Ladies are gonna see you anyway. White or Black lists. I can attest to that.

Some of you fuckers worry too goddam much. Your money's green, you're not an axe-murderer, you're gonna find a date. Simple.

I don't even ask anymore. Got into an arguement with a few that did, made up, and when they said they'd put it back on told them don't bother. It didn't mean anything for them to remove it, so what's the point of putting it back up?

As a matter of fact, I can give a shit about writing reviews. I'll do it if they ask. And I'm drunk and bored. I don't need reassurance who I seen, or give a fuck about the free 15 days VIP. Getting my dick wet is all I need to know.

Maybe she forgot or doesnt care are just plain doesn't want to because she isn't feeling you. Or maybe you anoyed her by asking too damn much. Just have to let it go and move on to the next one.

A bunch of the ladies may not be able to. one of my faves knows about ter but does not have a login id and does not have it linked to her reviews so even if she was to say yes she would not be able to.

I am not accepting any new board members that do not have at least 3 whitelist.  

Join me in my crusades.

AkA GaGa

So an escort said she would white list you and didin't, I guess turn around is fair play. I've heard it over and over from the ladies that clients promised to write a review and didn't. BTW, many ladies will want more than a white listing for screening purposes. Many will still want to contact a lady you've been with.

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I have yet to book a girl who cared about my whitelists.  I've only got a modest 2 of them, but both from top providers.  I didn't ask for either one of them.  What counts with girls is things like references and provider OK on P411 and Date-Check.

Put your handwringing energy into asking them to be references for you. Most providers who screen you will want to speak directly to another girl who has seen you before, not just see her name on a list and note that you gave her a good review.

and do use whitelists as a beginning of my screening. It tells me a lot about a man if a number of experienced ladies do put their stamp of approval for a gentleman. When a gentlemen has 10 or 20 reviews and not one whitelist it makes me wonder....

Since this is not an obligational thing some ladies don't use or bother dealing with this system. Also if a lady has whitelisted you she is the one who will get called  first for a reference no matter what. I have had ladies do this without telling me who they are and the gentleman not contacting me. Real pain in the ass for me and have taken one whitelist down after it happened a few times.

Kisses Haley

Guys can turn off the display of their white list.  For example, if you looked at mine it would appear that nobody likes me.  That may be true but several have white listed me anyway.  Only once has it come up and I flipped it on for a brief time to make her comfy.  I honestly don't even remember how many I had but it was a handful.

Sorry but if you're gonna throw up softballs I've gotta swing at 'em.

and it has never been mentioned before. I wonder how many men use this feature and how many ladies don't know it even exists.

Thinking about this feature could bring some good reasons for having it available.

Kisses Haley

Mods can't write reviews but a lady could imply something by adding me.  I'm not aware of it happening but it seemed like the prudent thing to do.