ok so i recently posted about the growing acceptance of obesity ...  lets go in the other direction ... say you found a woman whose figure was perfect in your eyes.     if you had to choose, would you rather she lost 10 lbs or gained 10 lbs..  

me prefer gained. after all i wouldn't want someone so thin that when i shift my weight ... i fall off !    

Then why would I want her to add the  +/- 10lbs..🤔🤔🤔

I will take 10 lbs of muscle! I don't have a set weight for perfect. So I am sure 10 lbs of muscle would still be perfectly fine.

two choices.  If she does either of these and I don't like the result, I will just walk away.  

My first choice is model-thin. Second is sexy-strong. Tried super thin/skinny and didn't enjoy as much as I thought I would.

Since my better half has been battling for her life and not able to eat for the last 3 years I realize having a few extra pounds is healthy.  

I am fit AF, but skinny never.

silly ,.... the point was .. if it HAD to happen . . which way would you prefer it did.    these days with large derrieres in style i was guessing prefer gained ... but i wonder how much do guys really prefer these oversized backsides these days.

Then add 5lb to each boob and we’re good

a man after my own heart!   perfect answer   ( reminder nevertoolarge refers to my breast fetish )  

I get the likes for the comment and did get a grin from reading it. But personally I'm much more about proportionality so that really would not work for me and my preferred body type.  

I will say one of my AFTs, no longer working sadly, once confessed "my problem is I get fat all over" meaning that when she put on wight if was not just in her abs or hips or thighs (or even boobs). At the time she was "soft" but hardly one that looked fat -- still would have attracted a lot of positive glances in a bikini at the beach. But she then dieted (or saw a doctor for lipo) and the last few times I saw her she was maybe 8-10 lbs lighter and could easily been a swimsuit or sports model.

If all the fat was on her abs or something I probably would not have found her nearly as physically attractive in that state. As it was, with the distribution being all over it really made little difference. I think if she were to drop 10 lbs from her really fit state she might have started looking a be unhealthy rather than hotter.

In her case a little more is not problem, a little less I'm not sure about so I am happy with a bit more. But I also think that ends up depending on the details and the assumptions I have about how that added weight shows up if I were to generalize that to all cases.

Sheer perfection 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