Just went through yet another provider who can't handle my girth. Sweet girl, beautiful, talented, but she couldn't go 100%. Even after I'm going nice and slow like some sort of Turtle/Snail hybrid, I can see her wince and jolt back with discomfort. This isn't even a humblebrag, I wish my junk was thinner so I can see some of my favorites again. As of now, some of my ATF gives me more head and hand than FS because of the soreness, but I can get that at an AMP for half the price. I know some of the girls need the money and say they could handle it, but their performance says otherwise contrary to their reviews.
So here's my question to providers: Would you prefer a client warn you ahead of time that they're magnum size? How can we prepare for it? How would you prepare? Would you cancel a date knowing the size makes you uncomfortable? I wouldn't mind a cancellation, it's respectful for both parties knowing it won't be a good time. I like it when the enjoyment is mutual, but when it's a one-sided stretch fest, I feel awful knowing i'm hurting her -- and awful for that fact that I just paid premium price for mediocre performance :
Yea, someone was passing a long an ad last week. And it was for a hooker who wouldn't see anyone under, like, 7 inches or something.
Seriously though, I think if you were to email a number of providers and be just as sincere as you were in this post -- heck, even cut and paste it if you want. I'm sure you'll find a lady who just really really likes big dicks.
Despite all the "size doesn't matter" BS ... yes, there are some women not in porn who do like big dicks. I've known a few myself in the civie world. I'm sure they have 'em in the provider world. You just gotta' look. One when you find her, you can be like her big dick fantasy dude. Which would be pretty cool.
Mmmm I'm interested to see who this provider is. I wish there was an option on TER and other site to filter based on size preference...
You can filter by "Porn Star." And you would have to imagine the porn stars have seen dicks more "girthy" than yours. Some of the, would probably laugh at your paltry girth, in fact. 
ha ha.
idea number 2 ... Do you like black girls? Warning, I'm about to get REALLY RACIST NOW. But you may have noticed a trend among our AA brothers ... that they have these massive cocks.
I'm using the reasoning that a black provider might be more used to a guy with massive cock syndrome, assuming she dates other AAs in her RL.
...and we already have the "my massive cock is too big for the planet" thread. LOL
Tally ho my fine gent.
I wouldn't call it massive, lengthwise, it's pretty average. However, circumference-wise,if it was an SAT score, it'd be in the top 99% percentile :P
I even joked with one provider that we have all these enlargement pills, but where's the pills for making it thinner, there's a market for that!
And it's a real actual concern of mine. I want to enjoy the time I'm paying for and it's become more of a hindrance than a 'gift'. Imagine buying a 4K HD TV and realizing you can only watch it in 480p.
Now is the time to do it as all the gym memberships are on sale. LOL
Maybe there is dick apparatus at them that i am not aware?
Check with one of the many hookers here that are calorically challenged since T-giving. Many are starting to work on their bikini bods for spring/summer so maybe they have a few tips?
Ladies? What say you that can help a big dick? (The OP that is, not me. LOL)
I love cock of ALL sizes! 
I prefer to wait for a face to cock reaction.
If a provider wants to try, I'm game and gentle,
but there have been more "fuck me harder" chants than ouch.
However, totally respectful of her decision. A mutual oral suck fest can be the alternative, but .... NO TEETH! I had to stop seeing my ATF because her jaw shrunk or her teeth grew.
Also, if there is chemistry, more foreplay and patience can open the gates of heaven. Yes, tight can be good for both sides.
And it's such a turn on when a women tells you she's never been touched there. Girth over length can elicit that response. And that's NOT acting
not the Fancy that just retired. First provider I couldn't enter. But her oral made me come 2x in 30 minutes and 3 in an hour, no problem. I was 55 then. However we both wanted intercourse ... first the tip, next date a bit more ... 4 dates to gain entry. From then on, no problem. Patience my friend ... or just move on.
I think I can help a patient woman who would like this experience.
LOL
Phwoar, so much experience. I heard of this mythical Fancy, it's a shame she retired before I got into the hobby. You offer sound advice my friend, much appreciated from a fellow Bostonian! I want to be your Padawan lol.
she just retired in late November ....
So where is you home base, my dear h+t?
I don't get out much, so your pussy is safe?
I am just wondering would you start to look at women who have been in the business for 5 to 10 years and tend to be a little bit older. These would be women who have seen the gamut of copulatory organs and can prepare themselves appropriately. Also how much foreplay are you willing to give? This could also be a critical issue because sometimes the woman needs to be warmed up before engaging in intense copulatory activity. Although this is a reach, perhaps you should engage a retired porn star with this question because invariably she would have experience with members that would be over 6" long and over 3.5" in circumference. She might give you some clues from a woman's perspective. In fact look up Angelina DDD in Washington DC she might be a good person to discuss this issue .
I'm patient and thoughtful .... I wanna be able to see EVERYONE again if we can have a hot time ....$$$$ permitting. How do I define hotttt! 8 won't hijack this post ... sorry Escalade for last week. 😕
Perhaps you can use the phrase hedonistic and copulatory intense. Try to use words that might imply a gonzo scene with out actually saying a gonzo scene. Use words like putting it on them.
And I am not willing to stretch myself out to accommodate these. I like being small and tight and just refuse to deal with those sized organs. Plenty of other women can do that should they choose to.
I'm larger than many, but not freakish large.
Obvously, to each his own. I guess I now know
you're a woman. Couldn't tell with no reviews ...
and no, I'm not judging.
