I'm about to turn 30, I live in NYC, own a startup, work in a cool field and teach at a University. I just left my fiancee of 4 years due to us growing apart, and all my retirement and living money is handled a few times over. I was always into monogamy, all of my 8 partners were relationships that lasted 3 months to 4 years.
I've never been all that sex crazy, and my fiancee lived in Europe and we were long distance but it never bothered me. I could always easily go a few months between visits. I'm cool with sex when it comes around and generally like it better with people I'm emotionally connected to. However, after some big changes in my life, I realized I was a free, sex positive, introverted but able to be outgoing guy, and have been myself lately instead of what people think I should be.
That said, my brother and I came down to Aruba for a vacation before he started a new job. Its amazing down here, the best beaches, awesome drugs, the nicest people always willing to hang with you or hook you up. Yesterday on the beach we were hanging out with the watersport rental guys, who were rolling us joints, and they called their friend who brought us a Caribbean BBQ for like $10 each, right to our spot on the beach! At one point one of the guys told me he could get me a girl if I wanted, and showed me some pictures of some pretty hot girls. I passed, but it got me thinking...
Anyway, I had almost pulled the trigger on a classy $400/hr escort in NYC for some time after my breakup, and it came to my attention that in Aruba prostitution is legal and rather good. From some of the message boards it sounded like it was a destination people went especially for sex tourism (like DR, PR, Curacao). It seemed I had two options, either go to the shady part of the island, about 40 minutes away and window shop in their 'red-light district' surrounded by pushy vagrants, or pay roughly the same (the cab would have been $60) to have a girl delivered to my hotel room. The classic conundrum, end up with a possible disappointment or get sketchy and pick what I want. As a lazy fellow, I went with the escort service.
The guy on the phone said he'd send over a petit sexy girl who was young and Brazilian. I was excited and don't honestly need 10s, my standards are low so most decent looking girls get me going. Set the time for 3:30 and went out to enjoy lunch with my brother on a pier over the emerald water.
I headed back to my room, wanting to shower and clean up a bit, put the money in the right place and get some ice so I could offer her some water. I also was fairly certain she would only speak minimal english, and hit the internet for a few phrases I might need in spanish. Turns out not speaking the same language was a lot of fun for both of us, I've never said "Si" so many times before, I got to be some latin playboy for an hour! We both laughed a lot and she used her blackberry with google translate when we were chatting on the balcony afterwards so we could understand each other.
So the good stuff. We hugged upon her coming in. She was wearing a red dress, a designer handbag and some cool shades. Game on, big smile on my face. She could tell I had just showered I guess so she started taking off all my clothes, got on her knees and gave me a BBBJ for a while. Really hot and I'd never had anyone with a tongue piercing before which was cool. After a while she pointed at the bed so we got on and did some naked grinding for a while, during which she came (wasn't expecting that) but it got her super hot for the rest of it. I was kinda nervous so I'd get in the zone and fuck her for five minutes or so and then lose my erection and we'd hang on the bed while she got me hard again or just made out a bit. Tried about 6 positions in all, I was pulling her hair a bit, smacking her super firm bubble butt and generally having a blast. We both were.
In the end I didn't cum, even though she got me close several times. But I'm not outcome dependent and I definitely was nervous but had a lot of fun throwing her around and goofing off. Also I find I'm only able to cum after I get my partner off, and this was kinda different even though she did get off, I'd never been this selfish in bed and I think it'll take some getting used to...
After 40 minutes of sexytimes we went on the balcony and she wanted me to take some sexy pictures of her and us, which I liked. And here they are: http://imgur.com/a/X9v4b
Now the FUNNY part. After chilling on the balcony, chatting and taking pics, she offered a "Vamos?" and we headed back inside to cool down and get ready to leave. All of a sudden, she's saying something to me and pointing at the door, which I realized was open. I walked around to find housekeeping in the bathroom! I asked housekeeping to come back in 10 minutes, (I'm still wearing almost nothing with a local whore).
NOPE! they were cleaning and that was that. So Michelle and I mouthed "WTFs" to each other in our respective language, got dressed and headed out.
