Yeah, you know, male-oriented porn sends out such mixed messages.

To men, we're dying of envy because most of us aren't hung like Ron Jeremy or Mr Marcus. And those of us comparing our pigsticker dimensions to those of the male performers raises some other questions as well.  Many of them probably unhealthy.

But yet you often see such plain-looking and rundown, seedy-looking guys [more often on the compilation porn than the feature-lenght porn] pounding away at so many examples of  pulcritudinous perfection, you temporarily have a frisson of hope that maybe, just maybe, someday, somehow, some way you're gonna...

Then again you realize, it's all just fantasy.  And you curse your career choices.  And consider purchasing a penis pump.

Most porn is written for men, not for women.  Women want more of a story line, not just fuck scene after fuck scene...and he really should be good-looking.  We have fantasies, too.  Would guys watch it if she was ugly just 'cuz she has big tits?  I think not.  Why think we'll watch (and get turned on) an ugly guy just 'cuz he has a big dick?