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Do you think we would get more honest
Panthera12 2795 reads
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appearance scores if the providers were permitted to pick their own?

JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 883 reads
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Are always going to vary. For gods sake Cameron Diaz used to show up on all the "hottest" women lists, the woman is a mutt!

Or is this just another in the hundreds of posts bitching about 10's? Because we certainly need to hear about that again.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1037 reads
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I tend to be the hardest on myself. I would never rate above a 7... maybe an 8 on a good day, right after Botox, tanning, and Juviderm in full makeup, with hair extensions. :) Right out of bed in the morning? 3 lol.

RRO2610 51 Reviews 779 reads
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If there is too be a 1 to 10 rating for "Appearance" it should be for the photography and it's fidelity to the subject.
If there are aficionados of the anorexic as well as BBW's a value added point system is totally ridiculous and meaningless.

1. 10 years & 25+ pounds ago maybe
2. Glamorized but realistic
3. Not the woman in the photos
4. Face/eyes obscured but body matches
5. Artfully posed but representative
6. What you see is totally what you get
7. Face/eyes obscured & body doesn’t match
8. Far from the truth
9. Very fair representation
10. Total Glamour shots using all the tricks

  No computer can "crunch" the above scores and respective meaning into a corruptable aggregate.

 
Posted By: Panthera12
appearance scores if the providers were permitted to pick their own?    
   
 

Back_In_Black 923 reads
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2. Yeah sure , its been awhile since I got laid ..( most girls )  
3. Damn she smoking hot ...( very few will get this 1 )  

It really is this simple ....!  
Posted By: Panthera12
appearance scores if the providers were permitted to pick their own?    
   
 

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 702 reads
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Dear Ms. Rayne:
Keep in mind, we don't like you for your looks, we like you for your exceptional cooking and for your generous hooking. Speaking of looks, that is why your agent is in talks with Vivid Radio for your own show in January which will discuss an inside look of an adult companionship professional and the complexities of that business. He knew that you would want the job because you have the autonomy to have an early morning look to you.  Now the next question is who will you have on your show from the boards?

Back_In_Black 834 reads
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On the bar and start dancing , .....;)......

Posted By: London Rayne
I tend to be the hardest on myself. I would never rate above a 7... maybe an 8 on a good day, right after Botox, tanning, and Juviderm in full makeup, with hair extensions. :) Right out of bed in the morning? 3 lol.

Dave76015 38 Reviews 789 reads
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If you compare the provider's self rating vs. the client rating and do a percentage, it may be something worthwhile.  But ratings are opinions, and like sphincters, we all have them and some of them are really, really bad

Dave76015 38 Reviews 831 reads
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My impression is that even after a wine, tequila and Jagermeister-fueled all-nighter,  you'd still be knocking the crap out of most mere mortal women in the good looks department at 6am.

0603450onThe 748 reads
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thinking along the same idea but why not take out the 'appearance' rating alltogether and replace it with another system that's not based on someone's 'interpretation'. It's just too varied according to personal preference and taste. Why not just let the guys state how hot she is in his review writeup as that is all on his opinion anyhow.

I personally don't know how reviews are submitted and such and what kind of questions you guys have to answer, but since 'beauty' is truly in the eyes of the beholder and this biz is not about who's the most gorgeous but who truly matches who they say they are etc etc...perhaps there's a way for TER to devise a rating system of questions about verifying what she looks like not based solely on someone's taste...I have no idea how that would go, but it's quick thought off the top of my head.  

But then again, reviews in general are all 'interpretation'.  

Tastes will always vary and I personally still don't know how you guys pick LOL out of all the lovely ladies out there........it must be impossible to go by 'appearance' scores with that in the back of your mind. And no one here is really 'perfect'. IMO, there is no such thing.

One's ugly duckling may be another's sleeping beauty.  

Have a good afternoon everyone ;)

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Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 939 reads
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ilovegfecim 758 reads
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That make it so subjective right?  I might say she is a 9-10 and the guy next to me might say 6-7.  I might like them chunky and the other guy might like really skinny women.  It all depends.   That's why it's really important to describe the women as best you can.  When you are ready to make contact with her...send a guy a PM that has posted a review and ask him his "real" thoughts on her.   YOu always get different responses behind the scenes.

captain7 987 reads
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For instance-  
$50 -$70 gal- 1 to 10 against her peers. (Not that I see any)
$75-$125- against her peers .,,,,etc
It is not fair to the ladies to judge a $50 provider to an $800 provider on a 1 to 10 scale and get a accurate picture of the goods.