When it was over I was meeting my brother at the bar who was watching the Jets game, so we walked arm in arm like one of the 1000 newlyweds everywhere. I took her to the lobby of the hotel and with a hug and a "Ciao", and felt I had broken the last rules holding my life back.
The service I used was called Aruba Heaven who spoke english and basically told me I could have a girl whenever I wanted.On top of that, it was only $120 for a little over an hour and she came right to my hotel room and dead on time!
Excited to see where this goes!
-GMT
This may be a little long, but as I've just started in this community I feel like a lot of people may be interested in where I'm at and what has led me to explore this lifestyle.
I'm about to turn 30, I live in NYC, own a startup, work in a cool field and teach at a University. I just left my fiancee of 4 years due to us growing apart, and all my retirement and living money is handled a few times over. I was always into monogamy, all of my 8 partners were relationships that lasted 3 months to 4 years.
I've never been all that sex crazy, and my fiancee lived in Europe and we were long distance but it never bothered me. I could always easily go a few months between visits. I'm cool with sex when it comes around and generally like it better with people I'm emotionally connected to. However, after some big changes in my life, I realized I was a free, sex positive, introverted but able to be outgoing guy, and have been myself lately instead of what people think I should be.
That said, my brother and I came down to Aruba for a vacation before he started a new job. Its amazing down here, the best beaches, awesome drugs, the nicest people always willing to hang with you or hook you up. Yesterday on the beach we were hanging out with the watersport rental guys, who were rolling us joints, and they called their friend who brought us a Caribbean BBQ for like $10 each, right to our spot on the beach! At one point one of the guys told me he could get me a girl if I wanted, and showed me some pictures of some pretty hot girls. I passed, but it got me thinking...
Anyway, I had almost pulled the trigger on a classy $400/hr escort in NYC for some time after my breakup, and it came to my attention that in Aruba prostitution is legal and rather good. From some of the message boards it sounded like it was a destination people went especially for sex tourism (like DR, PR, Curacao). It seemed I had two options, either go to the shady part of the island, about 40 minutes away and window shop in their 'red-light district' surrounded by pushy vagrants, or pay roughly the same (the cab would have been $60) to have a girl delivered to my hotel room. The classic conundrum, end up with a possible disappointment or get sketchy and pick what I want. As a lazy fellow, I went with the escort service.
The guy on the phone said he'd send over a petit sexy girl who was young and Brazilian. I was excited and don't honestly need 10s, my standards are low so most decent looking girls get me going. Set the time for 3:30 and went out to enjoy lunch with my brother on a pier over the emerald water.
I headed back to my room, wanting to shower and clean up a bit, put the money in the right place and get some ice so I could offer her some water. I also was fairly certain she would only speak minimal english, and hit the internet for a few phrases I might need in spanish. Turns out not speaking the same language was a lot of fun for both of us, I've never said "Si" so many times before, I got to be some latin playboy for an hour! We both laughed a lot and she used her blackberry with google translate when we were chatting on the balcony afterwards so we could understand each other.
So the good stuff. We hugged upon her coming in. She was wearing a red dress, a designer handbag and some cool shades. Game on, big smile on my face. She could tell I had just showered I guess so she started taking off all my clothes, got on her knees and gave me a BBBJ for a while. Really hot and I'd never had anyone with a tongue piercing before which was cool. After a while she pointed at the bed so we got on and did some naked grinding for a while, during which she came (wasn't expecting that) but it got her super hot for the rest of it. I was kinda nervous so I'd get in the zone and fuck her for five minutes or so and then lose my erection and we'd hang on the bed while she got me hard again or just made out a bit. Tried about 6 positions in all, I was pulling her hair a bit, smacking her super firm bubble butt and generally having a blast. We both were.
In the end I didn't cum, even though she got me close several times. But I'm not outcome dependent and I definitely was nervous but had a lot of fun throwing her around and goofing off. Also I find I'm only able to cum after I get my partner off, and this was kinda different even though she did get off, I'd never been this selfish in bed and I think it'll take some getting used to...
After 40 minutes of sexytimes we went on the balcony and she wanted me to take some sexy pictures of her and us, which I liked.
