For example:  

Including all requested info as stated on the website should be a no brainer. It’s totally a reasonable request.
Now, I’m new to this, and I find it odd that a woman who will do all sorts of sexual activities, and claim GFE, will not DFK. I would think that would be assumed as central to a passionate encounter. Call me old fashioned, but I really love the passionate kissing that leads up to amazing sex.  
I know way more about human biology, infectious disease, and human bio flora to believe that DFK is as hazardous as other practices.

Hookers asking for all the information.. We provide them all the information including references and even mark the calendar for a potential date.. Then she goes ahead and cancels the tour.  Not only it is frustrating because I didn't get the pussy I was looking for, but from logistics point of view what a waste of time and energy, and we just ended up bothering two /three  ladies for no reason to vouch for us.   This is not hypothetical situation I am painting.. Has happened multiple times.  In DC we no longer have quality independents like we used to, so have to rely on visiting providers.

to respectful, complete inquiries for scheduling a session, using an appropriate channel. This includes P411.  If the provider’s P411 profile says that requests via P411 are ok, I assume it’s ok to send requests that way. (I follow up via direct email in 24 hours if no response to P411 requests,  in case she’s OOO and has an auto-response on her email about it.)

I have the same reaction. No response, does it mean not interested? Who knows?

All arrangements have been confirmed.  Ladies usually tour at least 30 miles away.  I get to hotel parking lot on time and text for the room number.  I wait, and wait.  Text again with no answer.  Finally I get the room number 15-20 min. late.

Hmmmm, where have I heard that before?…  
🤔

I think the #1 pet peeve would be if you reach out and you don't even get a response from the provider.

I am not new to the world of seeing escorts, I’ve met well over 100 ladies and I’ve had a lot of experiences, both good and bad. But, here’s what peeves me. I read a lady’s website entirely, respond completely, and send it along and no response. Or, once a response is finally received, it takes days to finalize details due to long delays in responses from the lady.  These days I don’t have a lot of opportunities to see someone and I have to plan ahead. So, if you are not available or don’t want to see me, I want to move along to someone else. I never send requests to more than one lady at a time.   Similarly, if a lady is on P411, I expect a response to an appointment request. If more info is needed, then respond with a request.  

No GFE=No DFK

I totally agree. A response is warranted. Please acknowledge me. Respectable.

Omg yes I know how it feels to be exposed. She had other appointments in order to tour & pay all the expenses. Sorry. I wish they just took the time to be honest & let you know my lady appointment ran late. I will make it up to you darling!

When I go onto your website, not only should the pictures look like you but the attitude and English proficiency should reflect you.

Being 10-15 minutes late and then rushing me because an escort booked 60 or 90 minute appointments back to back with no time in between clients, and never allowing any margin of error!  Also Texting in front of a client is also extremely rude!

And when they don’t understand if it takes time to respond.

Not showing up at all or making me wait especially since I always book days in advance.  Also, ladies that use out dated pictures and haven't kept the lean body they had in their twenties.  So thank goodness for TER.  Many guys have stopped me from making big mistakes.  I've also decided if their looks are not what I thought or saw then I give them a few bucks and say sorry and leave. I also think it's nice to get the likes and dislikes out of the way upfront as not to happen during play time.

Perfume and scented oils.  
The S.O. picks up on the slightest scent.
It’s baffling how many providers are oblivious to this. Typically why I see new providers in the morning. It allows all day for the scent to dissipate.

Growing trend of Full Bare Service.  Several ladies I wanted to see or agencies I had wanted to visit that I must take off my list.  Amazing the sites where it is actually advertised.  I may just be getting old but really don't understand. PReP is not the end all be all to everything.

One of my biggest pet peeves are when a provider puts in an ad and a hobbyist thinks that he can get a cheaper price. Now, I get that we went through the covid deal, but life goes on and we all got to be careful. But being cheap is not part of the deal. If you (The Hobbyist) does not have the full amount of what any of the providers are asking then wait and save up your money (And resort to lotion & porn).  
   The second is when the hobbyist sets a date and does not show.  

Perhaps it's just that people are willing to advertise it openly now? BBFS was always the "third rail" of this game and no one would admit they did it. It was always everybody else.

Risky behavior is it's own reward and I don't mean in a good way.

Pics being 10 years old and 30 pounds ago. Heavily photoshopped.