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London Rayne See my TER Reviews 934 reads
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Look, I am good with all my flaws and weaknesses, and how I look is seriously the last thing that is ever going to get me farther in life... maybe farther in the hobby, but I won't be here til I die. I am "ok" and there is nothing wrong with that. There are parts of my body that are awesome, and parts that suck. I am cool with that ha ha.

Panthera12 830 reads
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I would book you even as a 4 (she just laid there). Then I could do anything I want with you. (j/k)

I really want you to tame the beast! ;)

Back_In_Black 826 reads
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I like your parts that "suck" xoxo....;)........n the others too ...;)......xoxo

Posted By: London Rayne
Look, I am good with all my flaws and weaknesses, and how I look is seriously the last thing that is ever going to get me farther in life... maybe farther in the hobby, but I won't be here til I die. I am "ok" and there is nothing wrong with that. There are parts of my body that are awesome, and parts that suck. I am cool with that ha ha.

Panthera12 1052 reads
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if I do all the appearance scores basted on my own high standards. Lets call it the Panthera formula. I will be waiting for your photos, "facials" included.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1006 reads
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All I know is you two dummies better make up in time for my meet and greet, because you're both invited lol. No fighting or fkin in my place either!

Dave76015 38 Reviews 922 reads
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Panthera12 858 reads
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I just can't seem to get the words out for some reason.

Meet and Greet? No sex at your Place? You really need a housewarming gift, dontcha?

captain7 1138 reads
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otherwise the hour turns into 2 minutes and rarely msog, not their problem, but mine. "She just laid there", but still was showing signs of life & enjoyment...moans, heavy breathing, ect. works best for  me because i get to control the tempo.

GreekDeprived 851 reads
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Might work foe vegetables and fruits...but, for women?  How often have you found and amazingly beautiful woman who didn't complain that.....something was to big or to small or not straight or too straight, or too long or too short.....?

And then, there are those who who cannot conceive how anyone in the world could be more beautiful than they are.

Huuuuuum. If a scale of 1-10 was used with the option of 11 if they were way above the most beautiful, we;d get to see who to stay away from! :-))
Deprived

Isla Jules See my TER Reviews 1001 reads
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3. I get it all the time!  

Posted By: Back_In_Black
2. Yeah sure , its been awhile since I got laid ..( most girls )  
 3. Damn she smoking hot ...( very few will get this 1 )  
   
 It really is this simple ....!  
   
Posted By: Panthera12
appearance scores if the providers were permitted to pick their own?      
     
   

Panthera12 938 reads
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And they were so hot that their performance didn't matter as much. They were mostly young and inexpierenced and inexpensive, but I am talking about the old CL days when gambles many times paid off.

0603450onThe 670 reads
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come 'south'...perhaps she'll invite you too cutie. ;)  

You can be 'my' date. Deal?

0603450onThe 796 reads
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I almost burned some I just had in the oven just now haha LOL. Mine are veggie of course ;) But maybe Panthera will treat me to the quintessential 'steak' dinner...but I don't like it rare mister. Medium please and only the finest of cuts...the filet of course ;)

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Panthera12 815 reads
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London has already offered to cook, and I would never step on a chef's toes. I guess that we will just have to eat whatever she prepares. Besides, it is the desert that has me more interested. I am importing some French whipped cream, and it's not for the pie ;) and I don't take no for an answer.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 974 reads
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I will handle the seafood and Italian. Booze are on you fkers. I can't even afford Gambler's alcohol bill, much less all of you others lol. I supply food, you get there and bring anything else.

CindySpice See my TER Reviews 677 reads
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For appearance rating -

1- not the girl in the photo  
2- looks almost like photo
3- looks exactly like photo  
4- looks better then her photo  
5 - WOW , I have no words .

This way each gent can evaluate for himself what the ladies "score" is in HIS eyes .
One man's 6 can be another man's 9.
Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder .

