Re: Pregnant providers

Unless the medical community has changed from when my wife was pregnant, my wifes doc. said we could have sex as long as it was comfortable to her which was up to about 8 months. Depending on how far along my wife was depended on how we did the deed. Hope that helps!? Good luck!

Her Doc said we had to do it to induce labor when she went past her "due date".

She just wanted it over and done with as quick as possible.

I tried to go quick... but her attitude was a problem, and I'm not generally turned on by pregnant women, however it had been pretty much 9 months since....

Now, some women get horney as hell when they're pregnant, or so I'm told.  Just wasn't my... I mean "our"... experience.

Anyway... to answer your Q... unless you go really crazy, there is little chance of harming the baby... at least that's what the Dr told us.

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Best sex I ever had with my ex was when she was pregnant.  Her hormones turned her from a "sex is pretty good if the mood is right and you kiss my ass just so" type of woman into a "damnit, I'm horny and want to be serviced now" type of chick.  

You won't hurt the kid.  My ex could only get off by laying on top, hugging tightly.  She was 7 months along and doing this, and grinding to beat hell.  You'll hurt her long before you hurt the baby, in my experience.

Having said that, sex with a preggo provider?  Not sure about I could deal with that, but the closeness of the sex with the woman carrying my child was out of this world.  There's no connecting with a woman like there is during that time.  Not if you've got a beating heart there isn't.  And while at times she thought she was "disgustingly huge", I saw nothing but glowing beauty.  There is just something about a content, pregnant woman that makes all others pale in comparison, no matter her girth at the time.

Ask her for instructions.

Re: Pregnant providers

You should be safe as long as you talk to her a little and ask what she's comfortable with.

My ex was crazy horny during both her pregnancies. The first one she complained about everything but during the second one it was definitely PSE. And prebirth breast milk can be extremely sweet if you're thinking of going there ;]

My fear (I'm sure totally unfounded ...) would be to break water and find myself doing a delivery :O

I recently had my child.  I provided while I was pregnant.  My OBGYN knows what I do and informed me of things that are ok and not so great.  Like inserting fingers or daty isn't such a great idea as it can cause a bacterial infection, in return causing the child harm.

You can hug her, she can lay on top of you as long as she is comfortable doing so.  We aren't as limited as some would think.

I would say, ask her what she prefers as far as positions go, because every lady is different during this time.  Maybe offer a shoulder massage, that was one of my favs.  If you want to rub her feet, stay away from the ankles.  Long story but it's not good to rub the ankles.

Be yourself and enjoy.  Don't think she is breakable babe, and if she is uncomfortable, I am sure she will tell you.  And contrary to what ANYONE thinks, you won't touch the baby, the baby won't see your penis, you can harm her/him.  As long as her doctor has ok'd her for sex, you are good to go babe.  

Have fun and enjoy, pregnant ladies are super horny, so eat your wheaties hehehe.

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I AM 9 MONTHS PREGNANT AND LOVING IT. I AM HORNIER THAN EVER AND CAN PERFORM AS SNYONE ELSE WOULD. MANY GUYS HAVE A PREGNANT FETISH I THINK ITS THE HOLE LACTATING THING    
 

Re: Pregnant providers

I am one. 8 months along, just be gentle of course! my one issue I have been having, is I think men forget there is a lil one inside of me, and will put a great amount of pressure on my stomach, which is really uncomfortable. So just keep that in mind, and leave some room!