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Providers how do you handle a very strong client ?
AnyOneNormalAnymore 4716 reads
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One of the things that I enjoy in my spare time is lifting weights and exercising. I also enjoy alot of walking and outdoor activities such as camping. The benifit of this activity allows me to enjoy sex more. I notice that my SO and the providers that I see have some incrediable orgasims. Some have had a squirter experience the first time they met me.

I try to make sure there is plenty of foreplay before having sex. Just about all the providers can handle 2 rounds of fun. When the 3rd round comes sometimes I have to stop because the provider gets to tired.

There are other guys who are phyiscal like me. We are told we have too much sex or expect too much. I have been told that I am a challenge. Others have told me that they had to go home and soak.

I know when I was on my honeymoon I lost count of how many times I had sex in 1 day. Sometimes I get a laugh when the provider realizes that I won't cum with a BBBJ right away. They put the cover on mount me cowgirl and go to town.

I have noticed that sometimes these weaker providers will do tricks to delay the start of fun because they can't handle 3 sessions in 3 hours.

In many instances the providers who had a hardtime tell me they are going back to gym. I think they realize that strength gives them more power to pleasure.

Do you recommend that I only book a 2 hour appointment with the weaker type of provider ? Only book 3 or more hour appointments with providers who lift weights are in good physical condition.

You may think you're a superstar in the bedroom but you're not that out of the ordinary, 3 times in 3 hours is not so unusual and most men don't come straight away with BBBJ.

Maybe you should have brought an abacus with you on honeymoon.

Tig Ole Bitties2820 reads

I don't know how close you are to me but I welcome the challenge. >:-) May I suggest you have a driver waiting outside? Even better an ambulance though I do know CPR. (blushes).

AnyOneNormalAnymore2419 reads

Thanks for the feedback. I guess it depends on where one hobbies and the expectations. Around some of these cities in the US you have alot of old guys that don't demand so much in terms of performance for the providers. When a provider meets someone in good condition they are shocked. I have meet some scandinavian type providers in the upper midwest and they had not problems running out of gas for 3 hours or more. That was another interesting about BBBJ.

Buddy Rydell2710 reads

Your closet door is wide open now, step out into the light son. Its a whole new day

Oh for christ sakes...

We can all fuck without lifting weights.
I dub this first lame post of 2006

AnyOneNormalAnymore3945 reads

Not a lame post. It is a simple matter of doing cardo work 4-5 days a week. Just walking for 30-45 minutes a day can help make those kegel muscles stronger. There was some sex in the city show on HBO that gave women instruction on how to make those kegel muscles stronger.


Trysters have written about guys who have really amazed them here.  It hasn't happened often, but they have.  Back in spring 2004, one extraordinary "strong" lady wrote about a three-some she had with another provider and a client.  She said he came quickly, within five minutes, with ejaculation, and got hard again so she could finish, and then he came again. He kept going at that rate with both of them till late in the night, woke up with one of them in the middle of the night for more, and in the morning did more with both of them, with orgasms and ejaculations.

Please keep in mind it's your hired lady's job to make you feel as good as possible.  This includes compliments.  When she posts about you on the boards, you know she's really impressed.    







3 times if 3 hours? Big deal. This guy has to validate himself here. We all know that. But, it's okay. We're all here for various reasons. Hobbyists and providers alike and we all want to be stroked, (no pun intended) in some way or another.

It isn't about strength at all. It's about intimacy and sharing.

Anneke


Though it is a sweet way to go insane, darling!  It's not that ladies will say things that are untrue, it's more like the guys mind could magnify the compliment according to how good looking she is and how much regard he has for her.  

A guy should just be skeptical enough that three times in three hours doesn't become overblown in his own mind and just somewhat ordinary sounding to everyone else.  

That being said, I'll be the first to tell him three times in three hours is pretty good.  It's well on the high side of curve.  



BackDoorGirl1761 reads

My ex hubby is a professional bodybuilder and my boyfriend of the past 4 years is also a bodybuilder with lots of titles under his belt.
Strong guys can fuck forever and they don't huff & puff like other guys do.
I think my ability to handle long fucks is because my SOs can go for hours without cumming.
I can have few appointments during the day/evening and after fuck my bf for 2 or 3 hours without any problems.
The fact that he does 3 times in 3 hours is because he fucks a whole hour, then cum, fuck another whole hour, then cum, and fuck another whole hour and cum again.
Is not the number of times he cums but is how long he needs to fuck to cum.
Many women, civvy & pros, cannot handle guys like these.
I call these type of guys "the fuckers". They are not the kind to lay back and get a lame bj and a bit of CG and be done. They are exhausting and after fucking them for few hours, all the muscles in the body hurts like hell.
I have many clients that books me because they are fuckers and need to do a whole lot to cum.
Fuckers also do NOT cum thru bjs. Is very rare and I also get booked because I can make them cum thru oral too.
So, I believe he is NOT bragging. He's a "fucker". Men like him are hard to handle and they have difficulty in finding a woman who can satisfy their needs.

annalee2911 reads

ive known blokes who dont work out and have great strength...ive dated bodybuilders and power lifters(by far a powerlifter is stronger in all aspects of the bedroom)...but i dont think you can label blokes simply by the muscle mass how many times they can cum or how long they can perform in bed...for me, im a very strong woman physically(too strong ive been told, not a great character trait in this field, but my strength is my strength, and NO im not bragging, i hate it actually!!!!!!!!!!) sorry i digress(it comes with age lol) bottomline is it makes no difference (my opinion) ive had both, hard bods and not hard bods hahahah

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Actually, if you really think you're exhausting to some women, just ask the provider who you are interested in seeing, because she will either turn you down or prepare for monsoon season. Wink! I probably wouldn't turn you down but then I could use some good aerobics.

Hugs,
Ciara

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Church Lady2684 reads

And perhaps two brazen hussies such as yourself could explain who gave you those callouses on your backsides? Could it be   SATAN??

It prevents callouses from Satin!  Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

Who could it be ? Could it be SATAN ?
How conveeeenient

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annalee3497 reads

well ive dated bodybuilders, powerlifters, trainers..i had a thing for hard bods..smiling..BUT bottomline,(my opinion only!!!!)...i dont see how that makes a big difference, perhaps a little difference but ive been with blokes who have never set foot in a gym or any kind of sports and can go all night...i think it depends on the bloke and as far as ladies..for me, im extremely strong physically can work out for hrs at the gym and the dojo(not bragging) making a point..those blokes can out do me for sure...hey all the power to them and those ladies who can go hr after hr after hr...maybe its my age...hahahaha...

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MainlineGuy2990 reads

Get over yourself!(and enable your spellcheck LOL!!)

things in the bedroom has never been in excellent shape, because it makes a huge difference, be you male or female. Yes, you should see women who lift and work out a lot. I would suggest discussing your situation with prospective ladies on the phone prior to booking, and booking with female body builder types if possible, because the closer in fitness level a woman is to your own, the more likely she'll be able to match your athletic bedroom antics. I was going to pm this to you since the thread is old, but since you used an alias, I guess I have to put it on the board.

Edited to add that I am NOT saying you can only have great sex if you are in peak physical condition. You absolutely can. But any of you out there who have been in amazing shape at any point in your life can compare what you were able to do, if only purely logistically, with what you are able to do when less fit, and you know what I am saying here.

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