I am friends with a lady who works in this business that I know has HPV, and herpes type I on her female parts. I also know that she goes bare back anything for $300 extra. I also know her boy friend has some kind on bacterial STD she keeps on getting that he will not get treated for and that she bare backs him almost daily. I know this as she told me when she asked about getting needing to go to Planned Parenthood to get some antibiotics for her latest STD.
What should I do? I know she is very popular and sees multiple guys a day. If left unchecked she will spread these STD to many of her clients. I am not afraid to lose her as a friend. How should I warn people?
I would be afraid of losing her as a friend too. You hang in there, OK?
How to warn people...hmmm...maybe the best course of action is to tell everyone she is selling bareback sex. I'm sure that would scare them all away.
Thanks for warning us. Lets all keep a lookout for a girl at Planned Parenthood.
he said he would NOT care if he loses her as a friend. why would YOU care, she's flat-out a dangerous flake, willing to inflict disease on people for shit money.
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He should care. Real life scenarios like this require an understanding of your fellow man or woman. He should reconsider his friendship and then go forth and rat her out. That's really the decent thing to do.
or stop her immediately and choose your friends more wisely in the future. he should help all of us and anyone else in her crazy path. you're close to saying "my friend is blasting away on a rooftop with a .38, let's all be sensitive to her needs."
A .38 would be a really poor choice of gun caliber for shooting from a rooftop. If that were to happen, then she probably is crazy. I would definitely not choose her to be my friend, even if she requests friending on Facebook. Thanks, I understand this real situation a lot better now. If I see this chick firing a .38 from the rooftop of Planned Parenthood, I'm going to say something. You can bet on that!
How much sensitive you would be, if you caught STD from her? or Would you bareback a provider? with Known STD?
If the answer is yes to the last two questions, then you are a dumb fuck. Not being insensitive here but no other way properly stating your sensitive dumbness.
I'm sure this type of scenario could, and probably does happen every where, so as always we all should be careful.
speaking on the behalf of all the Mr. Trick's
Sorry. First thought.
BBing someone with a bacterial infection you keep reinfecting yourself with?
Your friend sounds like the scum of the earth.
Condoms don't work that well with herpes.
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Give her a gun and ammo and shoot all the poor sunovabitches she fucks for money after the fact.
Fuck. Really? Her AND her ol man have communical deseases? And she insists on working in the sex trade? Goddam.
You know, I wouldn't worry about what kind of fucking friend you are to her as much as what kind of member you are to the fucking hobby community.
I had a similar situation as far as 'outing' someone. Different circumstances, and it sure as fuck wasn't pleasant. I still beat myself up about it because the lady was cool to me and I had no problem with her what-so-ever. But she posed a serious risk to the community at large and at the time I felt I had to do it for the greater good. I talked with some friends, providers, hobbyists, and mods, and they helped to make up my mind what I should do about what I knew.
Actually, I knew what I had to do. I just hate rats, and I didn't want to be one. BUT, like I said, I did what I knew was right.
I just hope one day the lady will forgive me if she ever finds out.
She's your friend, but she's a scumbag of the highest order. Report her to the Health Dept. and to the Planned Parenthood agency she uses for treatment. Those are your tax dollars and they are not working but one way: Giving her enough time to infect people and still take money to the bank. She is a menace to the community. In fact, anyone knowing someone capable to doing this should first ask her to quit and second report her if she does not do number one. Think of it like this: She'll infect someone that will ultimately infect someone you want to see and so on. STDs are insidious and opportunistic. They don't care who's in the path.
And word will be out almost as fast as the speed of light.
You had better know what you are talking about if you are going to say something to anyone. If you are not 100% sure, then keep your trap shut.
It was from her mouth I learned this. Not some rummer I heard.
Since it is not possible to take this post any further than you already have you do still have one option available which would clearly help the rest of us.
By using an alias we are unable to contact you but if you would P.M. anyone interested in her details so that we may stay clear of her would be a great service.
I would be very interested in a P.M.
then it is one F-up situation.