Now the FUNNY part. After chilling on the balcony, chatting and taking pics, she offered a "Vamos?" and we headed back inside to cool down and get ready to leave. All of a sudden, she's saying something to me and pointing at the door, which I realized was open. I walked around to find housekeeping in the bathroom! I asked housekeeping to come back in 10 minutes, (I'm still wearing almost nothing with a local whore).
NOPE! they were cleaning and that was that. So Michelle and I mouthed "WTFs" to each other in our respective language, got dressed and headed out.
When it was over I was meeting my brother at the bar who was watching the Jets game, so we walked arm in arm like one of the 1000 newlyweds everywhere. I took her to the lobby of the hotel and with a hug and a "Ciao", and felt I had broken the last rules holding my life back.
The service I used was called Aruba Heaven who spoke english and basically told me I could have a girl whenever I wanted.On top of that, it was only $120 for a little over an hour and she came right to my hotel room and dead on time!
Excited to see where this goes!
-GMT
-- Modified on 9/22/2013 8:27:27 PM
I'm about to turn 30, I live in NYC, own a startup, work in a cool field and teach at a University. I just left my fiancee of 4 years due to us growing apart, and all my retirement and living money is handled a few times over. I was always into monogamy, all of my 8 partners were relationships that lasted 3 months to 4 years.
I've never been all that sex crazy, and my fiancee lived in Europe and we were long distance but it never bothered me. I could always easily go a few months between visits. I'm cool with sex when it comes around and generally like it better with people I'm emotionally connected to. However, after some big changes in my life, I realized I was a free, sex positive, introverted but able to be outgoing guy, and have been myself lately instead of what people think I should be.
That said, my brother and I came down to Aruba for a vacation before he started a new job. Its amazing down here, the best beaches, awesome drugs, the nicest people always willing to hang with you or hook you up. Yesterday on the beach we were hanging out with the watersport rental guys, who were rolling us joints, and they called their friend who brought us a Caribbean BBQ for like $10 each, right to our spot on the beach! At one point one of the guys told me he could get me a girl if I wanted, and showed me some pictures of some pretty hot girls. I passed, but it got me thinking...
Anyway, I had almost pulled the trigger on a classy $400/hr escort in NYC for some time after my breakup, and it came to my attention that in Aruba prostitution is legal and rather good. From some of the message boards it sounded like it was a destination people went especially for sex tourism (like DR, PR, Curacao). It seemed I had two options, either go to the shady part of the island, about 40 minutes away and window shop in their 'red-light district' surrounded by pushy vagrants, or pay roughly the same (the cab would have been $60) to have a girl delivered to my hotel room. The classic conundrum, end up with a possible disappointment or get sketchy and pick what I want. As a lazy fellow, I went with the escort service.
The guy on the phone said he'd send over a petit sexy girl who was young and Brazilian. I was excited and don't honestly need 10s, my standards are low so most decent looking girls get me going. Set the time for 3:30 and went out to enjoy lunch with my brother on a pier over the emerald water.
I headed back to my room, wanting to shower and clean up a bit, put the money in the right place and get some ice so I could offer her some water. I also was fairly certain she would only speak minimal english, and hit the internet for a few phrases I might need in spanish. Turns out not speaking the same language was a lot of fun for both of us, I've never said "Si" so many times before, I got to be some latin playboy for an hour! We both laughed a lot and she used her blackberry with google translate when we were chatting on the balcony afterwards so we could understand each other.
So the good stuff. We hugged upon her coming in. She was wearing a red dress, a designer handbag and some cool shades. Game on, big smile on my face. She could tell I had just showered I guess so she started taking off all my clothes, got on her knees and gave me a BBBJ for a while. Really hot and I'd never had anyone with a tongue piercing before which was cool. After a while she pointed at the bed so we got on and did some naked grinding for a while, during which she came (wasn't expecting that) but it got her super hot for the rest of it. I was kinda nervous so I'd get in the zone and fuck her for five minutes or so and then lose my erection and we'd hang on the bed while she got me hard again or just made out a bit. Tried about 6 positions in all, I was pulling her hair a bit, smacking her super firm bubble butt and generally having a blast. We both were.
