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Perhaps you are right. I am usually ok with discreet emails, but maybe its not accurate to say that all are ok with it. Sometimes after screening is done, the special requests are allowed. But its true, each has their own policy and perhaps it is correct to assume not to ask before.

Have any of you guys had a lady you were with use a female condom such as the linked product, either with an escort or otherwise?  If so, please post on how the sensation compares to wearing a male condom as well as unprotected sex.  Thanks.

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I original thought it's not that much difference. After experiencing it multiple times, I changed my mind. I am not sure whether it's how it's applied or it's lubricated. It feels different with different providers. Its feel ranges from slightly better to way better than male condom. If all else is the same then I will definitely see a provider who uses FC than one who uses male condom.

them. Just depends on the provider. If a guy wants to go down on you during sex, it's impossible. You have to remove the thing, then take 10 min. to insert a new one. For vaginal to anal sex though, they work amazing because you don't have to swap out anything, but again, I am not going to sit there with a flower looking garbage bag thing hanging out of both ends.

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Wow, reading your comment below almost made me think the guys are not paying YOU. I could see if you were in this for your own pleasure, but since you're the provider it seems you would want to do this simple thing that satisfies your client more fully.

Posted By: London Rayne
them. Just depends on the provider. If a guy wants to go down on you during sex, it's impossible. You have to remove the thing, then take 10 min. to insert a new one. For vaginal to anal sex though, they work amazing because you don't have to swap out anything, but again, I am not going to sit there with a flower looking garbage bag thing hanging out of both ends.

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whom I WANT to see. If a guy asks about female condoms and I decline, he is free to see someone who will use them. I don't know how that is a bad thing, when he can simply pass me by. FTR, in five years I have NEVER been asked about using one, so apparently it's not all that in demand. I am not going to use them...end of story. I will also not do BBFS or privates to privates massage, but according to you I should do whatever my client wants because afterall, your money buys you that? LMAO...yea, ok.

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If they are, I think you might be using them in the wrong place.

Posted By: Foodyguy
If they are, I think you might be using them in the wrong place.

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FC condoms are not the end-all/be-all that so many here claim. the reality is there are many negatives to FCs, starting with the fact that they are NOT made for every woman's shape. i have tried again and again, have even had my own gynecologist insert one (no i'm not ashamed!) and they just do not fit me properly. it is actually uncomfortable, borderline painful with that plastic ring thingie. then there is the lovely visual that London described so accurately...a flowery trash bag. the gents i see kind of like to see my rather cute pussy in all its glory as they defile it, and that just ain't happening with the FC. and oh, there is also the fact that they are not long-schlong friendly (and for some reason i get a lotta long schlongs).

so no, i would not use them with a client, and if anyone had an issue with that they are free to diddle someone else.

serpius415 reads

... the topic of female condoms have been very well discussed.

Use your 'Search' tab at the top of this page and you'll get a bunch of postings regarding this very topic.

Do your research.

Serpius

Posted By: HomerMarge
Have any of you guys had a lady you were with use a female condom such as the linked product, either with an escort or otherwise?  If so, please post on how the sensation compares to wearing a male condom as well as unprotected sex.  Thanks.

A bit awkward to put in and you can't move around too much. But there is no restriction on the man so he feels very comfy with them. They are also tidy to clean up after because a man can pull out and be clean and maybe even fall asleep. Men condoms there is always that time after sex when they have to take off a dirty condom - or we do it for them. Female condoms are just very clean, comfy, and maybe a bit more romantic.

but there are three down sides:

One, as mentioned above is the installation hassle - it takes a bit of doing to get it in right.

Another is that if you penetrate right away, it feels a bit on the cool side for a while.

I suggest having her install it early, and then wait several minutes before penetration.

Lastly, they cost quite a bit more.



And not all pharmacies carry them. They are more expensive then male condoms. Good idea about warming them up before. Its pretty easy actually to insert, The women squeezes the two sides of the ring inward to make a long thin way of inserting it. Once the ring is inside her, it expands again. WHen you are finished, you can do whatever you like, and she cleans herself up by just pulling on the outside and then disposes of it. Certainly not all providers offer this and some may be offended if you ask. Always best to ask before your appointment, to find her comfort level on this.

closest thing to bbfs. I've found if the provider your with has experience with FCs, insertion isn't an issue. I actually buy them at condomdepot.com. or undercovercondoms.com The more you spend the more you save at either site. Some Walgreens stores  stock them, but most do not. I normally don't bring it up before meeting with a provider.  If she has them great, if not, it's not a big deal. If I want to see her again then I'll tell her I'll bring them if she's up for trying them.

Most will just say yes or no. If they say no, then you will not have an awkward moment during the appointment when you may consider asking. Also many providers enjoy taking special requests, so letting them know in advance can give them time to prepare their best service for you. What can be awkward is bringing up the topic while you are actually with her. I would ask in advance and you could even put 'Female C" to be discrete in the email.

It is always said here to not discuss anything sexual by phone or email before you meet or you will get hung up on, or email deleted, and possibly put on a dns list! Talking about condoms sure sounds sexual to me. Your reply gere goes against the grain of what has been drilled into us for years! Maybe you are ok with it, but I'm mot sure "most" providers are.

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Perhaps you are right. I am usually ok with discreet emails, but maybe its not accurate to say that all are ok with it. Sometimes after screening is done, the special requests are allowed. But its true, each has their own policy and perhaps it is correct to assume not to ask before.

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Not even close to a regular condom. No stopping and starting..

They are wonderful.   simply wonderful.   I always have them and suggest using one with any partner I have.

I've only ran across Two people who have tried them before and didn't like them.   and my guess is they weren't used correctly maybe.  

I've found several sexxxy ways to insert them as well:  as I've found sucking on him while I'm doing it makes insertion so much hotter.  or so it seems.  :)    Or spread my legs and do a little show for him.....  there is something quite erotic about asking him to rub some lube on the outside of my lips.....then I slide the ring over my g-spot.....and knowing my partner is watching.....   oh my oh my....makes me shudder.  And then add a little more lube.    (using a bit extra lube is Essential for the Success of these)    

undercovercondoms dot com is a great place to get them.

or from me.   :)  

Wow, you make them sound so good I have to try...or maybe it's you that sounds so good...

They are great, especially when you use them with ME!!

Female condoms do feel very natural for the guy. Also a must try if doing doubles. Otherwise there are rubbers everywhere.
   That being said I do have to say I prefer the regular kind. They are so much easier to use.
Anyone who has used a female condom knows its not like putting on a sock. Plus they are not very pretty.


the two times I've used them both women said it was no different for them. The visual is not the best.but the are very easy to use. Also, going from oral to G's and back is nice and easy.

They are believed to prevent herpes and warts which male condoms don't do.

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