I don't wanna hear about other clients. I genuinely don't care, and it's sure as hell not what I'm paying you for.

I forgot the perfume issues in my post.  You are so right.  

My biggest pet peeve is fellas not reading my ad that says SCREENING IS MANDATORY then they get mad at me when I send them my screening requirements or they simply ghost me. I've heard every argument one can bring against sending the info and been offered everything but what I've asked for. It's not rocket science and I haven't been a top provider in my town for as long as I have by scamming clients using their private information.  It's a safety measure. Period.

She is not bitching about past clients.. She is campaigning for Ms TER  Fall 2022

-- Modified on 11/6/2022 8:34:24 PM

My biggest pet peeve is arriving at a hotel room to find a provider that looks nothing like her photos.  Nothing annoys me more.  

you can catch any one of 109 communicable diseases, but if you eat her pussy, the most you can catch is 12.  I could be off by a few, but I don't think so.  I have one troll here that will spend hours looking it up in hopes I'm wrong.  He is welcome.  I'm not really that invested in the numbers, just the point.  

As long as the provider's ad has a form of description of what screening is involved.  Some providers just say screening is required but aren't specific.  I contacted one provider once asking for a date.  She said she wanted a bunch of personal information and I told her I'm sorry I don't give that out.  She then told me I'm a time waster because I didn't read her ad about screening.  I was prepared with references, p411, etc.

Personally, I don’t love being frequently asked about other providers and our personal relationships. I am always happy to connect clients with my friends/colleagues, but it’s uncomfortable to feel like they are being used in a fantasy when we could simply be having a duo or group date.

Well what do you think the screening is going to be??? Most screening is the same from what I've seen. What have you experienced?

If a lady is on P411 I always message there first and politely introduce myself because almost every one I've seen accepts membership with okays alone for screening. I never had an issue doing it this way.

Some providers consider two recent references as adequate screening.  They understand not everyone is willing to reveal personal information.  

Or did you have it surgically removed?
That joke would have been bad enough if you'd made it up yourself.
But you were dumb enough to steal it?
Poor Fester.
Go back to the chopsticks riff.

My biggest pet peeve is this hobby isn't as much fun anymore.
  Unfortunately this country and it's political divide is also dividing this hobby. The amount of predators both providers and clients must protect themselves against has left us at a standoff. Providers are concerned over safety and rightfully so. Clients are concerned about identity theft, blackmail etc etc.  
  So policies are implemented on both sides. Then rather than understanding and compromising some we just complain about each other. Pushing client and providers farther apart, prices are raised, deposits are required, budgets are exceeded, deposits are stolen. Yet we just point fingers. This makes many first interactions very business like. Finding a welcoming bubbly first interaction is increasingly harder to find on both sides. Providers get annoyed then go silent and clients get turned off and ghost. And here we are trying to figure out what makes each other tick while standing on opposite sides of a closed door. We each should be allowed policies both provider and client alike. But along with that needs to be some understanding. We are ALL swimming in a sea of sharks.

I don't think it's because of the "political divide" in the country as a whole. I think it's just the natural ebb and flow of change in general as well as FOSTA/SESTA and the decline of TER's influence combined with the rise of Twitter. Most of the rest of it is simply newer versions of the same old stuff.

I have only been in the hobby 2 years but have wasted time and missed an alternate opportunity 3 times when I show up on time but the provider won’t see me because she made communication mistakes or was overly nervous.

I hate these types of phrases when a provider uses them to describes oneself. It comes off as extremely pompous and indicates those words are their only personality. They are luxurious, decedent, opuelent, etc. What are you a jewelery commercial?

Housekeeping is a normal hotel issue.  

Too much make up

It happens all the time and I hate this.  You get to the iincall, text the provider you've parked and are at the location.  She makes you wait for 15 minutes before she gives you entry code, room # etc.  By the time you get to her room, 20 minutes are already gone from your 1 hour incall.  If your appt. is at 2pm, she boots you out at 3 pm with no consideration for the fact she made you wait for her.  Then the Provider complains be discreet and don't be so noticeable while you're waiting for her.
You ask the Provider for general location of her incall.  Major intersection is good enough.  But she waits until a couple of hours before your appt. to tell you general location.  Am I the only one who drives in LA and knows that traffic is a mess.  An accident, construction detours, any odd occurence can screw up your travel time.