In the end I didn't cum, even though she got me close several times. But I'm not outcome dependent and I definitely was nervous but had a lot of fun throwing her around and goofing off. Also I find I'm only able to cum after I get my partner off, and this was kinda different even though she did get off, I'd never been this selfish in bed and I think it'll take some getting used to...
After 40 minutes of sexytimes we went on the balcony and she wanted me to take some sexy pictures of her and us, which I liked. And here they are: http://imgur.com/a/X9v4b
Now the FUNNY part. After chilling on the balcony, chatting and taking pics, she offered a "Vamos?" and we headed back inside to cool down and get ready to leave. All of a sudden, she's saying something to me and pointing at the door, which I realized was open. I walked around to find housekeeping in the bathroom! I asked housekeeping to come back in 10 minutes, (I'm still wearing almost nothing with a local whore).
NOPE! they were cleaning and that was that. So Michelle and I mouthed "WTFs" to each other in our respective language, got dressed and headed out.
When it was over I was meeting my brother at the bar who was watching the Jets game, so we walked arm in arm like one of the 1000 newlyweds everywhere. I took her to the lobby of the hotel and with a hug and a "Ciao", and felt I had broken the last rules holding my life back.
The service I used was called Aruba Heaven who spoke english and basically told me I could have a girl whenever I wanted.On top of that, it was only $120 for a little over an hour and she came right to my hotel room and dead on time!
Excited to see where this goes!
-GMT
All the best in your new avocation. Now that you've gotten your feet wet without getting burned (sorry about the mixed metaphor), you really should get yourself over to the Newbie Board so you can figure this game out. Read as much as you can, check out the Self-Help Guide and the acronyms, read lots of reviews. In other words, do your homework. You'll avoid expensive and frustrating mistakes.
Again, welcome.
Great tip, I will do that for sure and I've redacted the images. I've done a lot of reading on other forums and on reddit but will check out the newbie board 
Just keep in mind the U.S. providers are far from what you've had in Europe. We don't kiss ass and cater to bs here...well, some of us don't.
It's not really advisable to go to St Nicks alone, and it takes a good hour to get a return cab to bring you back, so you can count on paying the cabbie for the entire time you are there.
The rates there are rather reasonable, about an 8 dollar house fee and forty for the girl, but when you add it all up, you probably ended up saving money the way you did it.
The little mini whore houses in Aruba are different from anywhere else I have been. They are more like strip club with rooms attached where the chicas (mainly from Colombia and Venezuela) stay for their ninety day work stay. I will say that some of them are pretty damn hot, but as long as you are happy with what you ended up with, who am I too judge?
Welcome to TER, and the advice you've been given is sound, remember the internet is forever whenever you think about posting pics here.
Yes, wipe that out right away and cross your fingers. Get your ass to the Newbie Board, stat!
She WAS pretty hot.
Pictures redacted, thanks for the heads up. I knew it was a bit stupid but I'm not running for office!
Ha! Yeah I was pleasantly surpised!
Done and doing that. Was on kind of a high to share with someone so I think I got carried away
They servuce men from around the world and although they say the girls are "tested" dont believe it . so without an essay anyone who samples be cautious and buy rubbers abd lubes and whatever else yourself ! Having the girl come to you is better and safer , also you can get cheap rooms away from your hotel too if necessary , remember safety 1st !
Highrise hotels ! Yup they are , the down side to Aruba is that there are girls that are young which is disgusting ! Glad you had fun and hope she was older than 20 ! Yes it was safer the way you did it but , if you go back do your your homework and like i said 5 minutes away ! Also they can come to you or you can go go where they are and NOT only in st, nick.
I'm about to turn 30, I live in NYC, own a startup, work in a cool field and teach at a University. I just left my fiancee of 4 years due to us growing apart, and all my retirement and living money is handled a few times over. I was always into monogamy, all of my 8 partners were relationships that lasted 3 months to 4 years.
I've never been all that sex crazy, and my fiancee lived in Europe and we were long distance but it never bothered me. I could always easily go a few months between visits. I'm cool with sex when it comes around and generally like it better with people I'm emotionally connected to. However, after some big changes in my life, I realized I was a free, sex positive, introverted but able to be outgoing guy, and have been myself lately instead of what people think I should be.