For whatever reasons if a gent gives a lady a 9 or 10 and you look at her photo and don't get it ...
Well then that is YOUR opinion .

Now yes I know there is a small flaw in my plan, because what if a lady doesn't have photos on her site or ads.........well geez do I have to think of everything ??? LOL LOL  

but if I must think, then for ladies who don't have photos rating can be -

1-  not what I expected  
2-  almost what I expected  
3-  exactly what I expected
4-  better then I expected  
5-  WOW I have no words.

but whatever rating system is used I don't understand why you guys get so bent out of shape over  
scores that gents decide to give ladies .
Most ladies have photos on their sites or ads.
YOU HAVE EYES - use them and decide for yourself .

on a side note - reason many ladies  (  I don't ) get bent out of shape about scores is because of "the list" which in my eyes is so ridiculous to begin with.......but that is a separate issue .

and while gents say - 7 is a great score ........for the most part when they do a criteria search or make a ISO post they usually use 8-10 .

so if a ladies average is less then an 8 , she won't show up in search.
and gents may be missing out on wonderful ladies because they were rated a 7.........but then again it brings it back to this 7 . In who's eyes is the rating 7 .
Because the lady isn't a size zero she is a 7 ? because the lady is over 35 then she is a 7 ??

News flash just because someone is skinny and 20 doesn't make her a 10 .

Oh and to all of the gents bitching about ladies photo retouching .........don't forget playboy's , supermodels , actress , singers , they ALL retouch their photos .
Just google - "Britney Spears photoshop"  
Supermodels , Celebrities EVERYONE has flaws . No body has a perfect body !  

geez really some of you really need to get over it !
xoxo CindySpice

0603450onThe 803 reads
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what I was making for supper for you know who ;)  

I expect only the best on the menu from Chef London. I tend to prefer the hors'deourves and dessert myself with a nice cocktail...I may skip the main course LOL...too filling ;).  

 

 

 
and yes (I'm playing ;)

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Back_In_Black 764 reads
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Bet u never thought u were a 3 huh ?? Lmao .....xoxo....;).....

Posted By: Isla Jules
3. I get it all the time!  
   
Posted By: Back_In_Black
2. Yeah sure , its been awhile since I got laid ..( most girls )    
  3. Damn she smoking hot ...( very few will get this 1 )    
     
  It really is this simple ....!    
     
Posted By: Panthera12
appearance scores if the providers were permitted to pick their own?      
       
   

Panthera12 633 reads
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I still think the best solution is to allow me to rate the providers myself. It will be on a template that can't be changed.  

Only one person really answered my question though. Noticeably absent are the TER rated 10's that won't come out and admit that they are really 7's 8's and the hobbyists who think that Rosie O'donnell is model material.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 829 reads
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LOL. Nah uh. I said I was only a 7. I can't help it if they give me a 10 after a bottle of Vodka lol.

1192967 45 Reviews 794 reads
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Posted By: Panthera12
 
  Only one person really answered my question though. Noticeably absent are the TER rated 10's that won't come out and admit that they are really 7's 8's and the hobbyists who think that Rosie O'donnell is model material.    
If you randomly asked a women to rate herself assuming you got past her suspicions about why you're asking you would likely get an accurate number. You might find she would rate herself lower than you would. (Would you question it's accuracy in that case?) However as soon as it's tied to the purposes of TER she would be influenced by the purpose of the rating. Not to say that she would automatically say she is a 10 but she's going to put herself in the best light possible and rate herself a bit higher than her honest answer. It's only natural to do so. The perception is it will have an effect on her business.  

I don't think this means none of them would give you an honest answer. (I assume your definition of honest answer is one that agrees with you.) London clearly says she isn't a 10. Some would disagree. They rated her a 10. It would be interesting to hear her reasons compared to theirs.

I will also take this time to agree with CandySpice when she says

 This: One man's 6 can be another man's 9.
Beauty is really in the eye of the beholder .
 
 and this: For whatever reasons if a gent gives a lady a 9 or 10 and you look at her photo and don't get it ...Well then that is YOUR opinion .  

 and this: but whatever rating system is used I don't understand why you guys get so bent out of shape over  scores that gents decide to give ladies .Most ladies have photos on their sites or ads.
YOU HAVE EYES - use them and decide for yourself .  

and this: geez really some of you really need to get over it !