It won't matter unless she is stopped and those hobbyists informed of her activities so they can quarantine themselves for a time. They are screwing other women and are risking their health and ours. STDs left unchecked are an out of control freight train. If she goes under the radar, say to another state, she continues to make money at the community's health and expense. The only way to stop her unfortunately is a lawsuit that marks her if she is not willing to stop. Herpes and HPV are serious enough, but to have a BF who is probably infecting his share of others, well you get the picture. The is plenty of legal precedent for people who knowingly use their bodies to infect others.
Sort of like an alcoholic...
Especially when Herpes can transmit skin to skin, so even if you have a condom, incidental skin contact is enough.
Assuming this is serious, either post using your real handle in the RO board for folks to contact you, or PM someone like RomeoGolf or myself to get the word out.
The problem is there is always the possibility of "he said / she said" here. For all I know you're really a provider in competition. I don't doubt this kind of thing is happening out there, but I do not blindly accept all things as fact from unknown sources - without some reasonable proof. That said, the first warning needs to go out to start looking for verification. You can't put two and two together without getting the first one.
I would also report her to the health dept. as suggested.
This scares me, and I'm not easily frightened. You know this.
I'm not ignorant enough to know that there are infact people running around with diseases. They know this and do it anyway. In their warped mind, they figure they're fucked, so fuck everyone else.
It's a goddam shame, but that's the life we chose. The risk comes with the rewards.
I'd like to know who this person is so I could see who she saw, who they saw, and who they saw, and so on so I could get an idea if my dick is gonna fall off anytime soon. Know what I mean?
that's why my dick fell of this morning! ahah!
Actually, there won't be anymore sucking now, will there?..... 
Yeah, please PM me too.
You can use an alias, but warn your bros here.
Bro's before Ho's! We are here to give good reviews to good providers and to warn one another of things like this.
What makes some people think that just because they gain personal knowledge of someone else's problem, they now must deal with it? Talk about enmeshment, for chrissakes!
"I am friends with a lady"
... REALLY? She'e your FRIEND? You mean actually your friend? Not just acquaintance? Then BE HER FRIEND Tell her you are worried about her. Show concern, take her to a clinic, support her in getting proper medical care AND GUIDANCE in eliminating self destructive behavior.
Be ready to stick it out until she has her act together. that is... IF YOU ARE ACTUALLY FRIENDS.
"How should I warn people?"
.... Take her picture and create some flyers with an appropriate warning like "DANGER! Diseased Skank Whore. Lose your dick for $300"
I mean what the fuck??
"If left unchecked she will spread these STD to many of her clients"
...What are you now, the local CDC?
Did you actually ask that question
'How should "I" warn people?'
You don't, Mother Teresa. What she does, good, bad, right or wrong... It's none of your fucking business.
Unless you think you should report a crime to the police.
How did I do on my answer Hirogen???
HH
Well HH. I have to admit that your answer came off as condescending, demeaning, sarcastic, and mean.
GOOD JOB!
It is everyone's business if she is diseased and possibly spreading her diseases to other people in the community. If she is not going to take care of herself, then it's a problem. Ultimately the responsibility is hers, not his.
Well, it appears she is not willing to take that responsibility.
Bro's before Ho's. That's why we are reviewers at this board.
The hunt is on.
It would be good to have proof of this allegation by more then one source. Bros before ho's is a good motto as long as the bro has credibility.
"Bros before ho's is a good motto as long as the bro has credibility."
Good point.
When it comes to STD's, I tend to err on the side of caution.....
I am prepared to out her here. I have spent the last little bit calling ladies she has worked with, emailing clients I know who have seen her, and putting what I know on a regional review site with fewer rules than TER. I have received a threating email already from some unknown white knight.
I already told my friend what I feel I must do if she did not quit providing and she told me to "F*** off and mind your own damn business" and that she "could not quit providing". I think her boy friend may be pimping her as she has had a lot of bruises since they got together. I feel I have lost my friend a while back. She hasn't been the same
What I want to know what is the best way to out her here without breaking TER rules. I have sounded out a warning before and got moderated for it. I have heard a moderator say that outing a provider that provides BBFS will get the poster moderated and any such a post will get pulled. As I am moderated already, and as I trying to behave as I do not want to be moderated for life, I need to know how to warn people without even coming close to breaking a rule and without damaging the reputations of the ladies I have seen.