I'm curious , what do you consider large?
Hopefully, we'll get a few bites.
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I already got a hit. Thanks buddy!!!
Let's just say I got a reply from certain hot blondie. She's kind of selective though, have to warn you. But apparently having a fat, chunky cock isn't on her list of deal-breakers. You're welcome, buddy.
Congratulations. Ask her for Greek ... Just tell her you'll use extra lube.
And feel free to share these words of wisdom with her. She'll think you're funny,
Sometimes, a dick that would be good based on size alone is ruined by being bent. A bent dick is one that curves to one side or the other in a weird way that makes it look stupid. In focus groups of 13 year old boys, most agreed that if your dick was bent, it meant that you were gay. While science has presented plenty of evidence to the contrary, it is true that your dick is probably bent from wearing pants that are too tight. Often people that define themselves as ‘alternative’ have bent dicks from wearing girls pants.
Men also have nuts which hang down from under the dick in a nutsack. The nuts are where cum is stored, which gets used in the mans body to make him grow a beard and get into fights. Men with smaller nuts have less cum so they tend to be cowards.
Let's just say I got a reply from certain hot blondie. She's kind of selective though, have to warn you. But apparently having a fat, chunky cock isn't on her list of deal-breakers. You're welcome, buddy.
Really. Thanks. Learn something new everyday.
that he required Magnums. He'd already been screened etc.
In his case, I "prepared" with some extra shots of Captain Morgan in my coffee.
And possibly not at the speed he wants either. Do you really want that?
...maybe a little bit, yes...
wave the white flag and just plain stop. Which would you really prefer? And that is in real life too, not just on the job.
...would get along just fine...just fine...
There's 1/3 less of me than there used to be...
to see whom you'd like. I totally respect that. But IMO
there's big and TOO BIG. That too is your call. But its
not just size queens one should be on the lookout for.
Speaking for myself, I've never had a woman decline
intercourse except one (recently) and she raises her
pinky when I ask what is allowed in her pussy. She's
fine with oral and anal, but slow until she requests harder
or deeper. I stay aware of what's going down ... or up and
down, as may be the case.
Women definitely comment about my size but when when the session us over and I mention seeing her again, I'm invited back. Technique, sensitivity to her size and wetness, most enjoy it slow until they want more, but this still isn't a license to test her limits. Call me crazy, but I am into giving pleasure AS MUCH as receiving. Orally and manually.
At 65, sometime that's all I can accomplish where getting a
hard on is concerned. Still, I want it to be the best session
possible for both of us.
Perhaps you've met a couple whammers that have no idea
what your feeling, what they're doing or don't care. We're all
not like that and I can empathize with your feelings for sure.
Im not trying to change anyones mind, I have way more wkmen friends than money and I'm satisfied with the time I share with each of them. I'm just offering look from the other side of things. .
my limits and it is not enjoyable in the least, no matter how slow, how much lube is added etc. I much prefer the smaller the better. I don't feel I am missing anything by choosing not to see large dicked men.
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My lady parts do not need preparing, they already know what they can deal with and what they can't. If you discreetly mentioned it beforehand, there would not be a date to cancel. I would not waste your time.
How about going to the AMPS you speak of if you can get the same hand and head for half the price...that seems your best bet.
I don't think the OP actually "wants" to have to settle for a HJ, but he is saying that is that IF that is all he is able to get from many "full priced" providers, he might as well get it at half the cost.
I kind of feel for the OP, although I can't relate to it, being rather average in size myself. I think if he is having this much trouble he should do two things, the first one is seek out a few of the "size queens" we have here who actually like monster cocks and then try to compare notes with the reviewers who seem to "size up" for her.
that being: Do not bring up issues that imply sexual activities.
As GG suggests, his only recourse is either to break that directive and get cut off a lot, or do research and try to find size queens
A very tough call and I feel his pain....because he should be able to enjoy his session as much as possible and the hookers need to not be put out of action or in pain.
So, unless he is on P411 where in his profile he can mention his size , then the ladies he contacts can go check it out, providing they are on P411.
Sorry, I forgot to put "eom" ...
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Thanks for the idea! I never thought about this. I hope p411 is ok with this info. They have a tendency to xxx xxx stuff out
take the ring off that go inside your lady friend otherwise they can dig into you. Lots of lube on you and in the condom and set yourself in there for a delicious ride. It's less abrasive and your not rubbing her tender skin but the condom.
Now if your really thick this method may not work on a tight pussy
Kisses Haley
should I visit Orlando. ..
providers read them before booking you. It's as much a part of the screening process ad your name and employer.
Are you large or enormous? No pics required!
I kind of hinted at that in a few reviews... should I be more overt with the info? I try to balance a good session without sounding like a braggart.
but I belive I always comment on that discretely, probably twice. And no, I'm not bragging. If I can say tight pussy, shouldn't I also reference to my size. I'm not the biggest BY A LONG STRETCH and not overly long. Just sharing ...
You post a rant on TER Duh!
So here's my question to providers: Would you prefer a client warn you ahead of time that they're magnum size? How can we prepare for it? How would you prepare? Would you cancel a date knowing the size makes you uncomfortable? I wouldn't mind a cancellation, it's respectful for both parties knowing it won't be a good time. I like it when the enjoyment is mutual, but when it's a one-sided stretch fest, I feel awful knowing i'm hurting her -- and awful for that fact that I just paid premium price for mediocre performance :P