I`m a newbie with a dilemma. I`m seeing this lovely highly rated young woman today for the 2nd time. First time was terrific and I was "lead off" batter at 10 am, just what I like and had requested but said that it was not mandatory (but it is and that`s my fault) Today`s tryst is for late afternoon and I`m fearful that I will be 2nd/3rd in today`s line-up and oh do I hate that. I don`t care how many guys she saw yesterday. Each new day starts a brand new game and I`m fine with that as long I`m 1st up. My gut feeling tells me I`m not but not 100% sure.
No matter what I`m going to honor my commitment, show up on time, well groomed, V-pill, full donation with tip etc. If it turns out that I`m #2 or 3 I will be miserable and won`t want or be able to play. All I will think about is while I`m kissing her mouth that 2hrs ago some guy cim`d her.  If that`s the case I guess I`ll tell her I don`t feel well and we will sit and chat for an hour. Should I ask her if I`m not her 1st today? I could check the bath and see how many clean towels are left.
This not her fault as I never made it mandatory and I do not want to F this up as she is fabulous and I`ll want to book again under the right circumstances for us both. Has anybody been in this scenario?
Does anybody have a spin on this, guys, ladies? Not happy about this.
Thanks and Happy Holidays to all, Ugh

If she's highly rated, I'd like to think she's kind enough to use mouth wash and brush her teeth before/after EVERY session, regardless of what she did with the previous client. I personally dont care if she took 3 shots in the mouth in the 3 hours before me, as long as she cleaned herself up. The only advice I can give is if you're really that concerned about going first, never book an appointment that starts after noon.

If someone CIM'd her 2 hours ago or 12-24 hours ago?  If she is any good she would have brushed her teeth and listerined before your appointment.  No you can't count how many towels she has to determine if she's had someone already that day....She could be someone who uses two towels at a time when she showers or could of had the room for longer than a day.

Yes, there are some who aren't as hygienic as I personally feel all providers should be.  But unless you get the feeling she didn't wash up, what is so sloppy about it?   She's not a virgin, so you're NOT first.  ;-P

She has had plenty of others in her bed before her last test. What matters is she properly cleans herself and in call between each client and has the energy and willingness to preform at her best. Nothing overnight resets what happened the night before as for the risk factor or hygiene wise. That is what good old fashioned showers, and tooth brushes are for. And it is up to the lady to limit clientele to what she can handle both physically, mentally, and emotionally. Each lady is different in that aspect. But as long as she is a go and takes the time to clean up after each client, it really doesn't matter and if she isn't you really shouldn't touch her first of the day or not

I think it's worth asking yourself what your real concern is. Is it cleanliness or the idea that you're not the only man she's seeing that day? You obviously like her very much, I would focus on that and not let your concerns interfere with that.

If it makes you that uncomfortable then maybe this isn't the hobby for you. Being first in the morning is no guarantee your the "first".  

Now listen to Brianna and Debra, cuz they're right.  You will NEVER know how many others were there before you or if she has a BF she barebacks before she starts work. And it's none of your business. If you can't deal with that, get a civvy GF who probably fucks around on the side with no condom.  In other words, this is life so grow up.
Think about it.  Even if you're the first of the day and she's got no BF, what about the guys who fucked her yesterday?  Did a night time of no fucking mysteriously cleanse her of those guys?  What's the time limit on that for you?
Being "first up" is naive bullshit.
Grow up.
Sorry.

You know you're not the only client she sees. If you're the first client of the day, great. If you're her second or third go ahead and see her. You can't always be the first one she sees on a certain day. Give her time to freshen up and get ready. I know us guys would like to think that we're the only one she sees. But you know that's not true. Just get over it and enjoy seeing her.

Consensus of your opinions tells me I have my head up my ass on this subject. I guess it`s "Get your mind right Luke" time. All of your 'points are well taken.' I`ll work on this on the ride over. after I run my brain thru the washing machine. Damn, sucks bein' a newbie
Thank you all.......I`m learning.

Maybe you should pay her the daily rate so that she's exclusive to you the whole day.

I have had playdates at 3 and 4 AM.  That's right, when most of the fucking world is sleeping.  So, if some schmuck played with one of those ladies at 6 or 7 AM, thinking he was the first of the day, he was wrong.  I'd already been there.  If this bothers you, gtfo of the hobby.

Maybe this isn't the hobby for you.

Good reply to the constructive criticism. I don't think it's that uncommon for someone who's just starting to see escorts, but eventually you will learn that your escort being hygienic and having a great attitude is what's important.

Wow, sure is a lot of heat in my kitchen, phew! That`s ok,I might be a rookie but I`m a big boy and can take the heat. Keep it comin' OBTW, It`s not a hygiene thing with me, her Y smells like a basket of fresh laundry with fabric softener. Yeah, you guys are right. Shame on me. Time to man up and I will. At 5pm EST I`ll imagine there`s a  
hidden camera in the room with no escape for me. Dine or die. I`m dining thank you (learning too)

You sound like an insecure douchbag.  Its her business, shes not your gf.

Tell the provider in advance that you have this fantasy that she's been waiting all day for you.
If she's a highly rated pro, she can start the session with 5 minutes of BS about her day of shopping for new panties, etc...and fantasizing about sucking your cock all morning. She's so glad to see you because her RL stuff has been too busy and she really needs a good fuck

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Because I can't think of anyone actually being this stupid. Even if your her first customer of the day, she could easily have sex with someone else before seeing you. The only way you could be sure is if you spent all night with her.

What a fucking shit storm I walked into! I`m 71 yrs old and i`ll guarantee you back in the 70`s I fucked more girls than all of you put together. Got that macho man? BFD but being rusty all I asked for was some advice. I guess I was stupid enough to drag my sorry ass off my couch and go out and get it and I did, just don`t know the rules these days. Thank you all for your delightful insights.