1.  Providers that talk in a little girl/teenager affected voice.  The ones that giggle continuously when they talk pretty much ruin the session for me before it even begins.  This is one of the major reasons that I stopped seeing providers that were in their 20s completely.  FWIW, I tend to gravitate towards providers in their late 30s -50s and have never had an issue with this. I want a god damn WOMAN- not a pipsqueak /  

Did you drink a shot after every peeve you wrote?  It sure seems like you did because by the time you got to #7 you seemed to be quite hammered.

Where is it?

Your first point trigger a thought and add on.  

I actually liked the joke.. I'd like it more if it weren't stolen, but at least he didn't take credit for it..

I kind of like to get into the animal spirit of sex.  So it is really distracting when a provider starts asking questions, since you have to come out of your zone to think about the answer.  I had one really chatty provider early on and though she was fun and everything, I remember being annoyed by her stream of questions -- about everything.  I always had to start thinking about the answer and stop thinking about the sex.  

The thing that really bugs the crap out of me are providers that stay in control (or try to) for the duration of the appointment.  A little control is okay but when it's strong enough for me to sense it in any way, I usually go limp. I put it in the same category as being mechanical.  Sure, I never lose sight of the fact that it's a business transaction, but when you're paying top dollar for an escort, at least do your best to try and make it seem somewhat real.  I just recently did an overnight with someone I had only been with once before and the first appointment was I think 3-4 hours.  That went well enough for me to ask for the overnight.  The o/n was a different story.  It was almost like she clocked in and clocked out at precisely the 12 hours we had agreed upon.  She consistently gets top reviews but I doubt that I'll ever see her again for these reasons.

When a provider pulls out midway while CIM, is a huge pet peeve of mine.  Cum goes all over the place and I don't feel completed.  Then the loud throat clearing in the bathroom with mouth wash.  I just roll my eyes, as the last one is an advertised BB provider in another area, but GFE here.  Great service all the way until just before the end.  Just say you don't do it.  F me.  

Thought of 2 more:  
1.  Black and White photos - I get it's artsy, but I can't see shit;
2.  Shitty websites.  

shit presents as dark grey, but most ladies avoid having it in their photos.  This may be why you don't see it.  

1) Ladies who make a big deal out of being "upscale" and "professional" .. then don't hold up their end of the deal.
     I started in this hobby where B&S, Fake Photos, Upsells, Badger Game were part and parcel of the risk. That's why I started with street action, where what you see is what you get, and any bad vibes or hassles, on to the next.

I would very much agree about the decline of TER’s influence.  An established hobbyists and providers had an enjoyable and very useful level of credibility.  It worked very well for me to visit other cities and a lady I was interested in seeing could simply check me out, my reviews and even pm known providers back home for quick reference.  In MPLS we had a LOT of participating providers on our board and it was incredible.  

Honey.  These are pet peeves.  If you don't want to CIM, just say no.  

By peeve has been poor communication skills & bad attitudes w/ agency screeners. They complain about people wasting their time but don't say what they need up front & aren't clear when they finally get to the point.    

Well, there is a first time for everything. I had a less than acceptable experience with a provider, and wrote an honest review, actually being as kind as possible. Soon after, I got blowback from her about how if I wasn’t happy I should have just said nothing about it and not booked her again. Then she showed me a screenshot of some app where she called me an old man and said I talk too much. LOL I guess if she hadn’t showed me I wouldn’t have known.  But she sure read my review. So, my irritation is that providers can read our reviews, but they can slam us on some app that only they know about. Joke is on her for showing me though. I found out the app, and one of my atf providers posted her opinion of me there.

"When a provider pulls out midway while CIM, is a huge pet peeve of mine.  Cum goes all over the place and I don't feel completed. "

Personally, I prefer to pull out a jerk it all over her.  Nothing sexier than a lady with a beautiful face with a stream of cum dripping off her chin onto her tits.  

1) Using outdated Pics in your ads. Everyone has a camera on their phone - no excuse not to update your pics annually, as your current appearance is part of your brand.  

I know at different points over the several years I've trapsed in and out of this side of the industry,  more and more girls were offering bbfs to keep up with the competition and less clients through out covid.

In addition to many previously stated, providers phones ringing constantly during the session; major distraction.  

1st reason is you can get sick faster after kissing 10 guys in a week. Think pandemic and covid becoming rampant again.  