The regional board the would apply is the other cities board. If I give the exact city many would know who this is and I don't want that until I figure the best way to out her within the rules if it is even possible.
I am using an alias to protect the reputation of the ladies I have seen and I can't post on the RO board as I have to few reviews. I want to out her. I think it is for her own good and defiantly the right thing to do for everyone else.
I want to do the right thing he right way.
it also looks like what you are doing right here is not looking for input.
You made up your mind and in the process of implementing whatever plan you have.
What you seek here is approval of your actions.
As I said, I agree that (1) she should stop immediately and get treatment (2) we have a right to know
At same time, this entire thread is completely pointless since you already outing her. So why ask us what to do? So you dont feel so crappy about it afterwards?
F**k it!
Just DO IT!
We deserve to be warned and maybe it will turn things around for her. If it doesn't turn her life around, that's her choice, but for those people who may want to book her, it's a disease trap.
Please be responsible.
I agree you deserve to be warned. I have PMed you the information and and others who requested it. If I can't post this information without breaking a rule, I can not post it as I am moderated. The post would not go up if it in any way violated a rule.
If you're just worried about getting moderated or having your post pulled when you out her, why not just check with one of the mods?
Why post here and continue a never ending discussion if you are not going to out her.
You post under an alias and you already have white knights and providers emailing or private messaging you threats?
Something doesn't add up.
How about post under your real handle and let anyone who desires send you a pm for the provider in question.
It is not rocket science.
I was willing to give the OP the benefit of doubt, but the "Rick rolling" about doing this and that and if I told you what area.... yadda yadda...
There have been some alternatives suggested, so this is either serious or the OP is just seeking attention.
Outing the ladies name is not possible on the boards. In spite of the OP claiming knowledge, I don't have knowledge. Without that, it's a he said/she said. How would you feel if someone picked your name out at random and accused you of being diseased? I realize that this is a hot button item, and we all feel entitled to knowing, but this isn't a kangaroo court. For those that haven't seen the foolishness, I'd point you to a thread on the Atlanta board about a bust. All the allegations were true. Oh wait, nope they weren't. In the process, all was in turmoil and agencies lost a ton of business over nothing.
We all know that people play with fire. Sometimes you get burned. If the OP wants to out himself, that's fine and this can be handled back channel. I'm willing to listen to his suggestions on how he'd like to proceed.
I know what I know to be true at least according to what the lady said herself. I wish there was a way do so but as I can't and the same time I get why it is so. Petty lies would spread like wildfire as it has with a local site that allows such posts. Also for posting on that other site I have received a threating email. Thanks for the replies from everyone. I have PMed those who asked to know. It is likely the best I can do in the TER rules. I have done what I can to keep everyone safe. I am bowing out. I will PM any that ask on this thread.
OK, I'll bite. Please PM me.
I would like to know who the lady in question is.
Thanks
I would rather not take the chance.
I would like to know if this provider is in my city, and who she is. drugs are bad enough for this industry and for the Hobbyist, who books an appt with a provider with a good rep. only to get ripped off unexpectedly. That is bad enough, but for a shady provider to be taking money AND knowingly putting hobbyist at risk! WITHOUT EVEN USING CONDOMS! Thats just FOUL!
I think this is a win-win solution for all. It protects your handle on the board but gets the provider's name out as well.
I wish it had come about sooner before the thread deteriorated.
Thanks for any info you can share.
this info would be greatly appreciated. this is what this site is for in my opinion.
thanks in advance.
It seems a primary goal of this website is to alert the hobby community to the good and the bad. If we're not willing to "out" someone who is knowing spreading disease, then safety is gone and websites like this one may as well shut down. Spread the word. Yeah, I know, she'll operate under a new name in a new region with different photos. So what! Someone else can "out her" there if and when that happens.
Or am I too late to the party on this one?
I completely appreciate your tough position on this one, though.
WG