I am fairly new to this hobby, so have never before really considered the question of what I can do to increase the chances of having two "pops" in a 1-hour session. My success rate has not been very good over the last several months (3 times in 9 sessions). My question is this: If I had a session on a Monday, would I have a lower chance of attaining 2 pops if I had another session on Thursday (i.e. 3-day recovery period) than if I waited until the next Monday (7-day recovery)? That is, have hobbyists found that the recovery period for "full performance" is a matter of hours, days, or a week? I guess this is a question for older hobbyists (I am 45), since presumably younger guys wouldn't have to even think about it. Are there any other strategies that people have found to increase the odds, other than the obvious ones of adequate rest, early appointment time, and hot (and compatible)provider? Thanks for any info.
It is all in the mind... and of course the beauty of the provider certainly plays an important role! I have met men in their 60's who can get 2-3 pops. I once had a 58 year old regular who could do it 5 times in 24 hours. Stop worrying about it and it will happen! It's like all those silly self-help books say... you attract what you think.. if you fear you can't, you wont... if you think you can... you will. And of course... find the hottest provider you can afford.
Liz -- it's a male macho thing, as I'm sure you realize. That is, more positions + more pops = better sex, or so the adolescent thinking goes. As some of the boys grow up, their attitudes can change.
At least for me, the second is better. When I'm going for my first, it's intense up to orgasm so I have the feeling I just want to come and get it over with. It's usually not an intense O and doesn't feel that great. When I'm on my second, I have to work for that orgasm and boy does it feel good when I get it (physically not mentally).
Bingo! I like your thought process Lizzy. I'm 49 and on a number of meds, including Viagra. My two pop days are far behind me but I still book two hour appointments with my fav on a regular basis. The secondary upside of Viagra (pun intended) is that it takes me forever to pop. We both know the goal is for me to to have one earth shattering orgasm and for her to have several. Seems like a good ratio to me!
If you care that much about having two 'pops' in one session, have sessions less frequently (weeks apart?) and do not masturbate between sessions (or at least 3-4 days before one). Also try to eat more healthy foods as fast/junk food can hinder performance as opposed to tasty fruits and vegetables.
Another thing could be you are thinking about it too much. Try during a session, not to think about cumming at all. Just enjoy the experience. It could just all be in your head.
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