0603450onThe 639 reads
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this involves a cat bath? If so, perhaps I'll consider it. However, I will have you know, I'm not very good at taking orders...;)

0603450onThe 762 reads
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rating system as I stated before or with as 'little interpretation' as possible. Awesome Cindy. I hope TER considers the suggestions in this post. Maybe it should be moved under suggestion & policy.  

Change is good :)

Panthera12 914 reads
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However, I think there would be less 10's in appearance if the providers rated themselves. Obviously there would be exceptions for those with goldenpussyitis and prima donna attitudes.  

This "beauty in the eye of the beholder" is largely bullshit and it is used as an excuse and for justification. To a certain extent it is understandable, but sorry, some of the cattle are covering their brands and borrowing lipstick from pigs and a lot of hobbyists are just acting like sheep.

Dave76015 38 Reviews 770 reads
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So I'g going to toss this out.
When we develop our ideas of self confidence, it's usually when we're little kids.  I can only speak for myself, but during that time, I was the prematurely tall bean pole kid, with Bugs Bunny teeth.  Then came the braces and some face pizza in Jr. High.  Set my self confidence to a sub-sea level location going into HS.  Ended up being the stoner brainy kid on the swim team, hanging out with the science geeks, occasionally working up the nerve to ask someone out.  

Years later, there is still the deep seated fear of the the pimply dorky kid with self confidence issues.  While I may think of myself of a 5 or so, too many non-provider women have told me they consider me an 8, but add a really warped sense of humor and personality, they go to 9.  Certain provider friends I've known for a while, have told me that if they add in certain talents they really love, then its well over 9.

And I still think that my self-inflicted 5 is charity on my part.  That's my contribution to the world of pop psychology BS

Dave76015 38 Reviews 625 reads
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PM me and I'll send you a photo. I'd love to get your thoughts and feedback to report back here.  Strictly for research, unless you like what you see!!!  In them big science words, it is a Request For Proposal, not a Request For Proposition, because that would not be legal...

Dave76015 38 Reviews 680 reads
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I'd volunteer to provide wine, cocktails and desert.  Iron Chef London already cracked my head on my Fishy-Pop recipe.

robsul2004 124 Reviews 1039 reads
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Cameron Diaz rates 10 in my book!

Posted By: JoeBanzai
Are always going to vary. For gods sake Cameron Diaz used to show up on all the "hottest" women lists, the woman is a mutt!  
   
 Or is this just another in the hundreds of posts bitching about 10's? Because we certainly need to hear about that again.

CindySpice See my TER Reviews 775 reads
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UT , beauty is REALLY in the eye of the beholder !! It is not BS and it is not an excuse .

Here is an example - someone mentioned in this thread that Cameron Diaz is a 10 ...
Sorry not in my book . Not even a 9 .

now Sofia Vergara that is what I call a 10 !!!!!!!  

Many women would say Brad Pitt is a 10 ....... not in my book .

And for many personality adds that extra something to the looks ........probably with out them  even realizing that is what they are doing.

I can see someone and at first sight he/she look like a 10 ,  when he/she opens their mouth  
that 10 all of a sudden turns to a 7 or 8 .
Or someone can look like a 8 and he/she opens their mouth , or just the way they carry themselves . confident ( not cocky ) sexy ........and I can see a 10 .

Hence why beauty is in the eye of the BEHOLDER ! NO BS , NO excuse .

appearance/beauty  is more then just a shallow shell .
That is MY opinion. Everyone can have THEIR opinion ......
That is why I say - use your OWN eyes and own judgment .  

xoxo CindySpice

 
 
Posted By: Panthera12
However, I think there would be less 10's in appearance if the providers rated themselves. Obviously there  would be exceptions for those with goldenpussyitis and prima donna attitudes.  
   
 This "beauty in the eye of the beholder" is largely bullshit and it is used as an excuse and for justification. To a certain extent it is understandable, but sorry, some of the cattle are covering their brands and borrowing lipstick from pigs and a lot of hobbyists are just acting like sheep.    

CindySpice See my TER Reviews 753 reads
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*blush blush*  Thank you sista !!  and to all the sista's who support me .

Always love your posts ....... great minds think alike ;-)  

xoxo CindySpic

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