When you are looking for the perfect girl.  Do you match the donation with the type of services offered? Or do you match the donation with the looks?  

but there is an even more important, and somewhat ineffable quality,  namely the right attitude and personality I seek.  I believe this quality comes across in the gal's website, and more importantly, her comportment on the boards, which is how I often gain interest in the gal in question.

I look for women who are similar in beauty to the ones who pursue me in real life.  Then I look at services, reviews, and whatever else will tell me about her personality and business ethic.  I also aim for rates that are slightly under average for my market.  So, I will not be ripped off by some $1,000 ditzy blonde who's not even worth $50.

She better be part of a major law firm representing me in a capital murder trial. A thousand bucks an hour to fuck??? No thank you, no matter how hot or what kind of services she offers. It simply isn't worth it to me. I don't begrudge women for asking whatever the market can bear, just count me out where it comes to the HDH's

every area has it's market based GFE price range....anything outside of this range usually offers things the others don't.

but SERVICE is the name of the game. I've been with less attractive (being nice) that have rocked my world and gorgeous women  (Mt ex) that were cold fish. You guess what I'd pick if they were the last two women in the world.

...so my selection then becomes based on services offered, and above all her genuine bisexuality.  

First filter .... Is she hot?

First off, it is impossible to imagine paying $1000 an hour for anything.  

I look for value at a reasonable price with an athletic natural body most of the time who has above average scores. Don't always go for that as this hobby has taught me many different things about what I like. I can afford anyone but refuse to pay big money on a women who isn't going to offer x or y service at a grand an hour. A women who charges a grand an hour and doesn't kiss or do anal isn't worth a grand but that's my opinion yet someone who does everything who charges 300 might be worth 600 which is the type of provider I look for .  

but then I actually read your post and found absolutely NOTHING to disagree with.

...I have a few services I require. Without those I'm not seeing her no matter what. There must be kissing. LFK minimum. There must be bbbj. There must be intercourse, covered. Like mrfisher said I want good looks but quality of service is more important than looks.

w/o divulging details, a woman who charged sky high rates saw me at a reduced rate once... and she wasnt' even worth the reduced rate!  she was not bad, but nothing special, nothing i couldn't get for half the price of the reduced rate i paid.

ECON 101 was many moons ago so I lifted this off the web. Man, if I was in college now with the internet and Google ... I'd have a 4.0

something to think about if she is not giving it her all with you. She may have given her all to the full paying customers throughout the rest of the day though. Who asked for the discount or did she offer it? Who mentioned rates too high first?

Doesn't seem to make any sense to me to take someone's money then deliver sub par service.

Peter,
     Your a better man than me. I walked away from someone I really liked because of that same line. I am not grandfathering anyone anymore. Told her best of luck and to keep my number I was fine never seeing her again a few weeks later I got an email that she would love me to come back at the old rate and sent the same email to a few other people. Sometimes you have to play hardball. If enough people say no to that behavior prices won't hit 1000 for less than stellar providers. Who your talking about is a great provider. She might be the next provider I see. Everyone is replaceable in this business that's how I think.

need to read the details in the reviews to get an understanding of her performance. Certain things are deal breakers including BBBJ, kissing (both LFK and DFK), GFE (my definition includes the previous mentioned items as well as a non-rush atmosphere), etc. This package needs to be at a competitive price point.

I definitely prefer performance over looks!

But they are not of equal of importance.

you DON'T get to provide a subpar performance UNLESS you've explained that he's getting a limited menu with you choosinguys what he gets and he accepts it and understands he ain't getting the full Monty ... you sound a little vindictive...  

I think most guys and ladies have a general idea of what most would accept as "decent" look but after that point, it becomes very subjective based on individual's taste.  I don't pay because someone supposedly looks like "Miss America" or "Miss Universe".  Hell, I don't even typically care to see ladies that would be in that age range. I pay for great service, excellent attitude, and super good hygiene.  That's the value proposition for me.  Since we are on this subject, I think the numeric rating system is the biggest bunch of BS ever created. Just my opinion.  As an example what the hell does "Once in a Life Time" mean?  My once in a life time experience as for as appearance and performance is probably very different from most unless we've done some type of calibration on our experiences, likes, and dislikes.  I'm typically just as suspicious of someone with all perfect scores and I am with someone with low scores.  Thank God for back channel.

