there are some who are skilled at creating an illusion. their business approach is to do and to tell you what they you want in order to maximize the profit they extract form you. if you get so besotted that you start making risky financial moves, you're a fool and deserve what you get. some may feel so entitled they'll try to pick your bones dry.

OTOH there are others who are completely clear and upfront about it merely being a service. you'll know where you stand with them, good or bad. they may even become friends in some sense. these latter are very very satisfactory, much better than the illusionists.

there are still others....

One of my Favorite Ladies...  is totally GFE until late in the meeting...  the tone changes.  Then GFE again for the departing hug & kiss.  

Often times it is hard to separate the illusion from the reality.  It's very easy to "fall for" a lady we have great sex with.  I know it's hormonal, but not sure my heart always knows.  For this reason, I rotate a few Fav ladies & seldom meet the same one serially.
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It's just pussy. Get up and walk out like you have somewhere to go. She's already said next!

You know it's time to go when her alarm goes off! Just kidding! But, like in real life, there are certain lines I never cross no matter how I feel or what I think, and staying past my time is one of them. I always keep my eye on the clock, and when it comes time say, 'Well, I don't want to over stay my welcome.' There's been a handful of times when the lady made it clear that there was no rush, then I figure it's up to her to communicate when the party is over.

Most of the providers I've been with always kept their eye on the prize ($$$) mo matter how friendly or fun the atmosphere got to be.  It's generally the client who has to navigate the slippery slope of reality...

Part of the fantasy is knowing that it is short and sweet and knowing in that short hour you have to savor every part of it. Because We have to go back to reality.. I love being Jessica because I don't have to be all THINGS to everyone. In the momment I get to be ME. THe other me..

See it's not really all about you after all...

THe anwear is YES.....

compromise their principles just because some guy wants something not on your menu.

Guys, stay private with "the game" and don't tell anyone about your activities.  Guys should stay within your hobby budget and don't use the rent, car payment, grocery, etc. money to play.  

Both ladies and guys, enjoy the fantasy for what it is.

There are wonderful providers who keep a good distance, make it clear from beginning to end what the relationship is and deliver on that. They sell the experience, make you feel sexy and like they are having a wonderful time (and the best of these probably are having a good time), but the rest of the time, it is a clear, simple transaction.

Then there are others, and I have found one, who blur all sorts of lines, making it unclear how they view themselves (and me) in all this, and, particularly, how they want to be treated. I like both, but the one who blurs the lines draws me in more than the ones who are clear about the whole deal. She says and does things that make me think, tempt me, make me wonder, even invite me to dream,. Some of these things make no sense to me for a provider, things that make it seem like she is pretending to herself that she is my GF.

She is well reviewed, and reading the reviews, I know some of this is just what she does, but other things are not mentioned so I cannot tell if they are specific to how we interact, or all just part of how she does this with everyone - probably some of both, but mostly just her style with everyone.

In my case, and it sounds like this is also true in the case of the OP, the blurred lines only apply to how she acts when we are together. Communication at other times is fun, a little intimate, but not intrusive, not very frequent or intense, not lovey in any way, and for my blurry GFE, none of it is ever about money. In fact, her total disinterest in money is part of what blurs the lines. When I offer extra money, usually because our sessions went over the time I asked for, she routinely declines; when I try to insist, she tells me in clear terms to put my money away, that if she wants or deserves more, she will tell me.

So I do not see her too often, despite how much I enjoy being with her. When I have pushed the boundaries myself, having been drawn in more than I should be, she has mostly ignored me and continued to do her thing. And that works well for me - blurred lines when we are together, but a clear distance the rest of the time; she can blur the lines and I follow. The one clear line being that she gets to decide where "our" boundaries are. I can and do have my own boundaries, of course, but she has not even come close to crossing any of them since my lines are all about the separation of my personal and hobbying lives.

The best salespeople are those who are the easiest to sell, as they believe totally in what they are selling; the best actors lose themselves in every role, becoming whoever they are portraying for a time (eventually losing themselves to a great degree and becoming a collection of the roles); I assume the best GFE is someone who truly believes she is your GF in the moment. Not a good thing for anyone's (provider or hobbyist) emotional and psychological health over time, I think. But if you both can forget about everything else and be totally into each other for the time together, so it no longer is P4P, no longer a performance, that is going to be the best, most intense, experience.

Playing with this dynamite is a lot of fun, until it blows up. And it always blows up. Just soooo seductive until that happens.