I'd prefer Not to get Caught by either my SO or LE Thank you.
It will be a total clusterfuck either way for me. I have a good lawyer but am from a small town and everybody knows me.
My SO it would break his Heart and I would hate to hurt him like that.  Theres no, which is better for me here. I prefer to not get caught at all.

Busted by SO would not eventually involve LE, but it's hard to imagine a LE bust that would escape the SO. If it did then they weren't all that significant after all.

We hear often of how client's fear having their SO's find out about their hobbying and ending up in divorce court (Been there, done that, btw.)

How common is it for providers to have SO's who are clueless about their activites, and how often do they get found out, and how often does that lead to divorce court?

I have two favorites with SO's, neither of whom have gotten wise to her work, and this has been for quite a while.  I would think that a provider who sees many men would have a much more difficult time hiding their activities than the client who sees a gal only once in a while.

Providers, please feel free to use aliases in commenting.

SO.

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