I initially took him to the massage parlors for full service when he was 22. He enjoyed it. Since then, he has graduated and has an affluent career. He now pays his own mortgage for a very nice house and owns several nice cars. He has been asking me for advice about hobbying cause he wants to step up his game.

He gets deter when he sees providers post "over 30, or over 35" only. He specifically wants to c those providers but knowing he can't because of their restrictions. Physically, he looks like a man, but because of his age, he is somewhat concerned. I guess u can say, that his body looks mature, but facially, u can tell he is in his early 20's.

He is very successful and affluent for his age, and his maturation is sufficient IMO. Should I just tell him to book providers that he can only book, and forget about the one's that has age restrictions? He has been bugging me about how to proceed.

For providers. If some1 is very affluent, but is in his early 20's, why would that make a difference? I really don't understand myself. When I was that age, I was already a man. He's an attractive guy that wants to spoil himself, but, he has specific types of providers he wants to c. I don't know. What u guys think?

sea?  He's probably too young to take a provider out to sea.

Dude, if you don't stop writing like a moron, can we at least stop veiling our insults?

I was 25 when I started hobbying, and I did get turned down, a few times, and still do for that matter. The best approach your fam can take is he needs come off as very mature when first having contact with the provider over the phone he wants to see.

If he sounds mature enough, some may not even ask him his age.  

But to sum this all up, because I'm begining to raddle. If the provider does not ask over the phone, don't tell. When she firsts meets him, during the ice breaker conversation she may ask how old he is. But if she sees he mature, legit, and has the full donation 9 times out 10, she'll still do him.


Good Luck
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It's Magic

He's a young guy and is doing very well for himself, hobbywise.

Little fucker has more reviews than I do...

Just fucking withya, for now... lol

He should do fine. Afterall, as long as there's enough benjis in the kitty and he doesn't act like a total douche I'm sure any lady would be happy to see him, inspite of his uncle...

Toldya it was just for then....

is he bi? 35 yo couple looking to play in MIA..

I don't specifically have an age requirement on my website, and I don't usually specifically ask how old someone is.  However, the vast majority of men do volunteer their age without me asking.  And though I will not rule out someone based solely on age, I will admit that I cringe a little sometimes when someone in their 20s writes me - I have a 21 year old daughter (I'm 41), and it just kind of fucks with my head a little.  

Having said that, I do have a regular who is 25 and he is awesome.  An attorney, good looking, very nice, love him.  Why did I initially see him?  Because he didn't volunteer his age when he first contacted me.  He told me he is a lawyer, and he gave me two legit references.  The girls didn't tell me either - my guess is that it just didn't occur to them.  But he was successfully screened, and therefore 'eligible' as a client.  

You can usually tell the maturity level of a man based on his initial contact.  If your nephew is everything you say he is (and there is no way you're biased, right?   ), if his initial contact gives enough HONEST information to convey that his is emotionally mature and successful, he'll probably be okay.  He should NOT lie about his age, but instead let his actions demonstrate his eligibility.

...as long as he doesn't type like a 12 year old, we're good, lol!

IMO, anyone who is honestly successful and/or affluent, doesn't use the 'words' c, u, and ur. I'm sorry, I just can't get past that.

xoxo
Caylee

He must be honest and upfront about his age. Since he is affluent at a young age, my guess is that he writes and speaks well and is organized. His maturity will show through during communications. When he meets the providers that take a chance on him, he must be respectful and gentle. If he handles his end right, he will gain a list of providers that welcome his business.

I started hobbying when I was 26 years old. My start was before wide-spread email use and ultra modern communications such as IM. Having an intelligent provider be able to see that one writes well during an email exchange or IM is a definite benefit. I only had the phone when I started. But when I talked to providers that were a bit hesitant due to my age, I got dates with the great majority of them.

Tell your nephew to get on it.  Most providers are cool with young guys but not all.  Just have to be honest and upfront.

I've had providers with "age limits" on their websites and I've still contacted them and they see me.

Thats a great age to start.