That said, my brother and I came down to Aruba for a vacation before he started a new job. Its amazing down here, the best beaches, awesome drugs, the nicest people always willing to hang with you or hook you up. Yesterday on the beach we were hanging out with the watersport rental guys, who were rolling us joints, and they called their friend who brought us a Caribbean BBQ for like $10 each, right to our spot on the beach! At one point one of the guys told me he could get me a girl if I wanted, and showed me some pictures of some pretty hot girls. I passed, but it got me thinking...
Anyway, I had almost pulled the trigger on a classy $400/hr escort in NYC for some time after my breakup, and it came to my attention that in Aruba prostitution is legal and rather good. From some of the message boards it sounded like it was a destination people went especially for sex tourism (like DR, PR, Curacao). It seemed I had two options, either go to the shady part of the island, about 40 minutes away and window shop in their 'red-light district' surrounded by pushy vagrants, or pay roughly the same (the cab would have been $60) to have a girl delivered to my hotel room. The classic conundrum, end up with a possible disappointment or get sketchy and pick what I want. As a lazy fellow, I went with the escort service.
The guy on the phone said he'd send over a petit sexy girl who was young and Brazilian. I was excited and don't honestly need 10s, my standards are low so most decent looking girls get me going. Set the time for 3:30 and went out to enjoy lunch with my brother on a pier over the emerald water.
I headed back to my room, wanting to shower and clean up a bit, put the money in the right place and get some ice so I could offer her some water. I also was fairly certain she would only speak minimal english, and hit the internet for a few phrases I might need in spanish. Turns out not speaking the same language was a lot of fun for both of us, I've never said "Si" so many times before, I got to be some latin playboy for an hour! We both laughed a lot and she used her blackberry with google translate when we were chatting on the balcony afterwards so we could understand each other.
So the good stuff. We hugged upon her coming in. She was wearing a red dress, a designer handbag and some cool shades. Game on, big smile on my face. She could tell I had just showered I guess so she started taking off all my clothes, got on her knees and gave me a BBBJ for a while. Really hot and I'd never had anyone with a tongue piercing before which was cool. After a while she pointed at the bed so we got on and did some naked grinding for a while, during which she came (wasn't expecting that) but it got her super hot for the rest of it. I was kinda nervous so I'd get in the zone and fuck her for five minutes or so and then lose my erection and we'd hang on the bed while she got me hard again or just made out a bit. Tried about 6 positions in all, I was pulling her hair a bit, smacking her super firm bubble butt and generally having a blast. We both were.
In the end I didn't cum, even though she got me close several times. But I'm not outcome dependent and I definitely was nervous but had a lot of fun throwing her around and goofing off. Also I find I'm only able to cum after I get my partner off, and this was kinda different even though she did get off, I'd never been this selfish in bed and I think it'll take some getting used to...
After 40 minutes of sexytimes we went on the balcony and she wanted me to take some sexy pictures of her and us, which I liked.
Now the FUNNY part. After chilling on the balcony, chatting and taking pics, she offered a "Vamos?" and we headed back inside to cool down and get ready to leave. All of a sudden, she's saying something to me and pointing at the door, which I realized was open. I walked around to find housekeeping in the bathroom! I asked housekeeping to come back in 10 minutes, (I'm still wearing almost nothing with a local whore).
NOPE! they were cleaning and that was that. So Michelle and I mouthed "WTFs" to each other in our respective language, got dressed and headed out.
When it was over I was meeting my brother at the bar who was watching the Jets game, so we walked arm in arm like one of the 1000 newlyweds everywhere. I took her to the lobby of the hotel and with a hug and a "Ciao", and felt I had broken the last rules holding my life back.
The service I used was called Aruba Heaven who spoke english and basically told me I could have a girl whenever I wanted.On top of that, it was only $120 for a little over an hour and she came right to my hotel room and dead on time!
Excited to see where this goes!
-GMT
-- Modified on 9/22/2013 8:27:27 PM