I was looking at reviews the other day and I was looking at people's White List Referrals and I had a question.

Who has the most White List Referrals?

I have 11, but I know that is not the best, because I found Smarty1101 has 16!  

Do you or anybody you know have more than 16?  Does anybody know of a way to search to see who the most White Listed Guys are?

I would like to hear from anybody with 10 or more White List Referrals.  I am curious how many people use this service and who the most referred guys are.

Thanks for your time.  Hope to see lots of responses!

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of giving your TER handle to providers. I never do that. I don't even mention about my TER membership to providers unless they bring it up.

Being a member of TER can have its ups and downs.  Too many reviews and some ladies will not see you.  Not enough reviews some ladies will not see you.

Good reviews and some will try and see you to get a good review, any bad reviews and some may not want to see you for fear of a bad review.

For the most part I have had many good experiences with ladies who knew of my TER profile and personality.  Of course having the 11 White List Referrals doesn't hurt.  It shows that I am nice to the ladies and they are nice back...a good sign for sure.

This is just my experience, so do as you like, but My TER White List has been a net positive for me.

you get to find out if a provider really likes you or not. if she white-lists others but not you, you then know who to avoid in the future. the sword cuts both ways.

I agree with others about how a tip will get you a white list referral - consider who we are talking about here.  Also, I rarely ever expose my TER alias - the anonymous nature is a big part of being on this website.  I have another idea I will post later - see above.

A tip has never influenced whether or not I will White List someone.  Of course, I've just been able to White List, but a great personality, a willingness to provide screening info, and a feeling of being safe with the person goes a long way with me!

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those I choose to see, have corresponded with me, get to know me  through what I write.  And I hope that they are not disappointed.  'cause of late, I know that I've been truly happy with the ladies that have agreed to see me... they are smart, interesting, beautiful and very very skilled!  But the foreplay of corresponding up to the meeting? well, that has just made it an incredible experience.

Not necessarily so. If a lady does not add her name to your White List, it doesn't necessarily mean that she didn't enjoy her time with you. Out of 20 reviews, I have only added my name to about half of the men who have reviewed me. That is because these are men who I am certain I know who is behind the TER handle.

Of the other half, these are gentlemen who never revealed to me what their TER handle was, nor did they ever contact me directly telling me they had written a review for me. So I haven't the slightest idea who the person behind the review is. No matter how positive the review is, if I am not absolutely certain of who the person is, I am not going to add my name to their White List and say "yes, I've met him and he's a great guy". I may have met him, but I don't know if he was a great guy or not.

So if you want a lady to add her name to your WhiteList, my two questions for you are: Did you ask her to do so? And did you make certain that she knows who you are?