I had quite a few clients in my 20s and it didnt bother me when I worked as a provider myself. I also have younger clients that see my providers and they dont have an issue with it. He will get turned down by some but there are plenty of ladies out there that will see him. Too bad that some younger bad apples have to ruin it for everyone else. So I think if he emailed a provider he wanted to see and explained his situation and was respectful and courteous it could possibly work wonders or him. Hope this helps

I got what he ment by his short hand based on the way the question was formed. To answer your question McDonald no that is not too young to see a provider. I got my brother laid on his 18 birthday.

So, even when the provider post her age restriction, he should not care. Again, he is mature for his age, I mean, he is 24, a full adult. So, he should ignore her restrictions and go for it I would assume. I think ur suggestions makes common sense, and that sounds like something I would probably do myself.

But, what about the providers that ask for ur age in their website as it pertains to their references. For example, u may have to fill out the age section and then submitted. What should he do about that part? Or, just forget her and find some1 else? Thanks.

Even though he has the resources it is too young IMHO. He needs to learn how to interact with the ladies to get a girlfriend/wife and get a normal relationship. At the same time keep up his health and fitness habits. I think in the mid 30's or 40s is a good time to start to hobby if he has a desire too. I am concerned that at such a young age that it will become an excessive addiction resulting in him having finical ruin.

If he's an adult, why hasn't he joined TER?

Can't he ask these questions himself?

I mean, FREE MEMBERSHIP.

He is a TER member, and views ads from TER. He doesn't participate on the discussion boards for regional, general, or any kind. I told him about the necessity and benefit of discussion boards, but he tells me he doesn't have time or find it not useful.

Anyways, he is new and young, so I respect him for that. Only thing I can do is advise him.

Totally agree.  A guy who is 24 should be mixing it up in the bar scene/dating/figuring out women/having some legit relationships.  Simply put a guy at 25 does not have enough life experience.  If he has trouble getting women,  help him improve his game (getting in shape/increased self confidence/ease talking to women, etc)  Alot of these women are fucking great at what they do.  A guy has to have the ability to check himself.  Some of you may not agree with this but thats fine.  I'd tell your nephew to come and hobby 10 years from now if he still has the desire,  it will still be around than with just as many hotties.

He is of legal are, if he has the cash he should not have a problem finding a provider to play with.
I've been enjoying providers since I was 18.

I disagree.  I propositioned my first lady when I was 13 years old back in 1954. I was 6' tall and weighed -200 pounds.  After the "experience" and the lady discovered how young I was, she referred me to a bordello where there were "girls more your age".  I made several visits to it; the first was with an eighteen year old and the second was with a mature lady.  That was the start of a long hobby.  The things that I learned from older women made me a better lover when I got married at the age of 21.  I was able to pleasure my bride much more than if I had just dated inexperienced civies.  Those were the days when the cops were worried about somebody selling me a six pack; nobody worried about a minor boy paying for sex.

Today's internet based hobby is so much more efficient than the industry was in previous days.  Without the internet, it was very difficult to locate quality providers at reasonable prices.  I will agree with Owl that I spent far too much time, on the hobby,trolling for providers that appealed to me; and then I had no idea what the quality of their services would be.  With the internet, I can identify a number of appealing ladies and check their reviews in a short time.  The time saved by the internet in locating attractive quality providers at reasonable prices is in-measurable.  

My cuz introduced me to sex by booking me an hr with a Provider.  She seemed pretty old as I recall...probably way up there in years..25...maybe 26...LOL.  

So my response to your question, is of course he is not too young.  Geesh, most guys on this board occasionally hook up with hot babes about his age...why would it not be OK for him to experience t
the game?

I know some ladies avoid younger dudes. And for good reason. But with your guidance I'm sure he can learn to communicate and conduct himeself in such a way a few ladies might be willing to make an exception.

If he is 24 and sucessful, why can't he find women willing to fuck him?  Its really sad if he can't.

That said if he wants to pay for play refer him to here.  There are plenty of women here who will take a 24 year old customer