would like some perspectives.  A provider I’ve enjoyed seeing regularly for several years and lives on the opposite coast, contacted me out of the blue to say she would be on my side of the US (but still 2 hours away by air) in a couple weeks and wondering if I’d like to come meet her.  While I think of her as a friend, she’s never initiated a conversation or possible meeting with me like this - almost all our comms have started with me.
I think I’m probably being stupid, but this contact is bothering me - like maybe she is playing me as an easy paycheck.  Feedback appreciated.

Times are tough, she needs money. What's so complicated about that? Why do you seem unhappy about it? You thought you were special and she wasn't a hooker? Well, you're not the first to step in that one.
Go fuck her and have fun.

You said that you have seen her several times over several years so I don't see why you would think that you are being played.  I would assume that she was reaching out because 1) business has probably declined significantly and 2) she valued my business.  Now the fact that she is 2 hrs away by air sounds a little weird.  What did she suggest?  Did she suggest a type/length of appointment?  Was she considering making another stop on a tour if there is enough interest (x # of prebookings to cover costs)?  Like most of these sorts of posts it depends on the other facts/context.  

Given what you said, most likely not. May be she, for the first time is in a financial bind or simply touring on your side of coast.
Try not to over analyze just go enjoy her company; what do you have to lose if you like her anyway ...

She’s playing you I got the same email😁

Sounds like typical rainmaking to me ... drumming up future business.  You know they are escorts.  That's what they do.

do you want to spend the day with her or the weekend?  thats a lot of effort for pussy.  also there is the whole virus thing.  just saying.

If this is the first time she has taken the initiative in suggesting you see her for a session.  It just means she is reaching further down her client list to try to drum up business.  Most providers keep a priority list of clients.  At the top are the ones that will do weekends and overnights, which generate a large amount from a single source.  After that, multiple-hour customers, and rounding out the list are guys who just do a normal one-hour session.  Any time they need to generate some revenue, they will start at the top of the list, because they know they can get a larger amount out of their best clients, and then they will move down the list until they raise the amount of money they needed.  

entire nation is on standstill due the health issue and most likely her clients aren't seeing her on that side of the coast.

Sometimes you have to trust your gut.

Many thanks for perspectives / thoughts.  Was having a bad day when I posted - realized today my perspective was (way) off center, and I left out a couple key points.
She doesn’t travel for business - she only works in her home location.  Her trip is for a personal reason (confirmed).
She didn’t ask me for anything - the donation to her will be whatever I feel is reasonable (per her previous guidance on multiple visits).
Thinking clearer today and realize I’m lucky.  Plus she’s a very pretty lady.

Have a great time with her 👍👍

Always trust your gut.
Thought my lady was honest and trustworthy.   Had the impression from her she was now very low volume.. so when she contacted me about coming on trip I asked her if she active or quarantining (as I had been doing).  Told me she was completely inactive - I would be safe.

I gotta say I don't think that is an appropriate response.

Not sure Why a *provider* you've seen on a regular basis over the course of several years.  Whom contacted you to let you know she's a tad closer to your area. Should you wish to gtg? Is bothering you?  
Unless you two had an agreement that you're the only one allowed to initiate the P4P contact?

I think you potential course of action would not be appropriate.  Did she promise exclusivity to you?  She could have been truthful in her statement that she was in quarantine, well, because no one was seeing her, agreed to see you, and then two visits happened after your arrangement.  Did you require her to notify you of these two visits?  

Maybe she just enjoys your company. Maybe you’re a good guy that she would like to see. Yes it’s a business but there are no rules against having some fun. I consider myself a low volume provider and plan on staying like that but in the past week reached out to some old friends I’ve known to say hi and hope all is well. It wasn’t everyone I know rather just a few guys I’ve gotten to know and like and I believe the feeling is mutual. I also knew not everyone would respond but happily the ones that did were happy and receptive to hear from me.  
Give yourself a little more credit. Could be you’re just a nice guy and a good client.

And get over yourself. You're a paycheck!

Not her, YOU!!!

you are an idiot.  just tell her you don't want to see her.  you are acting like a teenage girl.  

1) Almost every lady claims to be low volume and almost all of them are less than honest about being low volume.  If a lady tours, then she isn't low volume.  She cannot be low volume and cover her overhead.  By claiming to be low volume it somehow elevates them on the hooker hierarchy and makes them more desirable.
2) Ladies do the same thing about you being their first appointment for the same reason.
3) Look at her responses as creating and building a fantasy vs. her being dishonest.  You are delusional if you think the next provider isn't going to do the exact same thing and treat you the exact same way.  
4) Your response is inappropriate and will get you blacklisted and will lead to more bad experiences.

A very immature and cruel response.

Is an improper response if the reviews are true  
In this day and age many are not .
Have some balls and tell her your plan.

He’s not such a nice guy after all!

You plan on stranding a girl in a strange city over night or longer, with no place to stay, because she worked to put food on her table? Fuck that shit. You sir are a danger. I hope this woman let's every other woman know that you are the worse kind of ass. I hope she blacklists you on every hooker-board and blacklist sight  out there.  What a fucking psycho looser. I hope she reads this post and stays safe and stays home. Now I hope you are forced to go fuck yourself as no woman should ever put themselves at risk by seeing you. Fuck.

I was responding to the original post, Am I Being Played. He laid out his scenario and asked for feedback. I gave my feedback and I stand by it. As far as him being a nice guy or not had you read what I wrote you would have noticed the word could. I said you could be a nice guy. I made no declarations on his niceness in either direction. With all this now behind me I stand by what I wrote and bid you all a good night. 🥰

I resent those words, "I" am a complete and total asshole, the OP is vindictive little cunt. Speaking as an asshole and speaking for all the other assholes of the world, I would NEVER pull such a cunt move as the OP.

the whole thread, so you double down?   If you read his post further down the thread where he planned to set up the provider and then strand her in his city with no hotel room, you would not have written what you wrote.  Often, info in an OP gets clarified with further posts down the thread that completely change the complexion of the question originally asked.  When you come into a thread that has already been percolating for several days, its best to read down the thread a bit so that your post will be relevant to the discussion.  The OP started off in one place and then revealed himself to be "a vindictive little cunt" (to quote one poster) as the discussion continued.  Stormy's advice was sound, no need to get defensive.  

I doubt she is that stupid not to have a plan b in case of such stupidity. I am sure she has a return flight as that is how they are usually sold. But it does sound like he was supposed to provide the room. As someone who has imported talent a few times, it is something I have done. But anyone with a brain travels for work with enough money or a credit card to get a taxi and a room with in case of issues. So if the woman is smart she will be fine.

You got me you fucking fucker. I completely concede your last point, I too like cunts. I do NOT like this little micro dick mother fucker.  

unbelievable   .. a lady contacts you to see if you would like to meet her ...  why does this require more than a yes no reply from you ?!??!     if your car dealership sent an email asking if you would like to buy a new one is that getting played ?  

... that she's not a screamer.

very well put !      loved that

You have been paying her for YEARS your words, for service. What?  now you expect her to be JUST YOURS?  

Don't agree.  Two reviews in two weeks is probably actually more high than low volume.  For every review there are probably 20 appointments.  That means that she might have seen 40+ guys over 7-8 days given that she surely didn't work every day.  

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There is no hard and fast rule about how many clients a providers sees for each review she receives.  

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