I always pop by way of the BJ.  My ATF and I don't even bother with straight sex a lot of the time.  We both have oral fixations!  The condom makes it pretty much impossible for me to cum during normal intercourse. I enjoy nothing more than a lady pulling the condom off and finishing me in her mouth!

I usually only pop once anyhow, and I like to start with a BBJ, possibly followed by DATY, then sex for twenty minutes or so, and finishing with more BBJ with a CIM ending.

because I love BJ's.  I've had plenty of sessions where their was no sex.  Nothing against sex, I just really like blow jobs.

I'd say that 50% of the time I get off by BJ and half the time during FS.

Often I do one of each in a two hour session.

Naomi, you and I would get along ideally. If you would come to Vegas on my next trip I would be a very happy man.

I have found two providers in Vegas who really have taken the time to see that my oral fantasy was completely satisfied. They know that giving is equally important to me as a phenomenal finish while receiving.

I have found that most ladies get tired or bored after the first five minutes or so of giving or receiving and are ready to move on to a more relaxed doggy or Mish position while awaiting a more laid back end result.

If there is a Vegas provider seriously interested in going the oral marathon with me in October..... I'm all ears.

You are on my must see list.  Your profile indicates you provide in Cleveland and have no webpage currently.  Are you planning to visit Boston?  Let us know when you get a webpage up.



"I love to give BBBJ's and can seriously suck the entire session."

I love to give BBBJ's and can seriously suck the entire session.  But I occasionally get a gentleman who complains he doesnt want a BJ he wants sex - but I seriously think sex doesnt require much skill - just a warm body.

So I am asking - providers as well as hobbiests - if you can only pop once - which way would you prefer?

I typically book sessions of 2 hours or more for this very reason. I think I actually do prefer BJ's over sex BUT, I feel something has been left out if no 'real sex' is involved.

PS...If you think there is no skill to sex, maybe you should stick to BJ's. Every woman I have been with feels different in some way. There are many ways a woman (or man) can enhance the sexual experience.

Well, it depends on how I am feeling. If I am tired and just want to relax and do nothing, then I prefer a BBBJ. Sex does require skills and endurance [i.e. "motion in the ocean"], and the wanting of the warm feel of the great pussy. Pussy to me is so unique, its one of those things my dick cannot live without. Anyways, if I pay to see a provider, and depending on my mood, I would definitely go for the pussy, take it out and have CIM. Why even bother choosing, you can have it both ways. But in all honesty, BBBJ if I am tired and don't have the energy to perform. It's usually the pussy for sure, because its an absolute magnificent thing to feel, its like nothing that can compare to it. I would say, pussy feels much better than BBBJ, its just my opinion, and I have had some great and wonderful BBBJ's, but there is nothing that can compare to the pussy.

BBBJ/CIM. And sometimes I pop twice that way. However, the fact that you think sex only requires a warm body speaks volumes about you.

BJ's are down on my list. Maybe as part of 69, but I much prefer intercourse.

"but I seriously think sex doesnt require much skill - just a warm body"

???? Being polite, but are you serious????

With dozens of basic positions and literally hundreds of subtle and not-so-subtle variations of touch, pressure, angles to be explored while journeying towards orgasm, I'd say it requires much more skill to make it exciting. Granted a woman can just lay there, but with sex, you get out of it what you put into it. Areas to grow in that require learning: shared breathing, sensual touch, "Slowgasms" (my term for when a man just barely thrusts, or a woman barely moves when in cowgirl, and builds to an explosive orgasm), and the like.

Much more variety in sex if the couple are willing to invest time in learning about themselves and their Lovers.

haven't come from a BJ with SO or friends for the last...oh how long. Definitely the more intimate choice

Depending on the lady I am with, some have extraordindary oral skills (and that may have been why I went and saw her), while others I don't want to waste any energy other than on as many postions that I can muster.  Some gals are made for cowgirl, while others..are made for cowgirl (or reverse cowgirl).

Today I had my gal pal just suck me a tad, and then I had to just spend an inordinate amount of time in DATY.  And depending on the gal (and this one in particular due to the lips that she has) are just so much fun to DATY with (and that really turns me on). Once I can get her to a point that she is either squirming and can't take any more...then I like to have her get on for cowgirl (I would venture to say that is my favorite postion...ya think?).

Sorry that you think that all sex requires is a warm body. The reason I ventured into the hobby was to disprove that theory.  And with ALL of the gals I have seen thus far...your comments couldn't be further from the truth (IMHO).  But I did see a gal like you a year ago and that was a nice time..but not something that would bring me back for a second go around.

With one girl I frequent I look forward to the bbbjcim.with another I think I have forgone a bj the  last 2 times and I could care less the sex is so good.

Def the BBBJ. My wife recently called a unilateral end to that activity, not that her hummers were any good to begin with. And maybe a half-and-half for the second pop...

I apoologize I didnt mean to imply that sex requires the girl to just lay there.   I know there are some providers who can probably really rock your world out there with sex -  but I have found that even if the guy (or girl) doesnt have a clue what they are doing - they can still manage sex.

sex just requires having working equipment, and a willing partner - skilled or unskilled.

A really good bj requires some focus and some energy on the part of the giver, all the reciever has to do is enjoy himself.

I dont like condoms but wont have sex without one, but give me dick au natural and I am in heaven.

anyway skills or no skills, the real question I had was if you had to choose between sex and a bj, which one would you choose.  (Yay for you guys who can go two or three rounds btw)

..... i'm also greedy so give a little of both lol.

bbbj is great. I want one and I've finished (CIM) that way once or twice but for me it's intercourse to finish.

no plans to visit Boston, if you ever get somewhere near Cleveland let me know.

website changed, I sent new web link to admin so should be up soon.  PM me if you want link.

I definitely prefer Sex, I have only had two women bring me off with BBBJ and one is my SO. Most times before the little blue pill I would actually go soft during a BBBJ. So most of the time I stick to sex unless the woman is extremely talented in BBBJ which I find extremely rare.

Despite your contention that this doesn't require much skill, some of us are looking for the skin-on-skin contact and physical closeness with the woman we are with that only sex can provide.  That's not to say I don't enjoy BBBJ, trust me , I do!  But, I would rather this be part of the foreplay of a great GFE rather than the finale.  Just stating my personal preference...

Though sex is good, a good bj is an art form.  So I have to go with that if I had to choose.  Personally, variety is the spice of life.   I can go either way as long as my oral fixations are met.

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I perfer a BBBJ and licks and sucking on my balls.  THe best is with two providers....One taking your cock deep in her mouth and one licking, sucking, and playing with your balls.  That is AWESOME!!!!