I get asked, "Can I be your first?"  regularly enough that I've put it in my FAQs.

Never admit your 70. Taboo for all providers.  
You'll never be 1st of the day at 70. It's an
unwritten rule and not talked about, but highly  
rated escorts prefer 45-55 for their FFOTD ...  

I was with a provider who said, "I wonder how many women had sex in this (mine) bed? It was a pretty strange comment and it really made me feel uncomfortable. She also asked how many providers I saw that week ...WTF! Hi my name is Drew and I'm a SEX addict!  

I don't know how people do early morning sessions?? Unless she brings coffee and doesn't say much until about 11am ... even then the only I want to hear is, "More Coffee?

To snowball you, and you'll realize your load doesn't taste much different than the guy before you, so what's the difference?  Problem solved.

You don't need to answer the question seriously, but why not offer a first/only client of the day rate? Easy money.

"i`ll guarantee you back in the 70`s I fucked more girls than all of you put together. Got that macho man?"

I wouldn't mind her asking anyway, but especially not if she's paying me. I imagine providers are more annoyed by people asking them during the booking process, because it's yet one more way to be a "time waster."

Actually if you really want a solution, head on over to the erotic highway board and learn a little bit about the sugar dating world. Some girls on there actually are looking for exclusive arrangements.

If you're that afraid of a hooker fucking someone else that day maybe this isn't for you.  Maybe seek out an UTR or low volume lady if you fear what you call "sloppy seconds" OR find a GF.  
Good luck!

And put her in a chastity belt?

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You'll never know if you're first of the day and WTF does it matter any how.

The problem is this topic comes up fairly regularly and so far it looks like you've been treated almost as gently as if you had asked on the Newbie board.

Just because I don't post it, doesn't mean I won't agree to such an arrangement.

I think you misinterpreted my post. Tell them it's a first/only client of the day rate; doesn't have to be the truth. If they don't bump into another john on the way in or out they'll believe you, some of them. A sucker is born every minute, as they say.  

Don't bother me . Just as long as I make her cum better the the one before me.

... but not for the hygiene angle.  

You assumed I would do such a thing, hustling someone who may have a legitimate hangup.  
 
I WON'T.   I don't need to.  

If you read my post you I stated if the woman limited to her physical, mental and emotional limits. For some women with one apointnt seems like they are exceeding their limit and others can give there all six plus appointments in. It isn't the number of clients it is the lady sticking to the amount of activity she can be at her peak and that amount varies greatly between ladies and even days. If a lady exceeds her limits of course her sessions will suffer. Just like in what ever profession your in if you push it beyond your physical, mental or emotional limits the quality of work will suffer.

The first half of my post had nothing to do with being limited physically, mentally, or emotionally. It had to do with the woman being extra-horny because she hadn't had sex for awhile.  

It was supposed to be a joke.  

all that should matter. Top ladies take care of their bodies between sessions so there is not evidence of a previous tryst.

You will never enjoy this hobby if you overthink it like you are doing now.   You could be the first appointment of the day and she could have some horrible std that you will get and on and on until you drive yourself insane. Stick with reviewed reputable ladies and they will take good care of you.  Don't overthink  it.  Now go out and get that pussy and enjoy it. In this hobby you are a kid in a candy store and these wonderful ladies are the candy!!

I too prefer morning appointments as I am a morning person. some ladies are more sexually excitable in the morning, especially if its been a few days..... But the reverse is also true. Some ladies don't really wake up tell noon and are at their peak in the evenings.  That varies greatly person to person.

true, you also have providers who sometimes sleep during the day, maybe because of other activities during the day or night like laundry.  I may have seen a provider saturday morning, but within 24 hours earlier she had seen three clients on friday.

Good girls take a fresh shower, use mouth wash to kill all of the previous bacteria and scrub themselves clean inside and out so when it's your time to visit, she will be squeaky clean everywhere.

I did not tell any such "white lie" to anyone.

Happy ending yesterday. Got my head on straight on the ride over to her hotel with phone help from 2 guy friends.  Entered her room and any concerns over my spot in the lineup went right out the window, never thought about it once. This sweet, smart beautiful alpha female sent me to la-la land in matter of minutes. She explained to me during cuddle time that 95% of her clients are married business men with very limited and restricted availability and can only see her during lunchtime, after work etc. Makes sense, I got that. Done deal. I will never have this issue again. Situation now corrected.
I learned something today and the lesson was a little caustic at times and I one point I lashed back at the wrong poster, mea culpa. I mean how much can a guy take? I took what I could then swung back. In retrospect all this shit now seems comical.  
Time to move on with my new outlook.

Well hopefully this gang bang didn't happen before our visit last week. Lol. Even if it did, it wouldn't bother me as long as you were fresh and had plenty of gas left in the tank for me. Which by the way, you exceeded expectations on both accounts.

I really don't care if I'm first or last. I don't think about it and don't even want to know. It's none of my business. So far, I haven't encountered any issues with any of the lovely ladies that I have seen. As far as I'm concerned,:I'm first of the day but I know better.  

But now that you know how strongly others feel... you realize it's better not to mention this to ladies.
I'm not going to tell you are right or wrong for how you feel (none of my damn business) - but yes, as others have said, book first thing in the morning if you want to be the lady's first date.  Truth be told, if you surveyed guys and said "all things being equal, if you knew you could be a lady's only appointment for a day, or her 5th for a day, what would you choose?"  I daresay a sizable % (even if possibly less than a majority) would choose the former.  So while you were a bit crass in how you asked and deserved some blowback for that, there is certainly a grain of something there that many others might consider too if they happened to have that knowledge.