I would never kiss 10 guys in 1 week. High risk, and since the pandemic I am extremely low to no volume because of the facts. No judgement, but that’s a lot of traffic. Fortunately, I have the freedom to choose who is in my company.

Email only baby. Being on your phone is just rude.

Some of my reviews show frustration at finding a woman to be nothing like what's in the photos or webpage description.  The turnover of providers in my area seems rather frequent, so in many cases there are no reviews.  Consequently us Hobbyists must have the attitude of TOFFTT.  Many of the Providers show photos that are old with ads that understate their weight by significant amounts.  I am pretty sure that's no accident.   ( I actually prefer that women don't show their faces).  Many of the liaisons I schedule occur during a business day or during travel.  Time management is of the essence.  In some cases, I could just turn around and leave, but then I am more disappointed than if I just complete the session.  I wonder, however, how Providers can expect return visits as the reality of their physical state is apparent.

When you leave your dollars and go through with the session you have just told her her marketing is working.! Would you have gone to see her with real pictures?
You are as guilty as she is .

...you have only seen low-rent, low-class Skip The Games hookers.  
You get what you pay for.  You probably used to find providers on Backpage and Craig's List, didn't you?

Stop it. Condoning false advertisement is not a good look.

No reviews since 2016 calling out a guy on who he sees who has over 20 reviews in 2022.  This is a review site, and guys that contribute reviews are valuable to the community.  Guys that don't are just dead weight.  (No pun intended.)  

Isn't any better. I'm guessing GaG is dead weight to you eh?

as any reviewer.  When TER was growing quickly in the beginning, they needed board moderators who could volunteer several hours DAILY, without compensation, and GaG stepped up and served the community in this direct way until TER became large enough to hire moderators on staff.  We all benefit from his service because this site might not have survived to it's present form without the volunteers who stepped up at that time during a transitional phase in TER's growth.  I would call him an exception to the general rule that members' worth to the TER community is generally proportional to their experience in P4P, and the number of reviews is often a tangible reflection of that worth.   Nice try, but a complete failure trying to discount my point that this is a review site.  You like outliers, and in this case you picked on outlier to try to make your point, but it failed.  

During the years he was a Mod TER had a rule that the volunteer Mods were forbidden from reviewing. So he couldn't have reviewed even if he wanted to.

You should let them know no perfume, that’s a easy fix!

My pet peeves are those “you available” texts followed by a disappearance as soon as I mention to provide the info I request on my ads or (preferably) fill out the reservation form on my website.
There is a reason I have a website and a form to fill out, it saves time and makes it easier to move forward. Those that don’t do that are not serious.

Thanks for reminding me and everyone else.  

with no reviews.  MOST are deadweight.  GaG was an exception because of his other contributions.  I don't think you can point to too many others here that you can say that about.  My hat also goes off to all the guys like Nicky, GaG, Robertini and others that stayed on the boards through the TER blackout and kept the community alive in a friendly and light-hearted way.  Another way to make a contribution during hard times other then reviews. but under normal circumstances, reviews are the name of the game here.  

but he actually moderated several boards at different points in time and this went on for years.

As someone that can be late/behind schedule (mostly due to stuff in my regular life), I 100% agree with you.

Keep in mind that not everyone has such flexibility in their schedule, even to accept your willingness to stay longer. Some clients set aside the presumed clock time (X:XX to Y:YY) and their prep + travel before and cleanup + travel after to get to their next commitment: back to work, dinner with family, movie with friends, etc. with etc..  
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If your scheduling issues are habitual, try to find a way to feel out your clients BEFORE you find out that they can't take advantage of your generosity. "X:XX is fine with me. However, traffic is sometimes unpredictable from where I'll be ... Are you on a really tight schedule? If I'm a little late, can you stay? Even if I'm late, I guarantee that you'll get the full hour or more." Hmmm, there must be a better way to make sure you know if their schedule is tight or loose.

...April 28, 2010.  To his credit, GaG moderated up to 10 boards at the same time although most of them were regional boards which had very few posts.

on the Newbie Board. He doesn't post much there but when he does his handle appears in orange.

Always request no perfume or scented sprays explicitly. Best to do that either the day before or that morning so they don't forget.

AFAIK, PS hasn't changed his handle.

I agree with you. How can it be GFE without DFK? I find making out with lots of DFK gets me warmed up for amazing lovemaking. What's more GFE than that.