Of course I have been told that I am an "acquired taste" lol

...I'm looking for someone who attracts me and I think that we'll enjoy each other BCD.  

I'm not talking safety risk, but if I'm paying for great looks (which is big for me) am I sure her pics are accurate. Despite being disappointed a few times, I've never had the nerve to just walk away from a provider who's looks didn't live up to my expectation.

I would prefer balance.  I personally would not pay $1,000 for 60 minutes without sensual acts such as kissing with tongue, etc.  Even if porn stars such as Crystal Wilder or Christy Canyon were available.

Happens all the time.  I know for a fact that many places will give Groupon or LivingSocial customers lower quality service than full paying customers.  Defeats the purpose of offering those in the first place (drumming up new business), but not every service provider is professional.

of looks, services provided and price. What makes me repeat regularly are personality and performance. Drop the Mic.

I prefer to stay in house, with my Circle of Friends.  We stay in contact, and know when and where to meet if things are right.  As for adventuring outside the box, I have found that M&G's work best in meeting new ladies to see.  But that's just what worked for me for the past decade.  The few times I've had to play conventionally...hits at almost 1.000.   It isn't that hard...listen to what the ladies tell you regarding screening, and cooperate with them.

down and spread your legs because they have an enormous new strap on they want to try out do you cooperate with them? Inquiring minds want to know.

Yes  
That is unless I pissed  her off first.
Then I check the size of the strap on

Not just the services listed, but will she provide that experience where the two (or three) of us get totally lost in each other for the two or more hours, where nothing else in the world matters. Quiet music in the background, soft lighting, no phones, nothing else but me and her. Total focus on each other and the pleasures that two (or three) people can explore together.  I don't always find it, but when I do, it is wonderful. For both of us.

The more you pay the better the service. Thus, I always offer a provider twice what she asks.  
 

I mean, if she is fugly I will see that in her pics whereas BBBJCIM, enthusiasm in the sack,etc and a great attitude can only be verified by reviews (or word of mouth).  Appearance is fleeting and ephemeral.  Close your eyes and feel with your hands and other appendages and 9 times oit of 10 you end up seeing the Hot Milfs over the vapid bored 19 year olds who are being fawned over for looks but can't fuck her way out of a paper bag.

As a provider. We go through a lot that the Hobbyists do not see from our side of the so called table.  
   We put ourselves at more of a risk then the hobbyists know. If the police get wind of what we do.  
   Then we suffer possible jail time for prostitution(Which is what the law sees this is). In my 21 years of '
   doing this I have seen so many ladies getting arrested because they are just right out stupid when it  
   comes to covering their own asses. They think of the cash before they think of covering their asses.  
   And it does not matter how much she verifies the hobbyist. There's always a risk of getting caught by  
   the police. No site or paper is that secure anymore. You'll be surprised as to how quickly police get  
   wind of where female advertise and how the female advertise. That's why some females do high price.  
   The  female figures that if she's going to jail then she'll make as much as she can till she gets caught  
   and end up bailing herself out and not have to worry about loosing too much money$$$$$

Price, services and looks. I will take less services if the woman is gorgeous or is of a certain ethnic background, and charging a fair price. All of the women I have been with in the hobby have been 8+ in looks. Some offered more services than I could imagine, which meant they offered the services I wanted with a little more, while others offered just a GFE with French Kissing and BBBJ.

but it's no fun knowing you don't really mean it. lol

i never ask for a discount, she offered it up front.  if i think a rate is too high for me, i don't even bother to approach a woman.  haggling is unseemly, and ungentlemanly.

you are right, everyone is replacable in a way.  however everyone is unique as well.  this girl and i click really well, her skills are amazing, and in fact above the average skills i find in my travels.  she tours my city about 4 times a year, so i decided instead of seeing her all 4 times i'll cut back to twice a year at the higher rate.

Inquiring minds wish to know what you meant.  Note: spelling errors indicate stupidity, and that turns most ladies off.  Conclusion: you are stupid.  

You've been here for many years and it's a pretty well known fact that you are a leading candidate for BSU.

I subconsciously use the same system,

Thanks for your unsolicited comments.  They mean about as much as a $3 bill.  

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